I've know this girl for over 10months now. Though since then, we just saw about a month ago.

When I was trynna search one of my secondary school classmates on the FB search engine, I came across her name and since then we've been good friends. I comment on most of her pictures/status and she does same. Ever since we know, if at all she wanna tag anybody on her photo, I'm always the one.

We both attend the same institution. Same level and same faculty. When she wanted to move from her old apartment she told me and I assisted her in getting a new one (though close to mine a little).

On the day of Valentine she asked me if I would go to the club at night, I told her yes. She told me to come pick her so we could go together. But I couldn't go pick her because they were about locking their gate so she went there before me. I later called her, but she didn't pick. When I got there, I was tactically looking for her but couldn't find her. I later sat down outside. After some minutes, I went inside again and pretended like dancing. When she saw me she called me, I went straight to her, she held my hand and we both went out to the other bar.

She told me she had already taken some bottles courtesy some friends. I told her ok but would she mind taking suya and a bottle of beer or snap, she said she was ok. I later bought her a snap and we went back to the club alongside my friends. We danced, I 'rocked' her and did everything do-able. She told me her (male) coursemates were disturbing her when the dancing show was still on, so I had to quickly move her from there.

I was taking her to my house since it was late but she said she was still going home. I had no choice than to take her home. After everything I dropped her home and left there.

With our recent chat, it seems she kinda love me but I don't know how to make the move. If I don't do it in time, I may end up being friendzoned. Nairalanders, please how do I go about it?

Samiceman:
This looks genuine....

Op from all indications, it appears she likes u... U just have to summon the courage to ask her out.

Are u even afraid to ask her out nii or u don't know how to do it?

AfricanApple:
first of all, go and buy a toast machine, then we can know what next to do

ronald4lif:
How did you ask your ex girlfriends out?

A girl is already given you all the greenlight needed and you still don't know how to ask her out, for real.

Don't go about telling her can you be my girlfriend, that's not a good one. Just keep checking her out as many times as you can daily,, especially early in the morning and late at night, show you care that's the most important first step. As long as she's interested in you and as given you a positive signal you can also be acting up as her boyfriend after a few weeks of close communication, smooth talk her but keep it decent. Hang outs more often and do everything you know lovers do. Just maybe you two may get to lock lips together in one of your outings.

Cutehector:
Put her in d toasting machine. And she is toasted. Is it so hard in dis modern age?

AfricanApple:
first of all, go and buy a toast machine, then we can know what next to do

Beamborla:
Waif for one of those moments where you guys laugh and play a lot. After a Good laugh, hold her hands, look into her eyeballs and tell her your mind...



You might not know how to go about it... just tell her 'I've fallen for you'

Just saw it in a film

Cutehector:
Put her in d toasting machine. And she is toasted. Is it so hard in dis modern age?

KingTom:
Stale

Beamborla:
Waif for one of those moments where you guys laugh and play a lot. After a Good laugh, hold her hands, look into her eyeballs and tell her your mind...



You might not know how to go about it... just tell her 'I've fallen for you'

Just saw it in a film

diddydiva:

seconded!!!

he shouldn't forget to slice her first.

AfricanApple:
do you mean the bread the op want to toast is stale?

AfricanApple:
a good way for him to fail his exam

Cutehector:
she is dr gvn him obvious green lights and he is dulling. Chai. Wen me I dey here dey look for babe

diddydiva:


I think his problem is the fear of rejection.

ronald4lif:


Oh okay.

Chatting her up is even better than calling. Maybe try using sweet lines on her when you both are chatting, there are many you could use; life without you will be meaningless, it's so amazing how you let me in your life and please I want it stayed this way forever, your love is the purest thing that I ever felt bla bla. From her response you can start making the usual promises and there you have it; baby please can you let me a place in your heart, no matter how tiny is it I would glad make it my abode. Man up bro. Just flow with her response

joshbam:


Guy, thanks for your clue. Sure gonna be making use of some of those lines.

Cutehector:
yea. Its obvious. But why do girls always like to tel guys dey r nice befor turnin dem down. I thought they wanted nice guys in d first place

diddydiva:

some actually mean it while others don't. they just say it to be appreciative.

You may be nice but not lovable.

Cutehector:
you may actually be nice but not lovable. Abeg how one go take dey lovable mbok