| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 2:46pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Hmmm anyway that's funny.what you will do is to meet mama when ur wife is not at home,benown in her front and say:
Mama you are our mother,and I know that you will not be happy seeing me figthing with my wife,I realy appreciate ur courage for not telling my wife what you saw,realy am very sory,it is the work of devil but I have repentet and I will ask my wife frnd to go since you are here.thank you mummy appreciate ur comming.that's all. |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by macdelene(m): 2:47pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
macdelene:
you make me laugh , u are here asking if to let wumi go? she should be out of your house before u even start sending this chat that should be the first step. and u self , u wanted to fool around , u nw decided to do it inside your house. you are playing with fire oo my friend . secondly try and get your mother-in law alone and kneel down and apologize, she might end up forgiving u and give u some advice that u really need to take serious becos she would not want to be the one to destroy her daughter's marriage.
And my advice to u watch out and respect yourself, u not a teenager anymore, your recklessness should stop. and if ur wife friend can do it then he can kill you wife and een u. beware and bewarned 1 Like |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Lepetitechic(f): 2:49pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
zeefa:
Please, I need a serious advise from people in the house. I really don't know what to say to my mother in-law, may be to beg her or ignored as if nothing happen.
Let me give you a little summary of what happened to me.
My wife just put to bed and the whole loads of work have been much for her that she called on her friend who just graduated from the university to come and stay with us so that she could help with little work at home.
We didn't have problem with her because it will save her from paying bills whereas we have more space in our own house for her to occupy free of charge without having to pay any bills.
She was so hard-working and even without telling her,she knows what to do at the right time. She does all the cooking for us and most time before I get home from work, she calls me to ask what I would love to have for dinner which she will gladly organise.
Gradually, we get little bit close and talk freely to each other without having to define our boundaries.
Wumi is a dark skinned chobby lady with a 42DD size (please don't ask me how I got to know her size). And am sure those that have the picture of sizes on their brain will understand my point. It was tempting.
It all started when I got home and saw her cooking with one nasty top showing off her assets. She caught my attention and smiled and I returned my gesture given her a soft smile too and that was how the whole madness started.
My mother in-law just came from nigeria few days ago to help us as well. But left for me, I was enjoying the new atmosphere with Wumi in our house.
Just yesterday the nasty incident happened. Mama caught me in d washroom kissing and touching wumi  . Meanwhile, my wife went for Dr appointment for our son with cold.
Right now, I'm afraid because mama didn't say anything and I don't know how to convince her as well.
Wumi is not comfortable at home again and I can't look into ma ma's face anymore.
The funny thing is that mama didn't discuss what she saw with my wife because I knew if my wife heard, in fact, I wont be on nairaland now to narrate the story of my life.
Please, do I call mama and beg her? Or should I just ask my wife to allow her (wumi) go since mama is around. ?
I'm really confused here because I can't not face or talk to Mama freely at home anymore.
Please what do I do?
I opened this topic and I saw shame running for the hills, op that's your shame ooo you have no shame at all 42DD?really? That's all it takes, your kid had a cold for crying out loud!! wth is wrong with you?! I "piri" your wife, you are a d-bag who knows nothing about respect if you did you wouldn't be smooching her 42DD breastfriend. I bet you want to hear ignore it and keep on smooching abi? You had better kick that 2 timing no good home wrecker out your house talk to mama apologize then treat the missus out tell her what happened, apologize as many times a possible and actually MEAN IT. SMH the nerve of some people mtchewwwwwwwwwww 1 Like |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Eberex(m): 2:52pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
kuzee:
even if she does, dnt you think it will have any effect on her daughter and her father,especially the whole family when they found about d blackmail .
you dnt nid to ask me if i ws there..the op has already spill out the answer..
first her daughter gave birth,wnt she be happy herself to be called a grandmama,
secondly she came all d way from nigeria..
