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| Is This A Taboo? by Michellebaby(f): 10:40pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Hi people, I would like sincere response please. I was dating this guy based in Nigeria. I'm based in the UK. So I went to visit him in Nigeria and one thing led to the other, we slept together and later found out i was pregnant! I'm against abortion so i decided to keep the baby. Later found out he is still with his ex girlfriend who has a child for him and this lead me to disconnect communication or any relationship with him. However, for the past 2 years i have a friend who has been there for me through everything through my breakups and messed up times he supported me because he wanted to be with me. So i explained the situation about the pregnancy and he was still willing to stand by me and be the baby father if i let him... My question is because I and the guy now decided to give it a go and see if we work out is it wrong for me to want to have sex with him while still pregnant and its not his pregnancy? |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
wtf!  |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by yemicoal(m): 10:43pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
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| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
In yoruba land,it's a no no and a taboo...but am not sure it's taboo every where I don't even believe in the fallacy |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
you see the reason why they keep bashing us (ladies) on this section! Jeez! why do you want to have sex with another man, even when you're already pregnant! that he made stupid promises to father your child, doesn't really mean you should have sex with him!  have some dignity! and get out of the first mess you created already, before thinking about sleeping with this new man of yours, okay!! 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Joshkid(m): 10:47pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
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| Re: Is This A Taboo? by ronald4lif(m): 10:47pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
There's nothing wrong. In fact, you need sex more now that you are expecting to enable a smooth delivery I am only surprised he finds you sexually attractive when you are expecting someone else's child Enjoy banging no time  |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 10:49pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Must you Bleep? But I understand sha... Everybody knows that in reality, most guys may not stay loyal if you dont give them the cookie. Its a sad world right now. Sis, you dont have to sleep with him now. Focus on giving birth. If however you feel you dont care what happens afterwards... Like you just want to get yourself satisfied then the ball is in your court. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by ronald4lif(m): 10:49pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Nneka123: Are you a market spoiler? |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by justmag(m): 10:51pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Seee question! Is she seriously asking this??  |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
ronald4lif:what's that suppose to mean? |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by ronald4lif(m): 10:52pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
OP on another note do you love this guy sincerely or you are going out with him because he promised to take care of your unborn baby? |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Beamborla(f): 10:52pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
I was expecting to see I've decided to stay without sex for 20 yrs. It's not ideal, my sister. Even if you give it a go anyway, taboo or not, human beings can be funny. Sometimes in the future, he can use it to insult you. Sex is not a payment for any form of help not mentioning the fact that you have another man's child in you. 3 Likes |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
ronald4lif:Are you serious? |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by soorence(m): 10:53pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
The guy in question is the one to give you the right answer |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by justmag(m): 10:54pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Nneka123: Tell her please!! How do you leave one dirty to jump into mug. You found someone that wants to stand by you and your instincts are connected to sex! Be wise!! Don't make this man have second thoughts. Deliver this baby first and deal with that situation. |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by ronald4lif(m): 10:55pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Nneka123: I don't like it when a bobo is smoothing his packaging and someone is putting sand in their garri 1 Like |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by iceberylin(m): 10:57pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Go do punny deliverance |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Michellebaby(f): 10:57pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Genuinely i love him, he is like my best-friend who i confide in with everything..... Its not because of the promise, people break promises is because of how real he has been with me since we been friends.. |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
justmag:Don't mind her, well it's her vagiina!  |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:00pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Nneka123: how do u suggest for her to get out of the first mess? :DDD abort the baby? or leave by the door step? which one u r suggesting in order to get out of "her mess"? why she wants to have sex with another man? because previous is gone for good, and apparently good liar as well. so what u saying that second man will stay with her and take her kid as his for nothing? u joking me rite? |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
it seems to me that pregnant women don't fucck in nigeria is it truth?1 Like |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
ronald4lif:eh! so you're encouraging her to go have sex with this new guy, what if he leaves when the child is born? and then she goes on and on ranting on how her life is miserable, tsssk! |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by dechandel(f): 11:03pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Sweetie fire dey go Bang like you dont give a Zap Add another foetus to the one developing While i refresh Nairaland everyday for points on why girls have fish brain |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
voodoo85:By getting out of the first mess, i meant she should have the baby first before thinking about having sex with this new guy of hers! and secondly! you don't know men, They could sweet-talk you into believing their silly promises! trust me! when this child is born, the guy won't stay for long, he's not the Father |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
dechandel:i mean arrrgh! this is so annoying! |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by emperorchedda(m): 11:10pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Nothing is wrong, just have your fun tomorrow will take care of itself |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:18pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Nneka123: so what? maybe she jst need sex thats all. hormone changes etc. its not like she is gonna get double pregnant to be honest i don't understand the guy anyway. i would never ever stick with someone with a kid. |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by ronald4lif(m): 11:20pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Michellebaby: Okay no one here can really give you the advise you need, Nigerians are very hypocritical so don't take every advise you get here including mine My two cent advise is if he loves you, you love him, he treats you right and does everything right to your expectations then I still maintain there's nothing wrong with having sex with him, it's healthy for the baby as well. Many that kicks against it here will obliged to such demands Best advise is that you give yourself 2 Likes |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:25pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
voodoo85:So you finally get my point!  , you prolly don't want to stick with someone with a kid already! and there's a possibility that the new guy won't stick with her for long! i understand that she's pregnant, and pregnant women go through mood swings and all that, but she can try and control the urge, instead of having sex with someone who is not the Father of her unborn child, and by the way do you do voodoo?  |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by ronald4lif(m): 11:29pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Nneka123: What if he doesn't leaves? Sex or the lack of it is not a guarantee a guy is staying. Many couples weds everyday and most of them have had sex. What's the big deal in sex by the way? Some trophy or award? 3 Likes |
| Re: Is This A Taboo? by Nobody: 11:33pm On Jan 16, 2015 |
Nneka123: why to control the urge if daddy long lost and plus its good for a baby. of course i do. do u want me to do it on u? |
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