Growing up I was never lectured about love, that’s a topic I never got a lecture from.

Even about sex, but there were simple and plain messages about sex my parents informed us that made us know that sex is an after marriage thing. Though a lot of youths will disagree with this, not because they have a reason but because their desire is incontrol of them.

I’ll like to delve into the love issue. Islamically having boyfriend and girlfriend isn’t allowed. I never asked why, but I’m very sure because it exposes us to immoralities.

When I graduated from secondary school. I was still naïve. I did well academically but even when my friends had girlfriends I didn’t. It wasn’t like I was not good looking, but because I was a little reserved…maybe very reserved. Although there was a girl who always borrowed a pen from me and tried to converse with me but I guess I wasn’t too smart to know what shewas trying to do. But Alhamdulilah she’s married now, this year.

Long story short after graduation my parents made me visit our relative in another state, and that’s where I met a girlwho by now I still can’t have her out of my head.

Its safe to say she’s the first ever girl I have ever loved. Then I was still not really islamically knowledgeable but I didn’t do anything immoral.
I dated her, and by Allah all I wanted was to have this girl as my wife. She also fancied this idea, but we were just teenagers. I just graduated and she still had two more years before she graduates.

All I wanted to do was get into a university, graduate, get a job and marry her…and I told her…she was as excited abt it as i was.

I just want to remind you that through out the 3 years we dated we never kissed or do anything immoral. It was all about an inner chemistry, talkingand sharing feelings…it was magical.

So what happened?

Well I had my plans and Almighty Allah had His. I couldn’t getinto a university as quickly as I planned. Got in last year, alhamdulilah..

We were still together even after I left the state. Although I must confess that there were bits of misunderstanding sometimes, its a common thing.

On a faithful day I got a msg, and it read that her family have gotten a husband for her. They wanted her to marry on time because she was growing fast and more beautiful and probably feared that’s she might indulge in licentious acts.

The news shattered me! I was so sad I coudnt sleep. This is a girl that gave me hope to make it, shewas the reason I wanted to succeeded,I wanted to be the one that will be there for her. But Allah has His plans.

So what I’m I saying?

Each time I remember her and remember how we didn’t indulge inimmoral acts I feel happy. I feel relieved that I didn’t violate someones daughter, someones sister, someones aunt. I have this good feeling that radiate my heart that makes me feel that I didn’t turn a good girl bad, I didn’t let my desires take control of me.

culled from https://musliminafrica.

Looool. Clap for urself

Good one. I wish many people will understand and avoid premarital sex and things that stimulates it.

We must continue to say it until every one hears and believes.

PrE-mAriTaL SeX nO Be GoOd TiN, BuH PpLe wiLl nOt ChAnGe...

Cutehector4u:
Looool. Clap for urself

Badmouthed gee u don start Again







Abeg where zick19 dey? Gimme sk mak I dey high while observing

HSinclair:

Badmouthed gee u don start Again







Abeg where zick19 dey? Gimme sk mak I dey high while observing

lol how I take badmouth hehe. D guy funny well well. Laff no gree me rest

Hmmm… I hear buh i no gree

Mattkent:
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so u mean say u never bleep any girl before ni ??

Cutehector4u:
lol how I take badmouth hehe. D guy funny well well. Laff no gree me rest

U sef clap for yourself

ghost1718:
so u mean say u never bleep any girl before ni ??

Wetin b ur definition of bleep?

Cutehector4u:
Looool. Clap for urself

Cutehector4u:
lol how I take badmouth hehe. D guy funny well well. Laff no gree me rest

@HSinclair, Na 1bag of weed be dat, e go reach u or make i add more?









#smoking_my_weed_jejely

Mattkent:


Wetin b ur definition of bleep?

u never fvck any girl befor ni ??

zick19:

@HSinclair, Na 1bag of weed be dat, e go reach u or make i add more?









#smoking_my_weed_jejely

Choi this ur weed quality na die... Even the smell don dey high me






Abeg u fit make am 3 bags?

HSinclair:


Choi this ur weed quality na die... Even the smell don dey high me






Abeg u fit make am 3 bags?

Bros, abeg u don write ur will

ghost1718:
u never fvck any girl befor ni ??

nop...only for my drmz.

zick19:

Bros, abeg u don write ur will

Mattkent:


nop...only for my drmz.

na Ur type make the girl were i bleep last week tell my best padi say she be virgin

ghost1718:
na Ur type make the girl were i bleep last week tell my best padi say she be virgin

hhhh...see this guy o...wetin u come mean?

Mattkent:


hhhh...see this guy o...wetin u come mean?

watin i mean be say even if ur mama won marry today, she GO still claim say she be virgin.......... No offence

ghost1718:
watin i mean be say even if ur mama won marry today, she GO still claim say she be virgin.......... No offence

None taken...regardless u nid to stop bleepin these gurls...

jst imagine u spent a lot of money to acquire d latest car...brand new one. N on observin u find out d car na second hand...shey u no go vex?

Na same tin wit d ladies wey dem don disvirgin...wen they reach their hubby house.

abeg make u stop d bleepin...i check ur dp...u don reach to marry

Mattkent:


None taken...regardless u nid to stop bleepin these gurls...

jst imagine u spent a lot of money to acquire d latest car...brand new one. N on observin u find out d car na second hand...shey u no go vex?

Na same tin wit d ladies wey dem don disvirgin...wen they reach their hubby house.

abeg make u stop d bleepin...i check ur dp...u don reach to marry

bross no be me disvirgined the ones i don bleep oh infact i never disvirgine any girl before .......... Talking about marriage matter, my guy u won kill me ni?? 21+ never reach nah, the girl when i GO marry go come dey how many??.......... If to say na my twin sister E for better

ghost1718:
bross no be me disvirgined the ones i don bleep oh infact i never disvirgine any girl before .......... Talking about marriage matter, my guy u won kill me ni?? 21+ never reach nah, the girl when i GO marry go come dey how many??.......... If to say na my twin sister E for better

hhhhh...u no serious...if u fit dey bleep for age 21 wetin come dey hinder u frm marriage.

Mattkent:


hhhhh...u no serious...if u fit dey bleep for age 21 wetin come dey hinder u frm marriage.

bross i still dey wait for mrs right and u no how is very hard to save money