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Ayo081:
13 years? damn The best way is to get a job Idle hand is the devil work shop

ama student

iceberylin:
Cut off your Hand...

I know u can say something beta than this, bro

...It Is totally out of control now. I have read different posts on self-service method, believing that it's only helping me to stop running after girls all in the name of sex.

Often, some people just screw it up by saying that masturbation is not a sin; only to encourage others to continue in the ungodly act.
Either the act is good or bad, right or wrong, all I care is that this shit is sucking my happiness.
I can not go a day without self-service. Although i don't have girlfriend, and I don't care about it because I always believe that girls have nothing to offer me since I'm not ready for marriage soon!

Is now 13yrs I been doing this shit!

I want to stop. I know i'm addicted to it; so many times I have vowed never to engage in it again, but the more I shake It the more it stinks.

pls what can I do?

I want to quit! I don't want to believe that my life depend on it.

I know some of you might have once involve in this mess before, please just tell me what I need to know.
why I need to stop, and how to stop it.

Help a brother!!!!!

AYOBAMEE911:
Add me on whatsapp @ 07085078800. I'll make an eBook for you. your story is pathetic? Something can be done

r u sure? coz m having similar case, bro

This is just my case. am experiencing this same sad story right nw. sometime I wish i could end it by gotten mysef prepared for 6fits underground. I see mysef as if am in the wrong world.
bro/sis, only if u re experiencing this... u can only knw the mental... associate with seeing ursef wit low self-esteem, nd no sense of belonging. at times, deep inside u, you knw that u re not a dullard or you counterparts are better than you. well to me I think something is missing somewhere.
I av come to understand that in this life... sometime u does thing u have no idea how it was manipulated to ur advantage bcuz u knw that your potentials is not up to that level. and otherwise you u just do something nd hoping to see excellent result but the story always leaves ur mouth widely open "how come" while u fighting the tears to remain in ur eyes. woo, all is well jare!
lets get Closer to GOD.

I CNT RE-READ AND EDIT. so just read nd...

firstking01:
op, dis egoistic egoism is mostly done by gals....dey av dis attitude of "he's d man"...and dey av dis bossy attitude too.

Everybody re visually egoistic in nature regardless of sex status since everything we cultivates re for our own good. You re dating ur gf and u dnt want any other guys to date her, that's enough to make u an egoist! Say the truth, sometime u just wish ur gf to make the first effort towards a particular situation to see if she really cares

Seriously, sometimes is not as if we dont care or miss being with our gf/bf every seconds. what I consider to be the major turn off is that nobody wants to be taken for granted, that's why we re all playing by the rules of IDGAF! playing hard to get by imposing egoism in the relationship.
I dnt want to be part of these egoist lovers, killing how they feel towards their bf/gf inside. I want to do my own thing in own subjectives ways.
how many time in a day is proper to call a gf/bf?

candid reply o

misspicy:
And what happens when a guy is caught cheating?


*****modified******

wait wait wait hold it up like WTF

So i saw this senseless topic this morning and I was thinking about how shallow some guys are and the next thing is for this piece of biased trash to make Almighty FP....seriously i don't care if am banned or not,the female mods are not doing their job because they have given way and power to the male chauvinistic nature which most of us have to endure daily and here we are again on Nairaland,Everything against females makes FP but those topics againt males are left to die in the abbyss of romance section....THIS INJUSTICE....



seun take note

SHORONIYEN!

Awon Werey

I was like that 15yrs ago, now that am in my 28, I dnt do that shit again.
well give him more time like 6yrs, he'd sure grow up.

Pheals:
She's everything!!! Hun y lyin now

I swear down she's my dream girl. I knw that I screwed up but it wasn't my fault, anybody can be tempted to touch. To trust me, it could be difficult but I gat look for a way to convince my honesty to her. she's my life

