I wonder why ya all is so afraid of this myth called hell, an old antic to recondition the human mind. Sex is to be enjoyed with thy partner, nature can't be tamed embrace it.

raumdeuter:
Better test drive before you commit

Before we start hearing stories like my husband last just 1 minute or my wife is frigid

Bros.. which cabal be your side for yankee.. Homeboy dey enter in few weeks

U peeps keep on saying "Pre-mature" "Pre-mature"
Does it mean those having this "SEX" ain't matured enough?
So "SEX" in a marital home is wat u peeps would refer to as MATURED SEX abi
if am asked, I'd say none is making sense here

In dis era?
No sex till marriage
Wat if we dn't satisfy each other sexually after marriage & we seek another outside marriage?

wetin that one go mean?
abi wat would u say is the cause?
THE DEVIL abi?
Thunder strike such person 10 times

abeg make una try to the reason well
& stop being hypocrite
I'm a Christian too

No wonder Jesus called Peter, Satan, because he was speaking the devil's words to Jesus against dying on the cross.
Op sounds like the devil who questions Eve about the forbidden fruit knowing well what God had said. Through this, untold hardship and suffering has been unleashed upon humanity.
Why question the instructions of God instead of trusting and obeying.
Remember you will NOT take your physical penis or vagina to God on judgment day. so if they wil rot here, why let them push the eternal you into eternal fire instead of eternal bliss
Op, accept Jesus into your heart

;DNah too much pOnmo we dey shop dey make sexual urge rise,person dey ask where did bible forbids fornication?? Nawao

Ogbeche77:
Bros.. which cabal be your side for yankee.. Homeboy dey enter in few weeks

Texas

[quote author=seedord247 post=30425463][b]I keep asking them the same thing... Where in the bible did they talk about premarital sex ?...

If i'm buying a product i need to test it to see how efficient it will work if i decided to take it home.. Really,do u perhaps test ur sandin before buying it or eat part of a biscuit b4 paying 4 it or probably taste ur meals at d Buka b4 buying? Well if your answer to all these is No,then literally its wrong.God so much detest d sin of sexual immorality because ur body is a dwelling place 4 God.moreover anytin u can't control is demonic because God has given us d grace 2 take charge and dominate everytin including our actions ask him 4 more grace and he will help u...

gilgal7:
FTC...
Before i buy a car i have to check the engine,the gear box is loading properly,durable on a long express ride...i hate outside runs when am committed...lol

Na ur pishure be dat for ur dp?

raumdeuter:


Texas

Ha.. That side far ooo.. Na Chigago I dey enter

ireneidiva:

Number 1, if you die without having sex, so what? What kind of dumb reason is that!
Number 2, anybody that marries because of sex is still a kid.sex before marriage will definately take you to hell adn so will other things like creating this kind of thread too. Sin is sin!

. u don't no wat u r saying!direct those questions to ur sef first before writing ok.

Sex before or after marriage,whatever rocks ur both,cos we are all different. And whoever said pre-marriage sex will take one to hell is a liar & does'nt read the Bible.There's no where in the Bible, such was stated,the Bible only said we should tame our members. Pre or post-marriage sex both have their pros & cons,so whatever works for u is ur choice. On the other hand,somone told me a lady got married to a man that insisted on no sex b4 marriage,on their wedding night,the lady discovered her husband's private region was like the size of the thumb,according to the man it had never grown beyond that size since birth,& the next thing the lady did was to park her bags to her parents house.Life can indeed be unfair.

Ishilove:

I agree with Dr Olukoya.

I for fear oo

the fact that we feel free commiting sin, does not make fornication not to be a sin. people talk rubbish like u dat committed oda sin will go to hell. there re lot of things we ignore but ryt now is premarital sex dat we re talking on. my follow youths fornication and adultery is a sin. if u can't wait marry dat is d instruction.

only the boyfriends that chop these young girls when they really young wins!!!

All of u marrying older girls and wishing you had younger girls... its really a tough call.

the bad girls of youth repackage themselves for marriage. u r basically buying a used product.

me i need tear rubber oh.

at the nigerian marriage age, the girls are no longer vital or very desirable which is why guys will marry them then cheat.

all you young girls out there, do ur selves a favor and redevelop the early marriage mentality. it pays.

ireneidiva:

Number 1, if you die without having sex, so what? What kind of dumb reason is that!
Number 2, anybody that marries because of sex is still a kid.sex before marriage will definately take you to hell adn so will other things like creating this kind of thread too. Sin is sin!

Why scare everyone with hell, is sex the only sin ? And why can't him just share his opinion without being judged, I would have judged u for judging him, but I guess that would have made me a judge which am not suppose to be...

Mellin:
..ssshhssssss...swear with ur life u didn't have sex before or after marriage...rev sister irene..tseww ..sin my foot..peeps enjoy life cos these days life are too short

Is the part of the world you live in that bad that you don't believe people can abstain

Dont mind most of these hypocrites who preach abstinence! They are the ones who end up as perverts in secret. I know what i'm saying

Seems uve seen d bible verse dat says Marriage is honourable with d bed UNDEFILED

MzNelly:
People be coming up with reasons why pre-marital sex should be endorsed

LOL, Have your sex and leave 'em virgins alone. Nobody asked to be convinced.

same 2 does preching abstainance. As if sex b4 marriage is d only SIN.

gilgal7:

Even thou its branded u need to test run the engine,checkout the engine type whether is V6,the interior the main expected specification...etc wrong choice dosen't pay

in other words, u would get married eventually just for sex... dumb! u test cars cos we don't want it failing... u test ur prospective mate through courtship to see if he or she is who u really want, not if he or she can bang well or not... deep down, y'all knows having sex before marriage sucks... I know and u know

classicB:
No sin is greater than the other. Nobody Is a saint for abstaining from sex alone. You have to do away with all other sins before you are fit to accuse people engaged in premarital sex. You might be a gossiper yet a virgin, another person might not be a virgin yet be a good giver. Both of you are sinners! Stop placing one since above the other.

but even the bible places some sins above others... read ur bible well

gilgal7:

No H.R hires an un experienced staff...

