The life of a lady amazes me, yet I’ll
never understand what it means to be
one or how she copes.
She is under constant pressure and
abuse, not physical alone now but
emotionally, and religiously.
Has she done wrong by being beautiful
and of a good character?, yet we won’t
let her rest-especially, we the so called
Christian brothers.
When it comes to a case of five brothers
walking up to her alone, each
confidently making his case, isn’t that a
religious abuse? Maybe not.
Wouldn’t it have been easier if we admit
to have come by our own decisions? But
no, we don’t. “God told me that you’re
my wife!”, we say emphatically, as if God
woke us up in the night and shouted,
“Marry her or you die!”. I wish the ladies
will just shout “Durr…story for the gods.”
I mean, five brothers whose religious
prowess can’t be questioned. What is she
to do? How is she to survive?
I know ladies appreciate a confident guy,
but it becomes a threat when with bonny
faces we say “Go and pray about it!”, as
if she has no choice in the matter. But
then, is it our fault?
It’s easier if the girl likes, admires, or
has desired any of us before, but when it
is the case that one even irritates her, or
if one happens to be her fellowship
pastor, it becomes the question of “how
do I drive this nail inside pastor’s head
without becoming a backslidden
Christian?”
She shares her tragedy with her friends-
other Christian sisters, and the situation
begins to get worse. I’ll come to this
later.
She has a lot to think about. Prayer
becomes difficult, because she has begun
to analyse them. Why shouldn’t she?
Isn’t she at the receiving end? Does
anybody bother to ask her about her own
choice, her own desires?
There is a guy she likes but that one
won’t even draw near. She keeps waiting
and praying but it seems his attention is
drawn somewhere else. And here comes
this other one that is not bad by himself.
He his confident and has good prospect.
She prays about it and there’s peace in
her heart but she wonders if her first
desire will never materialize; so she’s
careful to give him an answer too soon,
lest the one she wants eventually comes.
She won’t let go totally, in case the one
she wants doesn’t come, yet she won’t
let in totally so as not to loose on both
sides. But does she know how painful
this can be to the guy’s heart?
The five brothers keep pressing on, only
as far as their personalities and
characters can allow.
However, she can only keep one heart.
Others must go. At times, all must even
go. Who cares about the heart of the
ones that go? Do we blame God? Or was
the fault theirs all the way?
Whatever happens, sooner or later, she
must figure out a way to sort it out? For
she cannot have all of them. She must
decide with whom she will share her
heart. She must let some go and keep
one. She prays and prays, analyses, seek
wisdom, worry…
So is the life of a lady, especially a
Christian lady, i ampoetist , and I put my lighter in
the air for all the’ I know,
who are constantly barraged with
request from guys, I feel your pain and I
wonder how you cope.
But isn’t that what makes you a lady?
I love you plenty!

you try no be small

Nice

Beamborla:
you try no be small

thanks mama

MzNelly:
Nice

thank u mama

POETIST:
thank u mama

Nice one

harrysterol:

mama means someone I respect

Sheenor:
Nice one

thanks dear

POETIST:
mama means someone I respect

ok no cause for alarm just remember your brothers responses with papa

harrysterol:
ok no cause for alarm just remember your brothers responses with papa

jahahhahahaa.....u funny small

really touching, shld i let her go bc there r others, wot does she really think? she hz to decide & i wil respect her decision

win1234:
really touching, shld i let her go bc there r others, wot does she really think? she hz to decide & i wil respect her decision

...just a poem...coming soon with life of a guy

Eyaa