Every relationship » comes with some
rough patches and good seasons, however,
it becomes a source of concern if the bad
times becomes extended.

If you are always disagreeing with your
partner, even on small issues, and
constantly fighting, then it's obvious that
both of you are in the wrong relationship.

Sometimes, it appears as if things are rosy
again, and this gets you confused.

Are you
in love with this person or not?

Here are 7 sure signs that you are
absolutely NOT in love with your partner:

1. He is not the one you run to: When you
are troubled about something, it is only
normal that the first person you turn to
is the man in your life. However, if you
find it easier to confide in some other
person who isn't your boyfriend/
husband, then it means you don't trust
him enough to share your feelings with
him. This is a sure sign that there's
trouble in paradise.

2. Little things get you angry: When you
pick a fight with him simply because he
didn't tighten the toothpaste cap after
use, or tell him to keep quiet when he
whistles in the shower, it means you
don't love him. If you do, you wouldn't
make such a fuss over little things to the
point of starting a quarrel. If every of his
flaws irritate you or you find it quite
unbearable to be beside him for more
than 10 minutes, please end the
relationship or else you're heading for
disaster.

3. You dress up with other men in mind:
Dressing up for your man should be a
pleasure and not a chore. If you catch
your self daydreaming about some other
guy or dressing to attract the attention
of the guy in question, then there's a
major problem. It means you're in a
relationship with this other guy and not
your current partner. Dear sister, you are
so not in love with your boyfriend!

4. The thought of marrying him makes
you sick: Ladies start dreaming about
walking down the aisle with the man
they love from the very moment they
realise that they have strong feelings for
him. However, if you've been in a
relationship with this guy for years and
you still can't picture yourself standing
beside him at the altar, or the thought of
spending the rest of your life with him
makes you sick in the stomach, then
obviously you shouldn't be with him at
all.

5. You don't feel at home with his family:
You know how it is in Nigeria when your
guy's family get to know you're his
leading lady and they start treating you
like his wife. If you constantly feel
nervous being around them or you feel
guilty because you know deep down
that you will never be their daughter-in-
law, then of course, you know what that
means. You don't belong there!

6. You always compare your relationship
to others: If you love you're man and
you're happy to be with him, you
wouldn't care what other people are
doing in their relationship. Even the little
rough patches you experience in the
relationship won't feel like problems
because you'll always find a way to sort
them out. But if that isn't the case in
your relationship, then something is
terribly wron somewhere.

7. You don't respect each other: If you are
always berating your man in public and
he constantly returns the favour, you
two should consider calling it quits
before the situation gets out of hand.
You wouldn't disrespect a person you
love when you are together, let alone in
public. Mind you, respect doesn't
particularly have to do with age, it simply
shows that you value your partner and
the role he plays in your life.

How can one be in a relationship with all this i the first place?

elantraceey:
How can one be in a relationship with all this i the first place?

lol, wat if the guy no gree hear I NO WANT

Its kinda true but I think it happens wen d relationship is boring

elantraceey:
How can one be in a relationship with all this i the first place?

abi ooo babe...The moment you start thinking of other guys/men when dressing better free the nigga and go for those guys

Yo man you stealed my post!! www.nairaland.com/2138850/7-signs-not-love-man