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Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by 1miccza: 12:11am On Feb 24, 2015
emusmith:


I have gotten so close to some of them and all of a sudden feelings starts coming up.

I sense they're struggling and I back off.

It's not easy joor

If those whose husbands are still around sometimes do want to have fun and move out of the circle a bit how much more a lady whose husband breezes in and out like the flash of lightning bros body no be firewood oo
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by 1miccza: 12:13am On Feb 24, 2015
AgapeCharis:
It's not easy o. It takes a lot a lot of inner strength to hold back. On this issue, self-will will work but to an extent. When that elastic limit is reached, it's going to take some inner strength to remain faithful. Some call it grace.

My brother it would take something more than grace oo
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 12:36am On Feb 24, 2015
1miccza:


My brother it would take something more than grace oo
And what's more than grace?
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by 1miccza: 12:37am On Feb 24, 2015
AgapeCharis:
And what's more than grace?

Super supernatural grace bro!!
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 12:39am On Feb 24, 2015
1miccza:


Super supernatural grace bro!!
Lol
Grace on it's own is supernatural.

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Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Truckpusher(m): 2:04am On Feb 24, 2015
Chillisauce:


Ogwu aja man, no let me burst your balloon oh,
Lol, in your dreams abi?
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Truckpusher(m): 2:08am On Feb 24, 2015
flowers4me:


Hmmmm...oh so una know say naija females dey try, baa? e good ooo
Una dey try no be lie but if una wan fucck up too na so e be.
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Truckpusher(m): 2:10am On Feb 24, 2015
See as cococandy eyes dey shine like police flashlight. cheesy
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by flowers4me(f): 2:29am On Feb 24, 2015
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by cococandy(f): 2:57am On Feb 24, 2015
Truckpusher:
See as cococandy eyes dey shine like police flashlight. cheesy
where you see am?
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by nath01(m): 6:17am On Feb 24, 2015
Let People that have the experiences should come and share their stories,so that people would want to venture to it will know whether they are capable to do it.

i did it for five Year Before my story change for Good.
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 6:42am On Feb 24, 2015
nath01:
Let People that have the experiences should come and share their stories,so that people would want to venture to it will know whether they are capable to do it.

i did it for five Year Before my story change for Good.

Hmm.
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by 1miccza: 6:42am On Feb 24, 2015
AgapeCharis:
Lol
Grace on it's own is supernatural.

But this is super supernatural
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 6:45am On Feb 24, 2015
1miccza:


But this is super supernatural
It's already super supernatural bro. What's needed is just the right application smiley
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 6:50am On Feb 24, 2015
Truckpusher:
I got your drift perfectly but again you have to acknowledge the fact that some jobs initially didn't start that way but as operations demands keep coming your way with genuine reasons for one to do the needful after all that was what you signed up for will you then leave the job or divorce your wife to avoid infidelity?

If individuals respects the feelings of their partners cases of cheating would be left to those that has lost.

I'll prefer for any woman to walk out my life than cheat on me because I have no idea how I will react if faced with such dilemma - That could be the end of everyone involved including me.
hmm,careful wit ur language man,muderers lwys strtup wit such tots
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Deejavuu(f): 7:03am On Feb 24, 2015
Emusmith nice thread..Pity i came late sad sad..

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Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Deejavuu(f): 7:12am On Feb 24, 2015
emusmith:
It's gonna be fine and well sad

Amen smiley.

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Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 7:13am On Feb 24, 2015
Deejavuu:
Emusmith nice thread..Pity i came late sad sad..

I told you to hold my pocket and follow me wherever I go, you no hear?
tonguetonguecheesygrin

How are you? wink
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by shejane: 7:14am On Feb 24, 2015
A living example

Thank God for my fingers

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Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Deejavuu(f): 7:19am On Feb 24, 2015
emusmith:


I told you to hold my pocket and follow me wherever I go, you no hear?
tonguetonguecheesygrin

How are you? wink

cheesy nor mind joor..

