1. Her man’s appearance
Men are usually considered to be the most
turned on by visual stimuli (think about it:
how many strip clubs and adult magazines
are actually targeted toward females?), but
women are actually quite turned on by a
man’s face, bo dy and movement as well,
say Meston and Buss. “s exually, women are
attracted to men with masculine features,
although not too masculine,” Meston
explains. “A little light stubble is usually a
turn-on for women if it’s clean and well-
kept. bo dy-wise, women generally find men
with a V-shaped torso or a high shoulder-to-
hip ratio s exually attractive. Motion is
important, too, as women find athletic
prowess and agility to be s exual turn-ons.”
The bottom line: If you’d like to get her in the
sack, a good first step to take might be
getting yourself into the gym.
2. The time of day
Meston says that women are very
individualized in terms of when they most
prefer to get it on: “In general, women want
to have s ex when they feel their best —
when they have energy, feel connected to
their partners, aren’t distracted by work or
stressful daily events, and when they feel s
exy — and that may or may not be at night.”
In order to figure out when a woman’s most
likely to be in the mood, pay attention to the
times she seems the most energized and/or
chilled out. Try thinking outside the box —
you may find that she’d love a post-jog
quickie right before her shower!
3. Certain smells
Meston and Buss explain that, for women,
sense of smell is far more important than it
is to men when it comes to s exual
attraction. Simply put: if a woman doesn’t
like the way a man smells, it’s often a deal-
breaker — whether she consciously realizes
it or not. The number one turn-off reported
by most women is — not surprisingly — bad
breath, says Buss. A woman’s sense of
smell also plays an interesting biological
role in what attracts her to a man, according
to Meston: “Olfactory signals provide a
woman with a wealth of information about a
man’s health, hygiene, and even his genetic
makeup,” she notes. Pheromones — tiny
airborne molecules that humans emit from
various glands in their bo dy — can influence
a woman’s desire to be s exually intimate
with a man. Male pheromones have been
shown to provide information on a man’s
symmetry, which is an indicator of genetic
fitness and ultimately can determine whether
a man is genetically compatible with a
woman. “For many women — whether they
realize it or not — scent can play an
important role in determining her willingness
to have s ex with a man, given her ‘sense’ of
whether they can produce genetically
healthy, strong children together,” says
Buss.
4. Her guy’s choice of words
Often, what a man says is more important
than what he does when he’s trying to get a
woman in the mood. “Offering compliments
is usually a sure-fire way of making
someone want to get closer… although, if the
compliments come across as insincere, they
will actually turn her off,” says Meston.
To score extra sincerity points, make
references to future activities you’d like to do
together, explains Meston, noting that
showing signs of commitment can often be s
exually alluring to women. Buss also notes
that a man with a sense of humor is also a s
exual turn-on for the ladies: “If a man can
make a woman laugh, it relaxes her and
makes her feel that he ‘gets’ her,” he says,
adding that a good sense of humor also
conveys some key qualities women want in a
mate: intelligence (it’s hard to be witty if
you’re not too bright), the ability to gauge
her emotional and social perspective (a.k.a.
having the mind-reading skills to know what
she will find amusing), and social verve or
confidence
5. The need for revenge
In their research, Meston and Buss found that
many women had “revenge s ex” with
someone other than their most recent dating
partner to get back at a cheating partner or
to “even the score,” as some women put it.
“Some women hoped their ex would find out
about it and feel angry or hurt, and other
women said they didn’t care if they found out
or not — they felt better just knowing they
had gotten revenge,” Meston explains. Why
is the need for revenge such a turn-on for
women? “Revenge can serve two basic
functions,” Buss explains. The first function
is one of deterrence: just as bullies stop
picking on victims who retaliate, cheating
partners sometimes stop their illicit activities
when the other person retaliates in kind. The
second function of revenge is “reputation
management,” says Buss. “Women who are
scorned sometimes suffer damage to their
social reputation, whether they are cheated
on or dumped. Having s ex — especially if it
is with someone who is relatively high in
‘mate value’ — can sometimes help to
restore a woman’s reputation,” he explains.
6. Genetics
Women prefer men whose MHC genes (or
Major HistoCompatibility genes) are
dissimilar to their own, because this is the
set of genes involved in determining an
individual’s immune function. “Having
children with men who are dissimilar
produces children with healthier immune
systems,” Buss explains. “Astonishingly,
women seem to be able to pick this up
through sense of smell, especially at ovula
tion, if they are not on hormonal
contraceptives.”
7. Her physical health or well-being
If you’re looking for a few good reasons why
she should have s ex with you, there are
countless ways in which you can emphasize
that “getting busy” would be a wise move for
her health. “During orgasm, opiates — the bo
dy’s natural painkillers — are released,
which can help decrease all sorts of aches
and pains for women,” Meston explains. s ex
can also help maintain the bo dy’s flexibility
and cardiovascular health, decrease anxiety,
and enhance overall mood. Additionally,
Meston notes, having s ex during
menstruation decreases a woman’s risk of
experiencing endometriosis symptoms. Of
course, s ex (if it lasts long enough!) can
also be a good calorie burner, so you can
always suggest it as a fantastic way to burn
off the chocolate cheesecake you shared for
dessert.
8. To raise her social status or sense of self-
esteem
In their research, Meston and Buss found
that, for some women, having s ex is more
about competition and winning (see who
went home with the good-looking guy at the
bar?). For women that do this to compete
with others and also raise their social
standing, her intended target’s social status
is a key factor in revving her lib ido. “Young
women who are ‘grou pies,’ for example,
often compete to see who can have s ex with
the musician who has a higher status, while
Monica Lewinsky raised her status by having
an intimate connection with the President,”
Buss says. She goes on to explain that, for
women who have s ex to raise their self-
esteem, the motivating factor is usually the
need to feel s exually desirable. “Some
women suffer from low self-esteem and feel
bad about their bo dies for a variety of
reasons, ranging from comparisons with
media models to put-downs by their regular
mates,” explains Buss. Having s ex with a
man who finds her irresistibly hot and her bo
dy incredibly beautiful can provide a huge
boost to a woman’s self-esteem — so if
you’re looking for a little loving, make her
feel like she’s the s exiest woman on the
planet!

