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Does He Really Love You? by kevinedet01: 2:12pm On Jan 15, 2015
When we fall in love, everything changes. I understand how much you may want to be in love and how much you adore the man you're seeing, but you cannot just take what a man says for granted. If you feel he is starting to send you mixed signals and play head games with you and is not genuine and authentic about wanting a serious relationship.

Some women go crazy over a man and become his slave by cooking for him, doing his laundry, giving him money, and they can't stop. They become a submissive slave for his affection and the only joy she gets is when he is reciprocating her giving behavior. It's human nature to take advantage of people. But it's not healthy when you're in a relationship to be so used. You're setting yourself up to be exploited and used when you do every thing a man tells you to do.

Don't tolerate partial relationships. Partial relationships are relationships with men that never go anywhere. When you only see him during the week, and never on the weekends that's a partial relationship. The problem is that it's not balanced. He only wants to see you when he is in the mood, everything is at his convenience. Do you see how you become subservient to his needs?

Partial relationships are a way for him to get his needs for sex, and companionship all without the cost of having to deal with being true to you and other issues about commitment. It's nothing but a big scam, and you get the raw end of the deal. He will be spending time with other women, doing what he wants all without a care for you. And honestly, how does it feel to you - knowing that he's always going to be out feeling attraction for other women?

The way to get out is all about affirmations like the old saying of mind over matter. If you think you are, you are right. If you think you're not, you are also right. Women need to stop doubting themselves and taking on the role of a victim. You are worthy of love. Be mature and focus on yourself, and truly feel secure about who you are. Be the best women that you can be, for your own personal satisfaction. Make the effort of looking and being your best you for you not for anyone else. This will make you extremely confident all of the time. Beside being confidant, women need to kick all the bad thought about herself out of her head.

And don't forget, you are not going to be alone forever, you can always find someone else, anyone who is a jerk to themselves or others will end up alone if they carry on with their problems without solving them.

True beauty and attractiveness as lame and cheesy as it sounds, truly comes from within. It is the power from knowing that absolutely no one is like you. Think about it this way, it is the art of being yourself that is beautiful. Sure there are other women who are totally older, uglier or smarter but they are not you! You are unique! And you only live once.

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Re: Does He Really Love You? by Redoil: 2:20pm On Jan 15, 2015
The problem with human species is the true defination of love.
The defination of love To most men are sex romancing each other and telling women what they want to hear.
Re: Does He Really Love You? by merit12(f): 6:24pm On Jan 15, 2015
I come in peace
Re: Does He Really Love You? by Ayoakinkahunsi(m): 7:54pm On Jan 15, 2015
our woman really need sensitisation a lot all this there desperate attempt are at the detriment of the good ones
Re: Does He Really Love You? by Mzgracie(f): 8:56pm On Jan 15, 2015
Ladies, most times are clouded by the feelings....


They simply go blind when they fall in love.... That's our weakness....

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