I'm shocked at your comment. So no HR hires a recent graduate? Making excuses to justify our actions even when we feel they are wrong.

Ontarget:
Some righteous or church people on this forum wouldn't stop pushing us to abstain from sex till marriage. They always give reasons like: It is a sin and the bible says so so and so. But they wouldn't tell us how to overcome the challenges that comes with abstaining till marriage these days. I agree that sex after marriage is the best solution to curb STDs and unwanted pregnancies but achieving such in the midst of some resisting factors appears to be an uphill task.

Apart from the sexual urges we have to deal with all through the period of abstaining we seem to forget to ask ourselves a certain question. And the question is: WHEN WILL YOU GET MARRIED AND FINALLY HAVE THAT SEX? Marriage in a country like Naija doesn't come cheap especially for the guys. The guys are expected to have a fat bank account first before thinking of marriage. Unfortunately some guys will be unlucky to get that kind of fat bank account at age 45 no matter how hard they have worked. Some ladies will clock 45 and still no signs of a husband coming close. If we must abstain from sex till marriage are we really going to abstain till old age if conditions are not favourable to get marriage? Is there a maximum limit to wait? What happens if you will never get married due to bad luck? Does it mean you will abstain from sex till death? If actually it was CERTAIN that everybody would be getting married at about 25 years old then it would make valid sense for people to wait till marriage.

Secondly, I think insisting on sex till marriage can cause another issue that most of us don't even think about. Due to the excitement of having sex for the first time and all that urge, someone who has been abstaining from sex can easily be tempted and decide to get married unprepared just to have sex to know how it feels. The outcome of this is that marriage crashes due to this unreadiness and kids will be brought to the world to suffer especially when the couple weren't financially ready. I have come across some folks here advising people to get married rather than have sex before marriage. Is it better to get married because of sex and the marriage crashes soon afterwards or is better to have PROTECTED sex before marriage and avoid the suffering a collapsed marriage? If you feel sex before marriage will take you to hell then it means everyone on this planet will end up in hell cos we are all sinning in different ways.

Contributions please.

[b]Clueless - Death and Late Marriage as tickets for pre-marital sex.[\b]

ireneidiva:

Number 1, if you die without having sex, so what? What kind of dumb reason is that!
Number 2, anybody that marries because of sex is still a kid.sex before marriage will definately take you to hell adn so will other things like creating this kind of thread too. Sin is sin!

Pastor Mbaka

only God fit judge us.....sex is sweet tho and fornication is sweeter

Yes! Fornication is a sin, but let's take a look at its ethymology.
I'm not sure if sex before marriage is a sin, but Sex before Marriage is NOT Fornication!

FROM WEBSTER ONLINE DICTIONARY

for·ni·cate
\ˈfȯr-nə-ˌkāt\verb
: to have sexual intercourse
Full Definition
for·ni·cat·ed for·ni·cat·ing
Definition ofFORNICATE
intransitive verb
:to commit fornication
transitive verb
:to commit fornication with
—for·ni·ca·tor\-ˌkā-tər\noun
Origin
Late Latin fornicatus, past participle offornicare to have intercourse with prostitutes, from Latinfornic-, fornixarch, vault, brothel
First Use: 1552

Notice that its origin is not even Hebrew, but Latin!

Your perception on sex, before or after marriage is strictly from a moral point of view.

Fornication or whoremonger as a word, relates with prostitutes (i.e. Paid sex)

Our problem is we don't do proper research. We just accept what ever someone else has told us, not forgetting that, that person is as human as you are.

ireneidiva:

Number 1, if you die without having sex, so what? What kind of dumb reason is that!
Number 2, anybody that marries because of sex is still a kid.sex before marriage will definately take you to hell adn so will other things like creating this kind of thread too. Sin is sin!

Number 1 point is solid. Thanks for that but....

so if I sleep with a girl and end up marrying her, I will be damned to hell right? Please show me scripture for this.

Btw

Sexual immorality and fornication (pornea) doesnt = sex before marriage.

Lusting after someone attracts judgement. You dont even have to sleep with them in reality.

Herein lies the solution to the sex before marriage: strive not to lust. Remove your eyes (very hard to do). Keep your inside pure.

I can actually see the Devil with his mighty horns typing and posting this rubbish

mattkelly:


Ohh your loving god would put me into hell for having sex with the person i love?Chai,Tell me the difference in the sex i have outside of marriage and the one i have when married?Is there any difference?Person wey dey talk wey them don fuk so tey she come turn emergency born again..Abegi,Religious people always complicating issues for themselves..Mumu people

My friend go ahead & have sex nobody is stopping you. All I see is guilty conscience...

to those who believe say Nay and to those who don't believe away I. The i's have it. Remember that your thoughts are not his thoughts even you think you are wise to God but he sees it as foolishness. God invented sex which come only with a menu ' Use after Marriage'. what we all need is the grace of God to Succeed.

Mellin:
..ssshhssssss...swear with ur life u didn't have sex before or after marriage...rev sister irene..tseww ..sin my foot..peeps enjoy life cos these days life are too short

"Life are too short" the more reason why you should be careful