Some married people in Abuja on
Wednesday identified the need for material
possession as the major reason for infidelity
among married couples.
Respondents in separate interviews also
mentioned the desire to satisfy emotional needs
as another contributory factor.
Mr Johnson Eze, a civil servant, said he was
cheating on his wife not because he loved her
less but for the sole purpose of “catching some
fun’’.
He said: “My marriage is one of the best
because my wife, who is God-given, is an
understanding woman and she tolerates me a lot.
“Yet, I still find myself cheating on her just for
the fun of it. This does not in any way diminish
the love I have for her and my lovely kids.
“I recall an incident that happened some time
ago. I told my wife that I was travelling to
Calabar for an official assignment, but ended up
with my girlfriend in a hotel, and she found out.
“The incident almost destroyed my home but
thanks to God my wife was able to forgive and
forget put the ugly incident behind, ‘’ he said.
Eze, who described infidelity as `a careless act,’
advised men to desist from it.
A female boutique operator, who pleaded
anonymity, said the desire to keep up with the
latest fashion trend made her to cheat on her
husband.
According to her, the husband, a low income
earner, was financially incapable of meeting her
insatiable material needs.
“Besides, my hubby and I fight over things that
are not relevant and I lie to him most times to
raise extra cash to buy something, which he
considers unnecessary.
“I have not been faithful in my marriage because
of the temptation to stay on top of the fashion
trend which is way beyond the financial capacity
of my husband.
“Besides the extra cash my boyfriend gives me,
whenever I want to collect money from my
husband for food stuff and other basic
necessities I always double the cost.
“This has become a habit for me and whenever I
don’t get my share in any shopping I do on behalf
of the family, I get angry and pick on my
husband at any little provocation, ‘’ she added.
A legal practitioner who offered a coined name –
Mr Kosi Chiemela – blamed his adulterous
actions on lack of intimacy, emotional
disconnection and lack of friendship with his
wife.
Chiemela who described marriage as “one
difficult school you cannot graduate from till you
die,’’ stated that the only way to escape was to
stay single.
“I am a temperamental person and when I newly
got married, it was not easy for my wife whose
temper is also short.
“Both of us hardly agree on anything and the
only escape route for me is to seek love and
affection elsewhere.
“My girlfriend understands me and she tolerates
a lot, unlike my wife who blows up like a bomb
at the slightest provocation,’’ he said. (NAN)

flee from adultery. it is a sin. don't put your family at risk of hiv.

Well it quiet simple

Most ladies cheats on their spouse
Mostly because of money to buy the latest trending clothes or other things just to show their friends they are far better than them
And that where the competitions begin..



While most men on the other hand
Do it for sex sake
Just for pleasure
Which at times their wife are not ready to give to them whenever they need it


CONCLUSION:for those ladies that loves cheating basically for money sake..look for something that will fetch you money and keep you busy(legal)

And for those men that cheat basically for sex
Before you say I do to any lady,let her know your sex orientation and where you stand is
If she can't accept that..let her go her way instead of you sleeping around, to the ladies most men constand urge for sex ,sometimes is the reason why we hardly propose to you..that just the truth,a fiancee who hates sex, and you as a man who loves sex a lot..you guys can't be compatible..


My piece



#PEACE

kevinberry:
Well it quiet simple

Most ladies cheats on their spouse
Mostly because of money to buy the latest trending clothes or other things just to show their friends they are far better than them
And that where the competitions begin..



While most men on the other hand
Do it for sex sake
Just for pleasure
Which at times their wife are not ready to give to them whenever they need it


CONCLUSION:for those ladies that loves cheating basically for money sake..look for something that will fetch you money and keep you busy(legal)

And for those men that cheat basically for sex
Before you say I do to any lady,let her know your sex orientation and where you stand is
If she can't accept that..let her go her way instead of you sleeping around, to the ladies most men constand urge for sex ,sometimes is the reason why we hardly propose to you..that just the truth,a fiancee who hates sex, and you as a man who loves sex a lot..you guys can't be compatible..


My piece



#PEACE

Well when it comes to nigerian marriage sex is not important oooo.imagine u talking to ur pastor about ur sexual orientation and imagine the response u go get

lefulefu:

Well when it comes to nigerian marriage sex is not important oooo.imagine u talking to ur pastor about ur sexual orientation and imagine the response u go get

that where the problem start from..
And the pastor will tell you say no to sex..
And when the man start going after other women
The same person will still cry back to the pastor..

people always take a pastor saying as final..especially most women..

Dogs are men and bitches are women.

c0ck and bull story.

Marriage is sacred. I repeat, marriage is sacred. If you are not yet ready for it, don't go into it.

There's no reason to cheat.

the only solution to all this is christ