Hope you're enjoying your Valentine?

The feeling of "affection" towards the opposite sex...
That awe that causes you to stutter while talking to her...
That butterfly feeling, you know... They all depict the "love" I'm talking about - It's called Romantic Love.

Real Love has two stages: ROMANTIC and RESPONSIBILITY stages.

When both are combined, you call it Real Love- Friendship Love.


Even as Valentine's Day is wrapping up and some guys are considering going into a serious relationship with her OR perhaps that was your school of thought.

Before you do, read this: Why You Shouldn't Date Her For Love Alone



1. Being Possessive Is Most Likely To Surface.


When you find yourself being possessive. You see her with any guy, your head starts spinning with jealousy! You feel so bad! You want her to be close to you only. How unreal!
If she's your friend, you really won't be afraid of losing her. Unless what you have is just Romantic Love.
This kind of Love wants to GET, POSSESS.

Nobody likes being around a possessive person.



2. You Look Weak and Inactive


This kind of love makes you look weak when she's around. You act weak, talk weak and live weak. That's why she eventually leaves you for another guy.



3. Most Ladies Give The Attitude When A Guy Expresses Love


I'm sure many other guys can attest to this. I don't know why. Mistakenly tell a Lady you love her, she begins to almost immediately act funny. Hmm!
For the most part, you end up losing her. Hmm!



4. "Love Is Blind" Isn't A Lie.


This love blindfolds you to the true realities of whom she really is.
You see her "weak spots" but this kind of love cause you to overlook. You may overlook now but don't complain later


5. You Make Unintelligent Decisions.


Because you think you love her, you bypass protocol just to please her- That's not good for both of you anyways.

For example, you waste your savings on her petty wants during dating and when it's time for the real thing, you look like a child.



6. You Risk Being Heart Broken.


Some years back, I had a friend whom I loved dearly. I told her my feelings, she agreed but couldn't wait- I wasn't ready then. I didn't feel heart broken because I truly loved her.

I felt bad but not heart broken. I want the best for her. Its not a Do OR Die Affair.

One reason I believe no guy should cross a certain limit over any girl!

You shouldn't date her for love alone. What should be your standard?

Go for Reality. Don't present to her a mirage. Hmm! You borrow a car just to ask her out. That's unrealistic!
Be proud of your job, tribe and family. Tell her if she wants to hear.

If she loves you still, then that's no more just Romantic Love. It's crossing over to Responsibility Love.
She is making a tough decision to accept you as you are above all her other suitors.


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Have a good evening

u lose moni

ok...

spartoo:
u lose moni

I blame you...

tosyne2much:
Booked

One plot o...

Baba Emusmith..... Make ur boy Ctrl C + Ctrl V this tin na...... Nor worry, me go put ur name there as the owner

Yes. I completely agree.

It really is pathetic and sad when one jumps into a relationship or marriage because he/she is under the illusion of "love."

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ALKARULEZZ:
Baba Emusmith..... Make ur boy Ctrl C + Ctrl V this tin na...... Nor worry, me go put ur name there as the owner

Lol...My oga

Outside this crib?

MzNelly:
Yes. I completely agree.

It really is pathetic and sad when one jumps into a relationship or marriage because he/she is under the illusion of "love."

True dearie, so many are good @ trial and error... Honestly, I envy them

chymystique:
I love your Fourth point.. You couldnt ve said it any better

Thanks hun, You speak like you have a helpful contribution

the long list again

what else should he date her for ?

brito:
Give them a world without women if they'll survive a day. If you like u love me if u don't park well it won't change anything . I don't care about it and even the walls around me knows that. Love is by deeds.

What's your point?

mirexxx:
the long list again

what else should he hate her for ?

You haven't read it...

emusmith:


Lol...My oga

Outside this crib?

Yelz boss buh ur boi nor know ur full name bros

emusmith:


What's your point?

Enough with childish love threads!

emusmith:


You haven't read it...

lol yea
soo damnn lazy

Reading all this stuff here self, won't make me develop feelings for any babe

brito:




Enough with childish love threads!

Wow, Can you suggest a mature love thread?

Reply ooo...to prove you have something upstairs OK...I'm waiting

mirexxx:
lol yea
soo damnn lazy

what happened? too much fries, turkey and fried rice ba?

emusmith:


True dearie, so many are good @ trial and error... Honestly, I envy them

Then do your ownown

malonephill:
Reading all this stuff here self, won't make me develop feelings for any babe

I thought you were in love?

emusmith:


Wow, Can you suggest a mature love thread?

Reply ooo...to prove you have something upstairs OK...I'm waiting

why d insults? I won't reply you

ALKARULEZZ:
Yelz boss buh ur boi nor know ur full name bros

Haha.. I go pm you

MzNelly:


Then do your ownown

No one to do it with

emusmith:


Haha.. I go pm you

OK bros. U too much

brito:




why d insults? I won't reply you

I'm sorry beautiful ...

Forgiven?

emusmith:


I thought you were in love?

I have friendship

emusmith:


what happened? too much fries, turkey and fried rice ba?

lol i was home all through jare seeing a movie #Paul the apostle#

ALKARULEZZ:
OK bros. U too much

Na my pleasure o...