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Estharfabian:




Uh...You still got intimate with her after You knew she had a boyfriend? doesn't that make You a Guy-hoe?

Anyhoo...leave her alone!
Y'all would just end up Hurting yourself and the people you claim to date.

You would do the same thing in place if you are a guy.
perhaps, she had once told me that the relationship iwas complicated. so? so I just av to try my luck..

Any menace being 28yrs and still reaching for advice?
hey guy, im not a Jack who knows it all. Everybody needs help at some point bro.
pls bro, re u from Kogi state?

Seriously, I dont blv we still have cool & mature guys on nairaland. Nice advice brothersis

Philtim:
FTC...well my broda its easier said than done.but jst stay mature urself nd talk to her abt it for real,witout hurt she will accept nd respect u for real...u can thank me later.

I think she want to play a game. she want to keep me just incase if the other guy messed up.

Guys please I'm obsessed with a crush that's in relationship with another guy.
I have broken the friendzone.... and sometimes at any given chances we'd have intimacy to the point of mouth action and purely unclad but no sex!(not that she doesn't want me to lash her but i choose not to lashed her)
now that I av my own girlfriend... its hard to let her slide. And she'll neva stop asking us to be friends that she cnt just leave me like that.
How do guys deal with a situation like this?
I never for once imagine myself in this kind of mess @28yrs

pls how do I let go maturely?

This is another reason why some girls will enter menopus bfor they grow wise and later bcome relationship cancellor.
why forcing ursef on him?
well my advice is "Ni amojukuro" (know how to let go...) Many men out there Ma'am

M 28years, I have lost count but Im so sure its above 25-30.

No Bashing o!

This thread remind me of my childhood then whenever I picked a wrong guy and dare me to a fight. I will tell him to wait for me "lemme goan tell my grandma that I want to goan and fight a guy at a L.A II(Local authority primary sch II)" knowning that my grandma will screams and chase the guy away. Lol... I no get power but I get brain. kpako pikin O.T
#Ihatefightingthou#

ronald4ever:
She couldn't have presume if you didn't give her the intimation and hints to that effect. No one just assume one's level in school if they weren't misled or told about it, indirectly. Even so, you could have dismiss her assumption earlier when you got wind of it.

kk bro, I will wing it and stick to ur indirect advice.

Akkord4gov:
Tell her but you know her well,if you know that telling her will be a problem,tell her you have a missing script,meaning that you will retake the course next session

At least,apart from lying,you also test whether she truly loves you. Hearing that,she suppose to motivate you more

Guess what bro, she raised my school fees this session when I was broke. She paid 60% of my sch fees

Pheals:
Before u lied to her ... Who do u inform? I didn't like taking food ... That I know the source not !!



Well tell her

Blv me, I never lied to her for once. she's the one presuming that im in 400L

Elosky20:
a relationship groomed on deception is nt worth it

I never tell her my specific level and she never bother to know, she just presume that we re graduating in the same year.

[i][/i]I Started dating my girlfriend sometime last year.
The relationship is fun and smooth. we re still in school, I mean student.
She's in 500level because her course is 5yrs...while i'm in 300level, and my course is 4years, though we re not in the same school . She's in her last year now and I still have A session to go after my present level. thou am also a working class...(A civil servant) which she knows.
The problem is, "she believe that i'm in 400level.. thinking that we re graduating in the same year." I'm scared to tell her this... so that she won't see it as If i been unfaithful.
She's so generous and a loving type.

please should I tell her or let her find out herself in due time that i'm in 300Level... and not 400level ?

SmartChoices:
It's a close friend I have been going after for so long but who always said "chima we're like siblings" oops.... And she went ahead to date one guy who she introduced to me..... But I kept my cool.... Bidding my time... Alas I went visiting to pick up some texts from her apartment on a public holiday.... The scene I met was like wow breath taking in bum shorts and a top that you could see the twins dancing around.... Ooh chima you are here she said... As she opened the door to let me inside... My face didn't betray the turbulent tensions in my heart... I managed a smile and sat down.... Fast forward..... I joined her in watching a telemundo series and after a few minutes I observed she was excitedly touching me to draw my attention to some scenes she found very interesting.... And at a point she exclaimed and grabbed my arms....while all along I was wondering what the twins under the top would really feel like.... I wasted no time in pretending to go along with her excitement and retaliated to her grasp with a tentative kiss..... Gauging her response to be positive I went French to which she responded hungrily.... With ecstatic moans ...after a while she abruptly pulled back and pleaded that I leave her apartment..... Without a word I stepped out.... But triumphantly that the friend zone of over five years has been broken..... Guys rejoice with me.... Daretodiffer ggrin to a friend zoned guys don't give up!

lol. congrat bro

ERUDITEE:
What else do you think? Make here your official GF. Or you wanna just eat and clean mouth? Remember "WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND"

u re right

ERUDITEE:
Mr man you Berra man up and accept her officially instead beating about the bush. ..


After invading her republic and spreading your democracy

lol how do u mean?

ERUDITEE:
I just hope you won't create another thread like



"HELP HOW CAN POSTINOR 2 BE USED?"