I must say thumbs up on this tongue..What i don't understand is how can a working class man be away for 8years?
The wife(your colleague)should really do some serious thinking,its either that man has another family over there because i really can't place my finger on why he will stay away for 8 good years.South Africa for that matter..

Abi him dey jail lipsrsealed.Just saying

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Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Deejavuu(f): 7:22am On Feb 24, 2015
Truckpusher:
And it calls for a sober reflection on how we should be grooming our male child as one simple error signal about women being the second class citizen would get his asss whooped and his ego deflated in the future. grin

We were raised this way unconsciously by our parents but now that we know the truth we should pass the correct signal to our little boys that times has changed before they run alongside with that old mentality and get themselves involved in a rocky marriage because of their inability to come to terms with the fact that these people called women have an equal stake in any union.

10000 likes..

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Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 7:35am On Feb 24, 2015
Deejavuu:


cheesy nor mind joor..

I must say thumbs up on this tongue..What i don't understand is how can a working class man be away for 8years?
The wife(your colleague)should really do some serious thinking,its either that man has another family over there because i really can't place my finger on why he will stay away for 8 good years.South Africa for that matter..

Abi him dey jail lipsrsealed.Just saying

He calls her. He's okay. I guess he has another family undecided
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Deejavuu(f): 7:47am On Feb 24, 2015
emusmith:


He calls her. He's okay. I guess he has another family undecided

Hmm ok..I hope it turns out well for her at the end.

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Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 9:17am On Feb 24, 2015
Deejavuu:


Hmm ok..I hope it turns out well for her at the end.

I hope too. Sometimes, when I see her I really feel bad.

Married as though you're not married sad
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Deejavuu(f): 9:23am On Feb 24, 2015
emusmith:


I hope too. Sometimes, when I see her I really feel bad.

Married as though you're not married sad

Yeah i can only but imagine...

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Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 9:32am On Feb 24, 2015
Deejavuu:


Yeah i can only but imagine...

May it end at imagining it sad
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 9:32am On Feb 24, 2015
Deejavuu:


Yeah i can only but imagine...

May it end at imagination sad
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Deejavuu(f): 9:34am On Feb 24, 2015
emusmith:


May it end at imagination sad

Amen and amen.. smiley

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Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nobody: 9:37am On Feb 24, 2015
Deejavuu:


Amen and amen.. smiley
smiley
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by Nicklaus(m): 10:13am On Feb 24, 2015
pweetymama:
hello!hv u cconsidered d fact dat d man could be in jail or hv some oda serious problem dat might not hv enabled him to come home?Everything is not all about infidelity my friend.let's change our mode of reasoning.
Yea you should change your mode of reasoning and understanding bcoz you left out the part that they are in phone contact. Anything else Man pretending to be a woman.
Re: How Do Wives Whose Husbands Work In Distant Places Cope Sexually? by ekwulex: 11:46am On Feb 24, 2015
Rayhut:
Nigerians we pretend alot and like to use religious belief to cover up, those who are saying by grace couples can stay apart for long without sex is just story story, no married man or woman fit stay without sex for three months., they be fire wood. Come to alade market here in ikeja and see how women are rushing th intimacy gadget they call rabbit. In nigeria we live in secrecy and self denial. .is either they masturbate or have a service boy., for men they maybe patronizing love pedlars

Really? U must be single. So what happens when the woman has health issues and cannot have sex for a certain period ( eg. high risk pregnancy or just put to bed and need the body to heal)? So the marriage would come to an end or u'll cheat? What if the man has some health issues that has reduced his ability to perform sexually? The woman should leave or cheat?
I see too many singles having sex too often with their boy/girl friend as though they are married, and I think this is where all these problems stem from, when they get married and face realities of life, they just can't cope.
Is sex an important activity in marriage? O yes! Very very important. Is sex all it needs for a marriage to survive? Hell no!. Even people who have sex with their patners everyday still find time to cheat, so sex on its own can never satisfy. Do you want to know what makes a man/ woman stay faithful? Self discipline and respect for your patner.
Please please please! To all the single men and women out there, don't go into marriage with the wrong notion that sex is what would keep your partner, or without constants sex you woulnt remain in the marriage. I love u all

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