I want ur candid nd mature responce to this story.
I'd have a crush that I often discuss with my friends. I went to her house last night, we had a our time out to a very close joint in her street (just for a drink).
We talked, have fun, did some revision of what I been yelling to her ears since all these days(to date her) After that, we set to go home bcoz it was getting late, so we decided to leave. We went straight to her house. when we got there I talked more calmly and sensibly this time bcoz the noise(music...) at the bar was kind of a distortion to our conversations.
She lied on her bed while I sat on a chair. I make a bold steps to make my toast more romantic. I stood up and walk slowly to sit by her side while she lies comfortably on the bed nd make no response to every single word I uttered.
I was doing my talks in more emotional ways. I touch her. Play wit her hair, kissed her lips, and kissed her almost unclad breast.
Effortlessly, she make no move to push me way, but it seemed that she sequel to every single sensational touches I attempted. I pulled her breast out, i sucked them in such a romantic way if my mother neva breast feed me wen I was baby.
I was emotionally out of control, I quickly unleashed the two breast from their cave(bra) wit my bear hand, to give more easy way to squeeze them very firmly nd sucked at a pleasant pace.
It's like she really want me tonight, that's what I keep reminding myself in every suck I make, every seconds I squeeze her breast. I further my effort, I neva put my best abilities in revealing her well shaped boobs, but I unveiled what is beneath her legs. Wow! Not too bushy! Odourless, the first thing that came to my mind was to hit the kittykat wit my mouth which i eventually took no rethink bfor I started eating her kittykat.
I sucked every corner. I inserted my finger to penetrate. Hmmm, she was already wet. My fingers re full of her cum, just like ice cream. I licked every cum on my fingers, wow! So icy! but kind of salty a lil bit and I like it.
I quickly pulled off her pant to make everything easier for me. This time I was able to open her legs wider to concentrate my tongue penetrating inside her kittykat.
I guess I shud av stopped in the midway so that I wont try to insert my John inside her... in order to earn me more respect and trust to win her heart that I am not just about having sex with her, though im not loving her bcox of sex. Remember say konji na bastard, the thing grip me like oya put am sharp sharp bcoz its really been a while i bleeped last. That was how I impatiently followed my heart to insert my John. Absructantly, she push me way and said that "you guys are the same thing" nd started crying, Believing that sex is all I want from her. For some reasons she was right bcoz I would av emotionally done it if I had had my way thou.
So when she said that... I felt this kind of ways that left me wit a doubt if I had messed up everything. I so much luv this girl wit all my life. I blv wat happened last night was just body anatomy. Anybody can be tempted to touch.
Pls tell me the needful, how to let her trust me and knows that I really love her beyond last night scenario...
Abeg wetin I fit do ? I dnt want to lose this girl bcoz shes everything to me

MsBliss:
@Op who called you woman wrapper?

Lol. u knw some NL'ders will surely judge a post like dis

firstking01:
Op, dis is too manly. Or u dey follow support feminits dem??

No be like that bro. I dey try give some gals hope wey I call rehab...

Be a girl

with a mind

A woman with

an attitude

A lady with class

Be You

You are perfect

when you are just being you.


Do ur evaluation later

and see the kind of

guys that comes your way.

NOTE: I'm not a woman rapper.. before u go com dey put ur sawfish mouth to judge me.

Godswillnwaoma:
I pray i find one but the chances are very slim because girls of nowadays are only interested in our pocket.

Dont let wat others re saying disturb ur mind. not all gurls re... thou they all still likes money. blv me even some girls can u also be giving u money nd presents depending on how valueable u make ursef to them. just bcuz u a rotten guy dnt make me also a rotten guy. but ppl will neva stop generalizing such mentality.

Godswillnwaoma:
So far this generation is concerned good girls don't exist.

Well, for another reasons u re absolutely right bro, but, blv me their still gud gurls who worth the chase out thr. its only u re in a wrong environment that is why u cnt see them.

THIS IS WHAT I THINK,
It's gud to put ur luv focus
on a girl u luv nd blv so much in regardless of the
circumtances sorrounding wh
y u guys re yet dating.
I think this idea is far better than
chasing girls all around
bcuz the guy desperately
wants to have his own relationship
and knows that he doesnt truly
luv them for any reasons.

Guys, how long can u wait
for a girl u luv wit all of life?
the girl u luv so much, I dnt mean
just any how girl trynna
catch fun around. I mean a girl with
a great determination,
a girl that set goals to
achieve in life. Such girl does not necesssary
need to be a virgin o!
The curiousity here is
"How long can u wait for such
girl if she's not ready
for relationship at that point
u want a relationship wit her?"
NB: You guys re good friends.
friendzone or Enemyzone.. e no matter!

jonaifame22:
Mehn! I'm speechless I don't even know where to start.