Go get your self a gf. Stop screwing an adolescent.

she initiated it. and u knw wen a guy take advantage of u there is this way that u ll be avoiding the person by anymeans possible. she careless about the immoral intercourse. well maybe I forgot to include in my post that she's not a virgin. she's into the act long bfor we... I fault mysef ever been too careless thou.
the botto line is: u dnt trust any 15, 16 17,18 girls out there. they know better than u nd beyond ur imagination.

cruzita:
while the temptation was on ,u no tell us make we help u then, na now u don chop the forbidden fruit of that small girl na em u dey find help .ABEG WEY LAWMA COME TAKE UR PROPERTY

This is why it's called temptation. no one can ever be too careful, its only takes the grace of God.

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hmmmnm, FTC








oya I won talk my opinion -:

there is this gal I always been trynna date but wat she stand on is NO!

yet, weneva im wit her sometime I summoned the courage to touch her.

the very first time I make the move which almost end in sex wen i unleashed my John outta the cage...

the and the same thing happened some time last week...

abeg, is this also friend zone ?

Just like me too, I dnt blv in religion. I simply blv in living a smiple standard of life(live the life by the nature.

JESUSBOIY:
Chai

Somewhere in igboland

WATCHING FOOTBALL WITH A WOMAN IS REALLY STRESSFUL. Wife: which teams are playing? Husband: Arsenal vs Manchester United Wife : oooh wonderful! I love Arsenal.. Husband: that's a good team... Wife: is Drogba playing? Husband: he doesn't play for any of these teams... Wife: okay sweeet...is that Chris Brown? Husband: [bored] no he is Chamberlain... Wife : okay but they look the same...what's that yellow card for? Husband: its a warning to the player... After few minutes Rooney scores for Manchester United.... Wife: [cerebrates in high mood] is that Chamberlain who has scored? Husband: [calmly] no its Rooney for Manchester United...!! Wife: [furious] how? it should be arsenal who should have scored!! Husband: [silent] Wife: what is that red card for? Husband : [bored] that means the player should go out of the pitch for misbehaving. Wife: then is he going to be a coach? Husband:[unwilling to answer] aaaaaaa no... Wife: its the same with traffic lights: yellow=warning; red=danger. Husband: exactly darling... Wife :what about the green card? Husband: mmmm nothing of that kind in a field of play.... Wife: I want arsenal to win the world cup... Husband: [silent] Wife: who is that man standing who looks like Mr. Bean? Husband: [bored] it's the Arsenal coach ....Arsene Wenger. Wife: that means the other opponent's coach is Manchest Wenger? Husband: [CHANGES THE CHANNEL

FTC... just forget woman matter nd lets continue oue weed; puff puff give, bro

Kelklein:
@op...no be u write say you wan quit masturbation & u still dey post this kain tin

kontinu..

I pity u


lols....

menxer:
It is written, "if your hand causes you to sin, cut it off..." in this case you know what to cut off.

You re madding. lool,,,,

Oliviaarims:
Yea, truly, it's a pathetic situation. I wonder how they manage to cope with such a lifestyle. I detest being unnecessarily indebted to anybody. When I've never taken even a pin from u, I can tell u to get off my line when u strt talking trash, tell u absolutely how I feel about ur statements nd actions without remorse., I'm under no obligation to hang out with u or invite u to my house.. Can ignore ur calls whenever I please... I've got no reason to make excuses or apologies for my actions.. Free to do what pleases me.. That's just the life.. Independence and detachment.. Lol


I'm respectful and considerate, though. But u've just got 2 be worth it.

This is pure undiluted EGO, mixed wit pride which kills faster than EBOLA.

It is normal when my female friends ask even beg me to take them out bcoz they knw they can trust me. Only when I take the advantage of them this hopeless post can come up.


the Op neva had a close male pal she could get crazy wit. dont worry, ur case is understood. all u need do is get a REALEST NIqqa then u knw wat am talking about.


the fact that a girl enjoy being around me doesn't mean she cannot take herself out. ts just a priviledge.....


So u nd the hopeless Op need an EXAMINED LIFE.


how market today?

This is how Nairaladies hold it.

if I lie.... oya swear to God



Lols.....

adajiboyy:
u no no ni.how do u fill after u cum,tired,frustrated,guilty,ur conscience pricks u,its bkus its sin.JAH is not happy u his son is doin it.GOD would help us all amen.bt u can stop it ok,wit greater will.its not real.

You re winning bro. I will post on this forum wen I go a month without jerking!

adajiboyy:
U got the will in u if u wana stop it.try not to watch porn again,pray to God,bt above na u oooo.no one puts ur hand in ur dick now,so when d urge comes,just tell it no,if u can go 3 days,u try,after 3 days aim for 1 week,if u can,u are winning d battle then u go for a month.guy am not sayin it easy ooo,bt it very achievable.I wish u all d best.

adajiboyy:
U got the will in u if u wana stop it.try not to watch porn again,pray to God,bt above na u oooo.no one puts ur hand in ur dick now,so when d urge comes,just tell it no,if u can go 3 days,u try,after 3 days aim for 1 week,if u can,u are winning d battle then u go for a month.guy am not sayin it easy ooo,bt it very achievable.I wish u all d best.

adajiboyy:
U got the will in u if u wana stop it.try not to watch porn again,pray to God,bt above na u oooo.no one puts ur hand in ur dick now,so when d urge comes,just tell it no,if u can go 3 days,u try,after 3 days aim for 1 week,if u can,u are winning d battle then u go for a month.guy am not sayin it easy ooo,bt it very achievable.I wish u all d best.

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Twaci:
Whenever u are about to start masturbating, look up and ask yourself, "What is Jesus thinking right now?"

Bro, trust me on this one.

lols.. I will consider ur opinion, sis.




but is it a sin bfor God?