Hey friends!

I have aQuestion. Is it possible to fell in love with somebodyover the Internet. I mean u and a girl/boy chat sometimes and allat once this person tells u that he/she fell in Love with u. But u never see this person in real life. I dont think that this have a future. What u think about this?

Greetings from the Ape

yes it is , it's very possible

I don't think it's possible. I believe you have to meet to decide if you're in love or not. There's something called [url=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_engineering_%28computer_security%29]Social Engineering[/url] and you might fall victim to it.

On the other hand, someone who repulses you on the internet just might be your kind of person. It's always good to know who you're talking to.

^{And hey, don't call yourself an ape -- you're very pretty, you know. . .}

I don't think so

Rhodalyn:

yes it is , it's very possible

You know what Rhod, I like the way you approach issues, you are absolutely right is very possible.

off course yes

it is very possible very very ! well i have one now, and i met her through the internet

i can't love noone ova the internet, nevaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

dude you have to see this person before you can decide.  Love no beans ( Abi you think say nah beans to burst 16 )  what really happens through the internet is likeness or what other people call lust, 

This very person i'm talking about, we finally hook-up in lagos and she is somewhere around lagos for Easter break before she goes back to school !

i dont think that it will be real love that makes you love that person over the internet, think, theres many things that make you lose your love , weather it is how kind and generous he is our how caring his is or howwill you know that those qualities are even true and other things that make you love him/her is :
the way they smile at you even if they had a hard day
the way they always grab your food when they go to the table to eat
the way they kiss your nose before you go to bed
and the way he says good night

these are somethings that can make you love a person ( examples) but how will you know that if you never even saw them>

and you have to admit apperance is A LOT well at last to most people. To me its not but you know what is:
the way you treat me when we go out to eat
the way you like to have fun
and how on earth will i know that if i never met you
you can say a lot of things over the computer, how will i know that your telling the truth

well thats my advice, i now i write too much but i be having to let everthing out.

Can U Love Somebody Over The Internet?

my answer is No!!!!!!! ,

no,that's aint no L.O.V.E

men its damn possible, its depends on how emotional u are.

You want reality?

It all depends.I f you are talking about love Ill argue that its not real love but infatuation,crush or lust. For the ladies, their emotions get easily engaged. But for the guys we usually have to see her first (most timed her picture first) before we carry on at full gear. We will definitely want to fall in love with her looks before any other thing.

Besides its an individual thing. Some people fear the adventure and suspense involved.

But because people say they can not doesn't mean it doesn't happen. We are all aware it does. While in school a girl left Unical to Uniport to visit a guy she met through Yahoo Instant Messenger.

And Ive seen people who met on the net, got together and today they are married.

i can c u are realistic but am still insisting there are some guys dat are emotionally wick dat can love by mere listening 2 a ladys voice. dis is not infactuation but true love.

Hotstepper:

i can't love noone ova the internet, nevaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

never say never.
Afterall people get hooked up by family or friends and only get to know each other from phone conversations until they eventually meet.
Very similar if u ask me.

It is possible but it is a thing that will be difficult for most mature minds to do. Most people that are mature will hesitate before falling in love like that. For example, such persons may want to know more about the person on the other side beyond mere internet interactions. My judgement is that what is more reasonable is to first develop interest. Developing interest should however not be condused with falling in love. It is this interest that will now encourage the person to decide how far to go or whether not to go at all.

It is possible but it is a thing that will be difficult for most mature minds to do. Most people that are mature will hesitate before falling in love like that. For example, such persons may want to know more about the person on the other side beyond mere internet interactions. My judgement is that what is more reasonable is to first develop interest. Developing interest should however not be condused with falling in love. It is this interest that will now encourage the person to decide how far to go or whether not to go at all.

frienship?
done it so many times
relationships?
there's just something about it thats rib cracking hilarious

Very hard but i d prefer not to!

If you "honestly" dont mind a "limited" relationship, sure!

You can only know what the other person tells you online, You will never know 4 sure about this person until you are face 2 face and have spent quality time, Anyone can pretend to be "perfect" online,
You would be settling for a non-realistic approach to love,

What is a realistic approach? Arranged Marriage?

Welcome
YES IT IS POSSIBLE TO FELL IN LOVE IN INTERNET.

Read my new thread: Marriage With A Nigerian Man

I fell in love and get married, I'm going to send him an invitation, but most posts are against me. Some of them are nice.
I am different woman now.

Maybe in next centuries people will fell in love only in internet and live together without problems.

@topic

Girls are very cheap so is possible if you want 2 argue with me just try facebook,all they want is money not love

Easiest way to fall in love.

I don't think so. You can be in love with the image that they project to you, but you can't really love what you cannot physically see and interact with.

If I happen to fall in love over the internet, I will go to rehab.

Why did that make me laugh?^^^^^^^

rokiatu:

If I happen to fall in love over the internet, I will go to rehab.

what about guys who fall in love wit your backside in sexuality zone!!

OP.
I don't believe in this kinda of love ooo
I think you can only like someone online but, to love . . . . .