God brought her there to catch the devil cz he doesnt want to spoil the home..God hs a way of doing things,suppose he wasnt caught..the marriage will be far dead.. I hope to God you are right |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Neplusultra(f): 2:55pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Still dis same people! Make wetin happen for badoo no happen again o.  |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Missmossy(f): 2:56pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
 Its so not nice,the man though  2 Likes |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by donodion(m): 3:18pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Keep browsing her website u hear...wife friend wey get size 42 D....yeye....soon ur friend too go dey sample your wife and come to NL to shout "SOS,my friends wife breast milk tast funny". 2 Likes |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by charly85: 3:23pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Please tell your wife what happened and also mama cos she will be havn it in mind always
Clear the ground so dat you ll hv peace of mind in your house.
Remember if u did nt, any corner of d house u jam mama,
Ur mind ll fly. After dat, let Wunmi leave d house for more peace.
COURAGE MAN |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Dstarst(f): 3:48pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Re U nt srry of wot u did, or finding ways to cover up ur mess? If u're srry, tell ur her wife abt it n ask 4 her 4giviness n den, let d girl leave 4 gud. |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by killercute16(m): 4:04pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Cutehector4u:
wats hard dr, my wife I kissed sumbody and am deeply sorry for it. I am not fit to be called ur husband anymore, please treat me as one of ur ex boyfriends. And d wife wil say oh no, u r my husband and all my heart is yours. I hav forgiven u already, and she wil tell d gateman to go and kill goat. Looooooooooooool Your comments are really are really hilarious. |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by killercute16(m): 4:10pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
ronald4lif:
You have to pretend as if nothing happened and don't plead with the mom. It's possible she didn't clearly see what happened between you and the girl. And you pleading with her will throw all her doubts. But even if she did she may not want to tell her daughter so as to avoid problems and avoidable issues in your marriage. Maybe it's time to let your wife friend leave the house to avoid more drama. And just be more nice to your wife and your mom now generally.
But if your mother in-law finally tells her daughter what transpired please deny it completely. You can say you were passing by and along the line you heard the friend calling for help and you went to assist her (if it was a kitchen incident you could say things like oil poured on her and you had to quickly get a cloth to clean up the mess on her) and was only trying to help before mama came in. Don't make it appear as if mama is lying but rather that yes she saw you both but didn't get the exact picture of what was happening. You can discuss whatever story you may want to say with the girl so you both can have same story.
Wumi should leave the house And if am telling peeps that the devil is still learning how to lie...them go doubt me....CHAI!!! 1 Like |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by digitsolution: 4:16pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Sure this ain't some episode from super story.
Anyways this is some really akward situation! 
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| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Amazo: 4:46pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
@ OP : you're obviously a learner. Don't mind all these "children" telling you to send Wunmi packing. That's not the root cause. Wunmi has no fault in this whatsoever. Even if you send her away, you'll always meet other Wunmi's - at work, at Church, at the mall, at the hospital...wherever! Wunmi here is a 42DD = big br eas.ted woman, and that's your personal weakness. You have a strong affinity for women with huge b.o .obs -- you're not alone, I do too. This is the real challenge you have here. So this is a personal "flaw" area you need to work on. Forget about the little smooching session you had; count it as a misdemeanor, same way your mother-in-law counts it and this is why she overlooked it. Don't crucify yourself with guilt, as that won't help matters. No need also to tell your wife about this. Don't ruin a good friendship because of your own personal shortcomings. Remember, you're the predator here and Wunmi is actually a victim. You went on her, not the other way around. So, work on yourself instead to be a better husband. Heck you slipped once, but it shouldn't be a destructive event.
And this goes for all you "small boys" out there, if you love big b o o b s, then marry a girl with one, so you won't have this kind of dilemma. It is very tormenting to the soul. Ask the OP if you doubt this. From his narrative, you can tell his wife has small milkshakes and my niggah likes them big by neurological programming. Simply put OP you are physically wired in your frameup to be attracted to big milkshakes. So at this point, you need to re-programme your mind. Good luck! 2 Likes |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by princesa(f): 4:57pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
First talk with your mother in law and sort it out with her.
Know what level she wants to take it. If she wants to ignore it or if she wants to spill.
She's older and can understand the workings of temptation, especially in men. I'm sure if she's a good mother she'd know how to handle it in her daughter's marriage so it doesn't blow out of proportion.
But Whichever, don't just pretend it didn't happen. |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 5:24pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
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| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
killercute16:
Your comments are really are really hilarious. lolz dats me. No dull moment |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
simdam500:
U ehn!
