missclassy:
As I sat quietly reading a novel on a concrete bench outside a park last sunday, I observed closely as groups of twos consisting of male and female walked past me. I noticed the smiles , the holding of arms and the look on their faces. I watched as they kissed and hugged.

Then a question flashed through my mind like a bolt of lightening, striking ferociously on the crust of my thoughts.

Why were this people in a relationship in the first place? What brought them together? Was it love?, was it pity?
Was it the desire to get money and the naïve eagerness to give it?
Was it the need to finally satisfy the crave to be promoted from the class of "the single"?
Was it due to the desire to be labeled with the title "my boyfriend/my girlfriend"?
Was it sex, or was it just an escape from the abyss of loneliness?

So my fellow nairalanders, I have a question for you. If you have ever been in a relationship, what propelled you into the relationship?
Why are you really in a relationship

Blackett:
It was love.

The strong desire to love her forever and making her the mother of my kids. I thought we were on the same page, but alas, we weren't even reading from the same book.

missclassy:
As I sat quietly reading a novel on a concrete bench outside a park last sunday, I observed closely as groups of twos consisting of male and female walked past me. I noticed the smiles , the holding of arms and the look on their faces. I watched as they kissed and hugged.

Then a question flashed through my mind like a bolt of lightening, striking ferociously on the crust of my thoughts.

Why were this people in a relationship in the first place? What brought them together? Was it love?, was it pity?
Was it the desire to get money and the naïve eagerness to give it?
Was it the need to finally satisfy the crave to be promoted from the class of "the single"?
Was it due to the desire to be labeled with the title "my boyfriend/my girlfriend"?
Was it sex, or was it just an escape from the abyss of loneliness?

So my fellow nairalanders, I have a question for you. If you have ever been in a relationship, what propelled you into the relationship?
Why are you really in a relationship

missclassy:
As I sat quietly reading a novel on a concrete bench outside a park last sunday, I observed closely as groups of twos consisting of male and female walked past me. I noticed the smiles , the holding of arms and the look on their faces. I watched as they kissed and hugged.

Then a question flashed through my mind like a bolt of lightening, striking ferociously on the crust of my thoughts.

Why were this people in a relationship in the first place? What brought them together? Was it love or was it pity?
Was it the desire to get money and the naïve eagerness to give it?
Was it the need to finally satisfy the crave to be promoted from the class of "the single"?
Was it due to the desire to be labeled with the title "my boyfriend/my girlfriend"?
Was it sex, or was it just an escape from the abyss of loneliness?

So my fellow nairalanders, I have a question for you. If you have ever been in a relationship, what propelled you into the relationship?
Why are you really in a relationship?

girl4rmspace:

eeyah, sowi 2 hear dat, God wud give u a better girl in d near future.

Eberex:


observation: Tell me i'm wrong; but I can guess you are not in Nigeria.

Now to your post. People go into relationships with different motives, and ........well let me not speak for others. As for me I'm in a relationship because she makes me complete. I mean........complete.

missclassy:


Why do you think that I am not in Nigeria?
As a matter of fact, I am Igbo and I live in lagos

Blackett:
Of course. Thanks.

What part of space are you from?

Eberex:


Then you must have sat somewhere so isolated, probably in the night where there are shadows everywhere. Or perhaps it was during the Val period where everyone is so lost in the ''love drama''. All i'm saying is, its odd or weird seeing two people kiss in public. Hell no! not in the lagos I know, unless of course it happened in the scenario I imagined.

Well alleluia! you are my sister!

missclassy:

Lol
It was a park in the university I attend

girl4rmspace:

d part closest 2 d milky way

Eberex:


So I was right. I bet its all those park where love birds come every evening to do smooching and touching.

missclassy:

Kind off

Eberex:


ngwa, enough of phonetics name, wetin be ya Igbo name? Chinwe, chidinma, chigozie, chioma, chinyere, chizoba, amaka, ify, oluchi, ada,..........its one of them ba?

missclassy:

Ngozi
Why do you ask

Eberex:


cos I like asking questions. your nairaland name ought to be classyNG.

Blackett:
Errm, but our solar system is in the milky way.

girl4rmspace:

i know that, but am @ d zone of avoidance............i saw ur planet, loved it and decided 2 visit

missclassy:
As I sat quietly reading a novel on a concrete bench outside a park last sunday, I observed closely as groups of twos consisting of male and female walked past me. I noticed the smiles , the holding of arms and the look on their faces. I watched as they kissed and hugged.

Then a question flashed through my mind like a bolt of lightening, striking ferociously on the crust of my thoughts.

Why were this people in a relationship in the first place? What brought them together? Was it love or was it pity?
Was it the desire to get money and the naïve eagerness to give it?
Was it the need to finally satisfy the crave to be promoted from the class of "the single"?
Was it due to the desire to be labeled with the title "my boyfriend/my girlfriend"?
Was it sex, or was it just an escape from the abyss of loneliness?

So my fellow nairalanders, I have a question for you. If you have ever been in a relationship, what propelled you into the relationship?
Why are you really in a relationship?

MrCork:



.....but wot kinda questttion is this??. serrrriously........we men are innit for the punnny...perrrriod!!!

MrCork:



.....but wot kinda questttion is this??. serrrriously........we men are innit for the punnny...perrrriod!!!

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