Michelle55:
Emusmith... U again?

emusmith:

HizMissy:
decision to move in small small..... hair net first, toothbrush second, change of clothes third, mini travelling bag.... e.t.c

humbleme99:

This got me rolling... I have seen girls doing that a lot and it sucks.
@op no 1 get k leg sha.

Modesayo:
Sorry MR..some of your points are valid&some are not...sorry

emusmith:
AIM: This thread is targeted at ladies in a sensible relationship. She has a sense of decency and modesty. Her target is to get him to marry her because she loves him dearly and truly.

You know what? The issue is not that she doesn't love and respect him but like Eve, she makes poor and rash decisions based on "feelings" alone and that...has consequences.

Am I making guys feel important? Yes o! There are more girls than guys in our world so you need us more than we need you. ... Kidding


I'm about to list some decisions made by ladies IN A REAL RELATIONSHIP which have in them tendencies to actually destroy what they've spent years working on...



1. Decision To Allow Sex

This will spur up bashing but I can tell you this- NO WOMAN will perfectly trust the husband who slept with her during dating! None! I "personally" can't marry a girl I've slept with. So Ladies, sex won't make him marry you o! Don't be fooled!


2. Decision To Ignore The "Beatings" And "Cheatings" Of Today.


Oh girl, he will not change o! Unless you be "mamalawo" wey want change am. If he hits when there are no much pressure, simple mathematics should tell you that it can only increase! Love isn't blind, you are!



3. Decision To Walk Away For "Myopic" Reasons.


He may be living in One Room or Self Contain today and a few furniture. That's not enough excuse to walk away if you're smart and SEES THE SEED OF GREATNESS IN HIM. You look at them flashy guys with flashy cars, Yes! But life is in phases, sweetheart. Think deep!



4. Decision To Let Your Anger/ Pride Get The Better Of You.


Anger is like the ™ of most girls today. Any small thing, them don explode! I tire! Na only you dey! He forgot your birthday, and so what? Be the bigger person, call him to call you and wish you a happy birthday. It will end in laughs and kisses instead of disappointment and break up. Master your emotions sef!


5. Decision To Flirt "A Little" With His Friend(s)


Some girls sha...Are you testing him or what? You know he loves you and you are secretly enticing his friend and even have plans to get him laid. Only dogs do that. And you are even in a marriageable age? I laff!



6. Decision To Uphold The "Law Of Feminism".


You are not equal with him. Stop Trying To Be! Not in the sense of potential but that of Authority. 65% of break ups /divorce is traceable to Feminist Attributes. It won't hold water!
Even, if you pretend today and tomorrow you show you true colour, he will still react and that's not what you bargained for...Be yourself!



7. Decision To Start Comparing Him With An Ex.


"X" is that close to "Z" for a reason. The probability of you getting together in a healthy relationship is slim. Most times, you end up being friends. Don't compare A to X, they're far apart!
No guy likes comparison, vice versa.


Choices are easy to make but its consequences are difficult to amend.

Have a Good Evening.

ArcToyin:

your head dey there!