Sounds like u.... bribe police  let's just say am just a guyman who knws wat women want |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 5:35pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Haryoryhemie:
Very funny, lolzzz hehehe  its not like he slept wit d woman, just kiss. |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by WMD(m): 5:36pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
ronald4lif:
You have to pretend as if nothing happened and don't plead with the mom. It's possible she didn't clearly see what happened between you and the girl. And you pleading with her will throw all her doubts. But even if she did she may not want to tell her daughter so as to avoid problems and avoidable issues in your marriage. Maybe it's time to let your wife friend leave the house to avoid more drama. And just be more nice to your wife and your mom now generally.
But if your mother in-law finally tells her daughter what transpired please deny it completely. You can say you were passing by and along the line you heard the friend calling for help and you went to assist her (if it was a kitchen incident you could say things like oil poured on her and you had to quickly get a cloth to clean up the mess on her) and was only trying to help before mama came in. Don't make it appear as if mama is lying but rather that yes she saw you both but didn't get the exact picture of what was happening. You can discuss whatever story you may want to say with the girl so you both can have same story.
Wumi should leave the house I fear u. U been get expirience ne? |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Zehner(f): 5:36pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
AreaFada2:
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My dear na wa o. In this modern world, trust is dead like dodo. And buried even. Pity. I just taya for the matter. |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Zehner(f): 5:38pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Lolarez:
God bless u jare...u took d words outta my mouth! imagine! Mtchewww!
Amen  |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by yallowtin(f): 5:39pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
zeefa:
Please, I need a serious advise from people in the house. I really don't know what to say to my mother in-law, may be to beg her or ignored as if nothing happen.
Let me give you a little summary of what happened to me.
My wife just put to bed and the whole loads of work have been much for her that she called on her friend who just graduated from the university to come and stay with us so that she could help with little work at home.
We didn't have problem with her because it will save her from paying bills whereas we have more space in our own house for her to occupy free of charge without having to pay any bills.
She was so hard-working and even without telling her,she knows what to do at the right time. She does all the cooking for us and most time before I get home from work, she calls me to ask what I would love to have for dinner which she will gladly organise.
Gradually, we get little bit close and talk freely to each other without having to define our boundaries.
Wumi is a dark skinned chobby lady with a 42DD size (please don't ask me how I got to know her size). And am sure those that have the picture of sizes on their brain will understand my point. It was tempting.
It all started when I got home and saw her cooking with one nasty top showing off her assets. She caught my attention and smiled and I returned my gesture given her a soft smile too and that was how the whole madness started.
My mother in-law just came from nigeria few days ago to help us as well. But left for me, I was enjoying the new atmosphere with Wumi in our house.
Just yesterday the nasty incident happened. Mama caught me in d washroom kissing and touching wumi . Meanwhile, my wife went for Dr appointment for our son with cold.
Right now, I'm afraid because mama didn't say anything and I don't know how to convince her as well.
Wumi is not comfortable at home again and I can't look into ma ma's face anymore.
The funny thing is that mama didn't discuss what she saw with my wife because I knew if my wife heard, in fact, I wont be on nairaland now to narrate the story of my life.
Please, do I call mama and beg her? Or should I just ask my wife to allow her (wumi) go since mama is around. ?
I'm really confused here because I can't not face or talk to Mama freely at home anymore.
Please what do I do?
bribe mama seriously if u like ur self hmm mmmm |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Fellonigerians: 5:42pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Send Wunmi packing if you want to retain your family, but leave Wunmi if you want to lose your family... |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by simdam500(m): 5:43pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Cutehector4u: let's just say am just a guyman who knws wat women want For your mind 1 Like |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by mufutau55(m): 5:52pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
We always attribute this type of thing in Nigeria to devil...
So, the devil made you did it... LOL. Stupid guy, seeking advise here now. |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by smudge2079(m): 6:01pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
It's called goin for broke. Aw worse can it get again? moriton:
Dude rofl |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Empiree: 6:17pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Dominionng:
Nice...