Rejoice not bro. The numbers of sexual activity u had with ya girlfriend is bullshit while i'm regreting ever had intercourse with girls I knw that ain't gon marry.
THIS POST IS OBVIOUSLY HOPELESS, bro.

koboko69:
Maybe its all.this state poly or college of education... perhaps technical sch. They are many there

koboko69:
Maybe its all.this state poly or college of education... perhaps technical sch. They are many there

All right guys.I acknowledged ur observations nd the kind of advice u re trying to render through ur insultive quotations.
blv me, I can also use that bad expression to ruin someone's life nd also can use this horrible english to change someones life for better... I wonder the kind of illitrate that's communicating ppl wit English! woni mio gboyinbo. Awon werey!

koboko69:
Maybe its all.this state poly or college of education... perhaps technical sch. They are many there

All right guys.I acknowledged ur observations nd the kind of advice u re trying to render through ur insultive quotations.
blv me, I can also use that bad expression to ruin someone's life nd also can use this horrible english to change someones life for better... I wonder the kind of illitrate that's communicating ppl wit English! woni mio gboyinbo. Awon werey!

Juxtified:
Next critic here:
You mention "department" & then "same level". What else is any right thinking human to think, except that you're an undergraduate? The fact that you forgot that obviously means you are much less than that, either a secondary school student or, worse still, a school drop out.
So my candid advice to you: concentrate on your studies or go get a job. Your use of English is embarassing first of all, and second, not everything that happens to you should be pasted on Nairaland.

I admit that my english is very bad. but what could av been more worst when someone that knows/realised the flaws of of others cannot simply correct them so that they wouldnt make the same mistakes twice. dear sis, if my english is bad then ur person is worse

211Observer:
Do u knw wat? u wouldn't say anything but that grammatic RPG launched is attention getter. *winks*

seriously, ppl make alot of mistakes wen writing either in expression or in spellings depending on the mood that the person used to write. Laziness in re-read n editing re often the major prob of some writers. thanks for ur observation anyway.

MzVixy:
You need a lot of work on your expressions. Not good to learn you are in the university and write like this

Seriously, dnt just jump like kuwikiland antilope. did I in any line in my writeup mention if ama university student or any tertiary institutions? U knw wat? ur type is not needed in the society. wen u realise others mistakes u re in the position to correct em but mba una no go do, but to carry ur Ewu mouth to criticize nd condem...

next critic pls

MzVixy:
You need a lot of work on your expressions. Not good to learn you are in the university and write like this

Do u knw wat? u wouldn't say anything but that grammatic RPG launched is attention getter. *winks*

dammytosh:
Dear Poster,

To get her, you need to work on your grammatical expression.

Regards.

Yea I knw that my expression is very awkward and my English accompanied blunders. blv me, im poor in read again n edit. but thanks for letting me knw whr my bad lies.
So?

.

Estharfabian:
Guys don't Use their heads....
...Just their Lower Bodies...""

uhm...I forgot to add "SOME GUYS" before I get brutally crucified.... So, there You go!

lol

AfroKnight:
Obviously you either don't know what "friendzone" means or you're downplaying it.

It is not your everyday "friendship". No respectable guy should be remain under such manipulation.

well if u think u av a point I think u re rolling wit less matured ladies.

LordAdam:
Whatever rocks your boat mate. It's fine and okay if you can handle it. Not everyone can. So don't expect everyone to model you. Or even try to suggest that those who have a different point of view are immature. You thinking so is actually immature, because you simply can't accept that we are all different.

My advice is, the next time you feel like making a rant because you want to feed your ego, please save it.

Angry man

LordAdam:
Whatever rocks your boat mate. It's fine and okay if you can handle it. Not everyone can. So don't expect everyone to model you. Or even try to suggest that those who have a different point of view are immature. You thinking so is actually immature, because you simply can't accept that we are all different.

My advice is, the next time you feel like making a rant because you want to feed your ego, please save it.

Angry man

Ubyj:
ok, where do we start?

Lolss. send ur number

Ubyj:
ok, where do we start?

Lolss. send ur number