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Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Romzyj: 2:23am On Jan 14, 2015
Some men are in the habit of forcing themselves
on their wives, believing that they have a right
to sex at anytime, whether the wives like it or
not. Is this right or wrong?
Rape » is the act of having unlawful carnal
knowledge of a woman or girl without her
consent or with her consent but obtained by
using force, threat or intimidation.
This kind of rape also happens among married
people. Victims of such acts have been reported
to live with stress, fear, anxiety, and guilt for
‘provoking’ the abuse and are frequently
subjected to intense criticism.
For most Nigerian men, sex with their wives is
their rights and the woman should not give any
excuse whenever her husband is in the mood,
no mater how tired or weak she is.
Some of these men feel that since they are the
ones who married the women, then sex is one
of the main reasons they got married in the
first place.
Sadly, some cultures give credence to the fact
that a woman has no right over her body and
should never say 'no' to her husband. This has
led to many men sexually abusing their wives
and they do not see this as an offence because
they are lords of the homes.
The society we live in also does not seem to
believe that a man can actually rape his wife
nor see anything bad in marital rape.
Some women too cannot even complain that
they were raped by their husbands as no one
would take them serious.
http://www.zroclan.com/2015/01/is-marital-rape-abuse-or-right.html?m=1

Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by MrCork: 2:26am On Jan 14, 2015
Romzyj:
Some men are in the habit of forcing themselves
on their wives, believing that they have a right
to sex at anytime, whether the wives like it or
not. Is this right or wrong?
Rape » is the act of having unlawful carnal
knowledge of a woman or girl without her
consent or with her consent but obtained by
using force, threat or intimidation.
This kind of rape also happens among married
people. Victims of such acts have been reported
to live with stress, fear, anxiety, and guilt for
‘provoking’ the abuse and are frequently
subjected to intense criticism.
For most Nigerian men, sex with their wives is
their rights and the woman should not give any
excuse whenever her husband is in the mood,
no mater how tired or weak she is.
Some of these men feel that since they are the
ones who married the women, then sex is one
of the main reasons they got married in the
first place.
Sadly, some cultures give credence to the fact
that a woman has no right over her body and
should never say 'no' to her husband. This has
led to many men sexually abusing their wives
and they do not see this as an offence because
they are lords of the homes.
The society we live in also does not seem to
believe that a man can actually rape his wife
nor see anything bad in marital rape.
Some women too cannot even complain that
they were raped by their husbands as no one
would take them serious.
http://zroclans..in/2015/01/is-marital-rape-abuse-or-right.html?m=0

angry

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Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by MrCork: 2:29am On Jan 14, 2015
Romzyj:
Some men are in the habit of forcing themselves
on their wives, believing that they have a right
to sex at anytime, whether the wives like it or
not. Is this right or wrong?
Rape » is the act of having unlawful carnal
knowledge of a woman or girl without her
consent or with her consent but obtained by
using force, threat or intimidation.
This kind of rape also happens among married
people. Victims of such acts have been reported
to live with stress, fear, anxiety, and guilt for
‘provoking’ the abuse and are frequently
subjected to intense criticism.
For most Nigerian men, sex with their wives is
their rights and the woman should not give any
excuse whenever her husband is in the mood,
no mater how tired or weak she is.
Some of these men feel that since they are the
ones who married the women, then sex is one
of the main reasons they got married in the
first place.
Sadly, some cultures give credence to the fact
that a woman has no right over her body and
should never say 'no' to her husband. This has
led to many men sexually abusing their wives
and they do not see this as an offence because
they are lords of the homes.
The society we live in also does not seem to
believe that a man can actually rape his wife
nor see anything bad in marital rape.
Some women too cannot even complain that
they were raped by their husbands as no one
would take them serious.
http://zroclans..in/2015/01/is-marital-rape-abuse-or-right.html?m=0


...so u r sayn we men shud stop liking punnny and become g@y?..abi?....sweeery are u one of those feminist iBO women from Lagos? angry

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Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Ploy(m): 2:52am On Jan 14, 2015
When I chose to get married despite the fact that everything I see warns me not to.

When I know I can get se.x everywhere, on the street, in the bucket, at the cafe, even in the church. I chose to go by the old tradition of family institution; to make it worst, for better for, worse in the church.

Now konji de worry me, he even wan burst ma blucus, my lawful wedded wife whom I so much love, cherish and selected out of many com de tell me say she no wan do. If you no wan eat for house, watin you chop outside?

I may not force her but she will force me to get a spare lady outside.


Marital rape ko, academic rape ni. Any lady that believe all these mumbo jumbo is doom because there is nothing like marital rap.e

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Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Nobody: 2:54am On Jan 14, 2015
It's an abuse,cos the lady involved might not be interested at that particular time.

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Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by xpac01(m): 3:23am On Jan 14, 2015
When am trying to force my way out of temptation.?? My wife should just know is right and 'enjoy' the rape.

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Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by gbenga4my(m): 3:26am On Jan 14, 2015
It's an abuse, but d fact remains dt it's wrong for a wife to deny her husband

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Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by golor(m): 3:33am On Jan 14, 2015
Inasmuch as u call it rape, u hv answered d question ur self,it wrong,bad,immoral nd unethical.we all hv our ryt to say no to sex,weda married or not.a married woman can sue her husband to court nd win d case cos a forceful canal knowledge it against d law,weda married or not....