What's the title of the movie? [size=28pt]"Ere gele" (Desperate game) [/size] |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by stmike85(m): 6:19pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Kiss your mother inlaw too,that way she can't reveal una secret |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by optimism91(m): 6:53pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
zeefa:
Please, I need a serious advise from people in the house. I really don't know what to say to my mother in-law, may be to beg her or ignored as if nothing happen.
Let me give you a little summary of what happened to me.
My wife just put to bed and the whole loads of work have been much for her that she called on her friend who just graduated from the university to come and stay with us so that she could help with little work at home.
We didn't have problem with her because it will save her from paying bills whereas we have more space in our own house for her to occupy free of charge without having to pay any bills.
She was so hard-working and even without telling her,she knows what to do at the right time. She does all the cooking for us and most time before I get home from work, she calls me to ask what I would love to have for dinner which she will gladly organise.
Gradually, we get little bit close and talk freely to each other without having to define our boundaries.
Wumi is a dark skinned chobby lady with a 42DD size (please don't ask me how I got to know her size). And am sure those that have the picture of sizes on their brain will understand my point. It was tempting.
It all started when I got home and saw her cooking with one nasty top showing off her assets. She caught my attention and smiled and I returned my gesture given her a soft smile too and that was how the whole madness started.
My mother in-law just came from nigeria few days ago to help us as well. But left for me, I was enjoying the new atmosphere with Wumi in our house.
Just yesterday the nasty incident happened. Mama caught me in d washroom kissing and touching wumi . Meanwhile, my wife went for Dr appointment for our son with cold.
Right now, I'm afraid because mama didn't say anything and I don't know how to convince her as well.
Wumi is not comfortable at home again and I can't look into ma ma's face anymore.
The funny thing is that mama didn't discuss what she saw with my wife because I knew if my wife heard, in fact, I wont be on nairaland now to narrate the story of my life.
Please, do I call mama and beg her? Or should I just ask my wife to allow her (wumi) go since mama is around. ?
I'm really confused here because I can't not face or talk to Mama freely at home anymore.
Please what do I do?
hmmmm, this na temptation. Had your mama not caught you, who knows, it could be your wife. Convince WUMI to leave for good. And beg your mother in-law. Assuming you where the one that caught your daughter in-law kissing your son's best friend, would you tell him? Its well. |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
maniie:
My advice goes thus i think u shld tell ur wife cos if u ask wunmi to leave ur wife may question u for ur action n wunmi may tell her d story in her own favor n ur wife will believe becos wunmi told her first becos she will believe dat if u were innocent u wld hv tell her earlier b4 wunmi n u may end up lossing ur wife n dnt u dere lie to mama becos she saw u clearly bt jst decide to kip quiet n she leaving becos she cant stand ur betralyer n she dtn want to be d first o tell ur wife she want u to do dat urself so be wise n do d right tin b4 is too late n i also agree with all what Dollarlander said tell ur wife nw b4 wunmi change d whole story n sacatter ur marriage n also kip off frm adultery i wish u all d best pls tell her NOW!!!!!!!!!! Was he innocent before? |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by GoodFaith: 6:58pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
OGeeKush:
mama knws ur wife love you nd wouldn't want to destroy ha daughter's happiness.. thats the reason for her silence, jez wait for d dust to settle nd plead with her with the normal lines na (it was devil's work and i wasn't thinking straight) 
but u too..... My brother there is no devil's work but D problem for men |
| Re: My Mother Inlaw Caught Me Kissing My Wife's Friend in our washroom. by GoodFaith: 7:09pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
Janetozi:
Why didn't ur wife hire somebody that have experience in "OMUGWỌ", an experience old lady who is a mother would have been better.
And u eeeh, u are so obnoxious! I am sure it is the trust that ur wife have in u that makes her bring her frd to help her out.
People will say that trust and respect is the foundation of every marriage, but i say "TRUST WITH CAUTION" some men are not worthy to me trusted, this kind of betrayal kills RESPECT.
Send that idiot packing and then confess to ur wife.
Avoid food and water for three days as ur own punishment.
Men like u need to be dealt with in a military way.
Had it been ur mother inlaw did not caught u two, this immorality would have continue for a long time, u wouldnt have come here to confess. "Avoid food and water for three days as ur own punishment. "Men like u need to be dealt with in a military way." Bad woman |