Ireneony is here haba babe, no were you no dey enter ni

Well, back to the topi))) @Op ur list is too long jhooooor

i never can beg a guy for sE X no matter what...


didnt bother to read tho!

Who fit summarise am for me ..
The write up is so fvcking long

So long a letter

Babe you funny ooo if you didn't read the list, then how did you know that S*x is involved

yinkus4u2c:
i never can beg a guy for sE X no matter what...


didnt bother to read tho!

yinkus4u2c:
i never can beg a guy for sE X no matter what...


didnt bother to read tho!

if the conji too much you go finger yourself. you have nice skin though.

Largas:
if the conji too much you go finger yourself. you have nice skin though.

Finger for wat? Taaah...no be today

pinkycute:



Babe you funny ooo if you didn't read the list, then how did you know that S*x is involved

saw d topic naa

yinkus4u2c:



Finger for wat? Taaah...no be today

I wasn't expecting you to agree in public

Largas:
I wasn't expecting you to agree in public

#okbye

yinkus4u2c:



#okbye

mtchew

sharp babe

yinkus4u2c:



saw d topic naa

pinkycute:
sharp babe

Beg ke........Ova here in Canada, women don't beg for sex

person wey follow this list for naija don enta one chance...after building all all ur six pac, u'l discover d wondas one pac can do with a lil change (for loose girls)

pinkycute:



Babe you funny ooo if you didn't read the list, then how did you know that S*x is involved

the topic of course. abi after seeing the topic you still didn't realise see was involved?

Alrite

yinkus4u2c:
i never can beg a guy for sE X no matter what...


didnt bother to read tho!

this babe neat sha...
seriously who'd need to have sex with youyou're only good for sucking

mizkeleke:
Beg ke........Ova here in Canada, women don't beg for sex

that awkward moment when she posts Canada and her profile location says ph

Beg for sex
impossiCANT!
I dont beg for sex...
You have to beg me for it...if u like have heavenly scent or an angel's look...u must b crawling on ur knees for it.
I aint bragging, thats just it.

pinkycute:
sharp babe

waten u dy find 4dis thread?.

tripleBgirl:
Beg for sex
impossiCANT!
I dont beg for sex...
You have to beg me for it...if u like have heavenly scent or an angel's look...u must b crawling on ur knees for it.
I aint bragging, thats just it.

even when you r Hot AF and your bf decides to starve u

yemicoal:
even when you r Hot AF and your bf decides to starve u

I can never be starved with sex..I go SOLo

please explain the "Solo". Some of us here are learners.

tripleBgirl:
I can never be starved with sex..I go SOLo

Naija gal no send you. Money for hand back for ground

I totally agree with number 1. They cannot just get their hands off my pecs,shoulders and biceps.

tripleBgirl:
I can never be starved with sex..I go SOLo

Lol, aii

Largas:
that awkward moment when she posts Canada and her profile location says ph

u must be new on NL if u dont understand her comment.

ClintonNzedimma:

u must be new on NL if u dont understand her comment.

yeah here in New Zealand we don't say such so I don't comprehend

ireneony:
Who fit summarise am for me ..
The write up is so fvcking long

Dont say dat dear.