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Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Nobody: 3:41am On Jan 14, 2015
MrCork:



...so u r sayn we men shud stop liking punnny and become g@y?..abi?....sweeery are u one of those feminist iBO women from Lagos? angry
haha grin
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Nobody: 3:51am On Jan 14, 2015
It's wrong!.If consenting to marriage, included consenting to sex whenever the husband wants, it would make the wife a sex slave undecided. So no, it doesn't go that way. A wife gets to decide whether she wants to have sex with her husband any time, and she can say no every time. There's only one argument that even needs to be considered, "No" means "no!!!", regardless of how the man will feel.

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Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by AndreRose(f): 4:01am On Jan 14, 2015
Nneka123:
It's wrong!.If consenting to marriage, included consenting to sex whenever the husband wants, it would make the wife a sex slave undecided. So no, it doesn't go that way. A wife gets to decide whether she wants to have sex with her husband any time, and she can say no every time. There's only one argument that even needs to be considered, "No" means "no!!!", regardless of how the man will feel.
she can say no EVERYTIME Hope u dnt plan doing dat wen u get married.

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Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Nobody: 5:03am On Jan 14, 2015
AndreRose:

she can say no EVERYTIME Hope u dnt plan doing dat wen u get married.
I meant any time, and yeah! i get to choose when i want to have sex with my husband, i have to be in the mood, he can't force me lipsrsealed
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Welrez(m): 6:03am On Jan 14, 2015
I don't know what a man will do to satisfy a woman. You marry many wives, na wahala. You no marry many wives but to take what you lawfully paid to enjoy, na wahala. Ok, you come go outside to make up 4 her refusal because she no dey the mood, she go tag you a cheat. Wetin una want make man do na? I'm beginning to believe that some men are living in a 'sex desert' in their marriages. No wonder more men cheat on their wives and I wholeheartedly support a man who cheats under these circumstances. Where you want make him pour the conji put? Na for toilet or sink?

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Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by stmartynz(m): 6:51am On Jan 14, 2015
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Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Nutase: 8:14am On Jan 14, 2015
una don come again...wetin i no go see for nl.
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by AndreRose(f): 8:18am On Jan 14, 2015
Nneka123:
I meant any time, and yeah! i get to choose when i want to have sex with my husband, i have to be in the mood, he can't force me lipsrsealed
well; the choice is urs: but u shud knw dat denying him EVERYTYM is not the best. Am not saying dat you cnt say ''no'' sumtyms.
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Nobody: 8:47am On Jan 14, 2015
Nneka123:
It's wrong!.If consenting to marriage, included consenting to sex whenever the husband wants, it would make the wife a sex slave undecided. So no, it doesn't go that way. A wife gets to decide whether she wants to have sex with her husband any time, and she can say no every time. There's only one argument that even needs to be considered, "No" means "no!!!", regardless of how the man will feel.

If No is no without gud reasons that will convince ur man then she sud get a divorce nd leave d relationship cuz dere is no such thing like Marital rape. he won't even be charge to the court of law if u get injured in the prosses.
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Nobody: 5:50pm On Jan 14, 2015
funmilayoB:


If No is no without gud reasons that will convince ur man then she sud get a divorce nd leave d relationship cuz dere is no such thing like Marital rape. he won't even be charge to the court of law if u get injured in the prosses.
Then a divorce it will be then! No man will treat me like a slave, all because he needs satisfaction so bad, by inflicting pain on me, No way!
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Jan 14, 2015
Nneka123:
Then a divorce it will be then! No man will treat me like a slave, all because he needs satisfaction so bad, by inflicting pain on me, No way!

Please don't get married with this mindset,cos you'll only hurt yourself

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Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by mirexxx(f): 7:33pm On Jan 14, 2015
its an abuse!
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jan 14, 2015
MrCork:


angry

its sad sad situation in africa i see
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Josydaky(f): 8:25pm On Jan 14, 2015
JIC
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Nobody: 8:43pm On Jan 14, 2015
bisous:


Please don't get married with this mindset,cos you'll only hurt yourself
Marriage isn't alll that!
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by lovemaths(f): 3:48am On Jan 15, 2015
in case fp. let me try my luck. It is an abuse.
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Nobody: 3:57am On Jan 15, 2015
I will answer you when am married
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by DeeCherry(f): 4:14am On Jan 15, 2015
It is an abuse but the bible has made it clear that women should be submissive to their husbands.
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Nobody: 4:16am On Jan 15, 2015
I will comment when am married,but now...SPEECHLESS
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Nobody: 4:57am On Jan 15, 2015
AndreRose:

she can say no EVERYTIME Hope u dnt plan doing dat wen u get married.
Let us see how far she can go in marriage.
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by Nobody: 5:00am On Jan 15, 2015
bisous:


Please don't get married with this mindset,cos you'll only hurt yourself
She can't. Trust me. And she won't.
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by mrdino(m): 5:36am On Jan 15, 2015
AndreRose:

she can say no EVERYTIME Hope u dnt plan doing dat wen u get married.
dnt mind her, perhaps she wants d house maid assistin her by sleepin wt her hubby or she might even get an assistant wife.lol
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by AndreRose(f): 5:47am On Jan 15, 2015
tpacalipse:
Let us see how far she can go in marriage.
i jux hope she chngs her mind on the EVERYTIME
Re: Is Marital Rape An Abuse Or A Right? by AndreRose(f): 5:50am On Jan 15, 2015
mrdino:

dnt mind her, perhaps she wants d house maid assistin her by sleepin wt her hubby or she might even get an assistant wife.lol
lol. Funny you @ assistant wife

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