Ok, My friend and i had this arguement, her mother actually advised her never to trust anyman and she has taken it into her relationships. She claims to love her present boyfriend but is not stupid enough to trust him.

I mean isn't trust essential to a relationship especially when love is involved?

Complicated. Very very.

I think your friend Could love her boyfriend without trusting him. But she can't be 'in love' with him, and say she doesn't trust him.

hotangel abeg jam me up one hi five biko. u have trully separated the sand from the garri.
look yemstar your friend needs to re-evaluate, reclassify what she feels for her BF. because as hotangel said she LOVES him but she aint IN LOVE with him thats why she cant trust him. and if she cant trust him then they could as well be buddies with benefits thats if there are benefits in the relationship they have.

Trust is an exhibition of Love, trust is the way you show that you LOVE someone, i don't think love can work out well if there is no trust

poor girl! she really don't know what she stand to loss at the end. her mother help her sow a seed of broken relationship and marriage. i hope she realizes it in time to turn the clock around for the better.

i think she should ask are mother if she does not truth her dad, cos there is no such thing like love without truth

bibi4u are we talking here about TRUST or TRUTH? Man u seem to be abit TWISTED.

Being in love already has its natural problems which are inevitable even when there's trust, but a relationship witout trust

bibi4u are we talking here about TRUST or TRUTH? Man u seem to be abit TWISTED.


yes oooooooo, the girl herself is TWISTED by are mum so make we help her to

i once made the mistake of falling in love with a guy but did not trust him completely.{i do trust him now}try to put your self in his position and feel how it will be like.hey it hurts deeply,cos you sending a negative wave to him.he might hurt other girls just to get revenge. love goes side by side with trust.

bibi4u:

i think she should ask are mother if she does not truth her dad, because there is no such thing like love without truth

Olodo rapata,diz guy please how u take signup for nairaland,common written english u no fit write,no kill us for here ooooooooooooo

i can never give my trust to somebody even my husband no way,

cos trust is the only thing that make one to go crazy when the other partner forseek your love u will go mad honestly speaking

Can you build a house without a foundation??
No!
I believe trust begat love,so in my own opinion:
No!
No Trust,No Love!

UR RIGHT MEN
NO LOVE, NO TRUST

Hw can u admit that you truly love some1, without trusting him/her? It is just impossible! What I can only advise d lady is that, do not LUV with both eyes closed, or TRUST with both halves of your heart. Always reserve an 'atomic' space 4 'Bleep- ups'. Humans will always be 'human'.

@ topic.
Yes u can love witout trust. I did it and it failed me. I'm still doing it and its still failing. But i don't care, i'm still loving

'No trust, no love'. You can not claim to love when you do not trust your spouse. Once you love him/her, you subconsciously trust him/her.

Now lets put it this way, u love someone and u trust him or her. You dont checkmate or try to investigate.
You found him or her cheating, then whats the use of trusting in the first place? is it just for the sake of expressing love?

As for me, I can love a girl without trusting her, however I will never show that sign of untrustworthiness towards her, but deep inside of my heart, I'll have the feeling that as human, she can always Bleep up, so if any Bleep up comes in, I sure would know how to handle my heartbreak.

It is those that can fully trust their partners that commits suicide when they find out that their lover is cheating.

@poster, yes very possible, you can love some1 without trusting them, but dnt ever ever express urself that u dnt trust them, just hv that in ur heart.

TheSeeker:

Yes, you can love someone without trusting them. If y'all break up after a hurtful relationship, you can decide not to trust again, then quit the relationship but you can still love the person. However, love without trust can go wane at some point.

That is if either of them expresses doubt on the other.

yemstar:

Ok, My friend and i had this arguement, her mother actually advised her never to trust anyman and she has taken it into her relationships. She claims to love her present boyfriend but is not stupid enough to trust him.

I mean isn't trust essential to a relationship especially when love is involved?

there's no need being in a relationship if u cant trust the person. love and trust go han-in-hand.