Cutehector4u:
Nonsense. Op I totaly disagree wit all ur ponts. Let's be frank here, a guy who doesn't want to marry d girl he is datin just wants her for d fun of the whole thing dats all. Or maybe he doesn't see any point of getn married to her cuz she is playin wife roles. A guy who is responsible enuf wil go get a ring and put it on her finga!

AyokunleRuth:
five years of dating?

it's high time ladies get some sense.

Cutehector4u:
Nonsense. Op I totaly disagree wit all ur ponts. Let's be frank here, a guy who doesn't want to marry d girl he is datin just wants her for d fun of the whole thing dats all. Or maybe he doesn't see any point of getn married to her cuz she is playin wife roles. A guy who is responsible enuf wil go get a ring and put it on her finga!

naijaboiy:

What is wrong with 5 years of dating?

AyokunleRuth:

exactly what the op said is wrong!!

its quite unreasonable to date for that long without assurance of a future together. if you are not ready to marry then don't date. what is there to see or even be anxious about after marriage

simple!!!

Gosh!!!

AyokunleRuth:

exactly what the op said is wrong!!

its quite unreasonable to date for that long without assurance of a future together. if you are not ready to marry then don't date. what is there to see or even be anxious about after marriage

simple!!!

Gosh!!!

naijaboiy:

I guess he was trying to give reasons why some guys still break up with their girlfriends after 5 years of dating.

Some of the excuses are unreasonable but they actually do happen. If you check well you'll see that the Op condemned it too.

The only sensible excuse is number 2. One may not actually know his family's stand on marriage issues until he brings his girl home.

As for others,,you can easily detect them in no short time. Just that some guys think they can handle such behaviours and so they stick around. But when they realise it's too much they chose to walk away. By then time has gone.

tonyayo1:

Nothing said above is wrong, u're just talking as if u are not a Nigerian - are u trying to tell me that you've not seen/heard a guy calling a five or more years relationship a quit? That it doesn't make sense is the reason i tagged the topic 'weird'

naijaboiy:

I guess he was trying to give reasons why some guys still break up with their girlfriends after 5 years of dating.

Some of the excuses are unreasonable but they actually do happen. If you check well you'll see that the Op condemned it too.

The only sensible excuse is number 2. One may not actually know his family's stand on marriage issues until he brings his girl home.

As for others,,you can easily detect them in no short time. Just that some guys think they can handle such behaviours and so they stick around. But when they realise it's too much they chose to walk away. By then time has gone.

AyokunleRuth:
five years of dating?

it's high time ladies get some sense.

Mentor01:
What's your point

tonyayo1:
A guy calling relationship a quit after five years or more shows that either the guy only ‘likes’ his babe and wants to be eating her apple anytime he feels the urge, or you (the girl) aren’t the sacrificial type, as in, you don’t contribute in the relationship ‘cause you believe you came in to chop, or the ‘fun’ type of guy who just got overnight riches and wanted to taste the outside world AKA flirting and being in relationship with any chick will deprive him of fun/flirt or... so many orrrrs, but if a guy really loves you, the epistle I’m about to write below won’t actually matter to him.

Note (for girls) = love is not described by words or the guy’s pocket, it’s described by actions and sacrifices.

Below is my ‘top5 weird reasons men dump their girlfriends after five or more years in relationship.’


#5 She loves money so much.


This is normal when it comes to nowadays girls but some of them will be like; ‘not all girls loves money,’ that’s true though, but 99% of girls from an average background likes money or likes extorting money from their guys even when they (girls) are working, ‘cause they all believe it’s the normal trend. It’s no new thing that 30% of relationships breakups is based on money, the girl leaving the guy ‘cause he’s broke or the guy dumping her ‘cause she wants to drain him of his money.

Why so weird? ‘cause the girl has been this guy’s lover for years and he knew that she likes money, why dump her after five or more years, why wait that long, we all know that it’s not about the money, lol.

#4 Bad character/behaviour.


This is one weird reason, is it possible for a girl a guy dated for 5 or more years to hide her bad attitude that long? Hell no, girls with bad attitude doesn’t actually know that their attitude is that bad, even if they know and want to hide it, it will never take 5 or more years to show it, unless the guy don’t actually spend time with his so called girlfriend.

Why so weird? ‘cause this guy had been coping with this girl’s attitude from day one, and after years in relationship he then call it a quit for the same attitude he coped with years ago.

#3 Lazy.


A guy can really dump his girl after 5 or more years of dating her only when he's ready to get married. The lazy I meant above is being 100% lazy, how do I mean? We all were born lazy, but not 100% lazy, being fed up to do some chores that we do almost every day, is a sign of laziness but not 100% laziness, and no man created in this world that is 100% ‘not lazy.’ Being 100% lazy triggers some weird attitudes in us which no man can cope with when she becomes his wife, love or no love, any man who is married to a 100% lazy girl is currently living in regret.

Some few attitudes laziness can trigger...

a) Always complaining about work; expecting her husband to convert her into a housewife. Such attitudes are seen in some housewives.
b) Always watching TV; this type of people can spend 8 to 12 hours a day watching TV.
c) Sleeps a lot; any person that sleeps for more than 8 hours on daily bases is damn lazy or sick.
d) Dirty, dirty, dirty; every very dirty person who is not in his/her early teens is lazy, but not all lazy person is dirty.

There are a lot more, but the above can do for now. Base on what I mentioned above, no man, unless a crazed man can cope with such a lady.

Why so weird? Didn’t he know about this for 5 or more years before calling it a quit, mmmmh?

#2 Not from same tribe.


This is real though, you can find it in some Anambra state towns, where a guy will date a girl for years and when he finally wants to marry her, his people that doesn’t know the origin of the relationship step in saying; “she’s not from our tribe,” and you' the guy' will just accept and tell the girl sorry.

Why so weird? Does it mean that the guy didn’t know about this their tradition before dating the girl? The main koko here is that the guy does not love his girl like he claims.

#1 Not good in bed.


The weird of its all, if you ask 70% of guys that are either cheating or calling it a quit on their girl, they’ll tell you that their ex or other girlfriend isn’t good in bed.

Why so weird? To me, there’s nothing like a girl being good in bed, what guys tag as ‘being good in bed’ is when you are doing it with your girl and she’s able to give you all samasutra moves, but when the girl isn’t as flexible as the other or don’t like other positions that the guy loves, she’s not good in bed. The weird question here is; why call it a quit after 5 or more years? Or was she good before becoming ‘not good’ again?

Men and their weird ways...

Written out of inspiration...

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sauceny:


Are you inspired by weed

AyokunleRuth:

exactly what the op said is wrong!!

its quite unreasonable to date for that long without assurance of a future together. if you are not ready to marry then don't date. what is there to see or even be anxious about after marriage

simple!!!

Gosh!!!

vizkiz:


please can you answer some questions I am about yo ask

1. Are you above 22?
2. How long have you been dating?

Waiting. . .

AyokunleRuth:

am not up to 22

am not dating.

now can you tell me why u asked

nah...never mind. I don't think you'v gat enough experiences to answer my future questions

vizkiz:


nah...never mind. I don't think you'v gat enough experiences to answer my future questions