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7 Traits That Will Make You Stand Out And Attract A Great Guy by fourpoints(m): 5:42pm On Feb 20, 2015
If you’re tired of attracting the wrong guy or the bad #boy, or the guy who “isn’t ready for a relationship yet”, here are some of the most important traits that will make you stand out and attract the RIGHT one. Although guys may not admit it, they want a good #girl to settle down with or at least have a meaningful relationship with. If you want to attract a great guy and have a long term, more serious #relationship, focus on these traits that will make you stand out.


1. Decisiveness
One of the most admirable traits that will make you stand out to a great guy is your level of decisiveness. For women, at least for me personally, there is nothing more unattractive than a guy who doesn’t know what he wants or a #guy who seems super unstable. In my #eyes, indecisive guys are guys who give empty promises because they themselves don’t know what they want or what they’re looking for. The same holds true for guys who are looking for a good girl to call #girlfriend. There is nothing sexier than a #woman who is sure of herself and can show that through planning out the details for a date or expressing her opinion.

2. Independence
This trait in a #woman is also incredibly sexy to a guy. You know the book "Why All #Men Love Bitches", right? It’s proof that men, especially men who are looking for a great catch, will more likely than not fall in love with the woman who shows off her independence and the “I don’t really need you” kind of attitude. Sure every #guy wants to feel loved and wanted, but they thrive on the “chase” when you’re in the flirting stage. It’s super desirable to chase after the one who knows who she is in her own #skin.


3. Confidence
Not only is it attractive to a guy to show independence but also confidence. #Girlfriend, if you don’t like the “clingy” guy, what makes you think your guy will like or want to be around the “clingy” girl? He won’t. So feel confident that you’re hot and can get any guy you want! Confidence is not really something that can be “learned”. You truly have to dig deep and coach yourself to feeling confident in your own #skin. No matter what you’ve gone through in the past, let it go – you’re now living in the present and you can be anyone you want to be with a new #guy! Take hold of this confidence and show him what you got!

4. Uniqueness
Most women in our age group are extremely “cookie-cutter” meaning: most girls dress alike, talk the same, and act the same. How can #women possibly stand out in a sea of typical “Kim-Kardashian-Wanna-Be’s?” Men #look for women with a sense of personality who are down to earth and unique in their own way. The girls who fall in the category of “cookie-cutter” typically wheel in the guys who only want a one-night stand or a random hook up every now and then. If you’re searching for a great #guy, attract him with your own uniqueness.


5. Sense of Humor
Men searching for a potential #girlfriend want to be sure she has a great sense of humor. The best moments are those when a #girl who is comfortable with herself and knows she’s a great prize can simply laugh off an embarrassing moment or shake off drama when it arises. Relationships shouldn’t be stressful and they shouldn’t be dreaded – have fun with your guy, laugh, be #flirty, and have fun!


6. Easy Going Attitude
Taking a chill pill every now and then is not only healthy for your own sake but also for your guy’s sake! An informal poll of men and coworkers at SheKnows website concluded that one of the top traits men #look for in a girl is her easygoing attitude. The men who took the survey said they do not like or want a girl or wife to make a big deal about #everything and freak out at the drop of a hat. Just chill, #girl!


7. Honesty
People test each other all the #time. It’s not necessarily a good thing or a bad thing but naturally, human beings want to feel mutual respect and want to build trust with other human beings. The same holds true in the #relationship hunting process. Being a woman of your word will go a long way with a great guy who is searching for a a trustworthy and honest #girl.
The bottom line is you deserve a great guy so start acting like it and start believing it! Which of these traits do you think stands out the most to attracting a great #guy?

Source: http://www.ridenattyride.com/2015/02/7-traits-that-will-make-you-stand-out.html

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Re: 7 Traits That Will Make You Stand Out And Attract A Great Guy by vjsmiles: 5:47pm On Feb 20, 2015
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Re: 7 Traits That Will Make You Stand Out And Attract A Great Guy by Nobody: 5:48pm On Feb 20, 2015
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Re: 7 Traits That Will Make You Stand Out And Attract A Great Guy by ArchEnemy(m): 5:52pm On Feb 20, 2015
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Re: 7 Traits That Will Make You Stand Out And Attract A Great Guy by Nobody: 5:53pm On Feb 20, 2015
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Re: 7 Traits That Will Make You Stand Out And Attract A Great Guy by ybot1(m): 5:54pm On Feb 20, 2015
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Re: 7 Traits That Will Make You Stand Out And Attract A Great Guy by Nobody: 5:59pm On Feb 20, 2015
And please.. Ladies please.. Read good books be wise men love women who are smart and collected

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Re: 7 Traits That Will Make You Stand Out And Attract A Great Guy by ademega(m): 7:36pm On Feb 20, 2015
Good.
Re: 7 Traits That Will Make You Stand Out And Attract A Great Guy by braindamage(m): 2:12pm On Feb 21, 2015
klassiquette:
And please.. Ladies please.. Read good books be wise men love women who are smart and collected
...Tell em
Re: 7 Traits That Will Make You Stand Out And Attract A Great Guy by lilmax(m): 3:10pm On Feb 21, 2015
Attitude is very important
Re: 7 Traits That Will Make You Stand Out And Attract A Great Guy by cutieberie1(f): 3:38pm On Feb 21, 2015
vjsmiles:
DONT BLEACH angry

lol...
Re: 7 Traits That Will Make You Stand Out And Attract A Great Guy by YoshiMaster: 3:54pm On Feb 21, 2015
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Re: 7 Traits That Will Make You Stand Out And Attract A Great Guy by Nobody: 4:03pm On Feb 21, 2015
Always play hard to get cheesy

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