My boyfriend and I have been dating for over six years. We started dating when we were in the secondary school. Now, we are both undergraduates in the university,

My problem with him, however, is that he is too shy and I don’t know why he does not want to have sex with me.

Both of us are virgins, I have tried talking to him about this for some time, but every time I tried, he wouldn’t even allow me to finish before changing the subject.

All my friends are no longer virgins and whenever they talk about sex I feel like an odd one out. Please, can I initiate sex or force him to have sex with me? I am not also sure if he loves me like he said because I believe if he does he would have sex with me.

bogolobango:
May be the guy konji is not functioning mine dey kanpee nd he strong like zuma rock

Lets have a private chat pm me

Girls no dey your area?

naijaboiy:
Its just because of the kind of society we find ourselves.

Nothing there for a lady to initiate sex if she feels the urge. But it has already been stereotyped that way,,sadly.

There is nothing really to be proud about if your Girl makes the first move on sex,,to me it's perfectly normal.

Islie:

Do read this piece



I saw it on Facebook and I marvelled.....
Do ladies still have such kind of believe on the emboldened part. So, why all this negative vibes I do get that guys are the one that only want sex and initiate the need for sex



°So, am forced to ask do ladies really forced their boyfriend to have sex?
°Can a lady pressure her boyfriend to have sex with her

dre11:




A lady can initiate sex
But,
She should not force sex........ Just my opinion

Qmab:
I second your opinion. She shouldn't force the act. It should be as a result of mutual consensus between them. And the girl could help the guy along if he's really that shy.

dre11:


Can there be a shy guy to sex
Unless he is a learner




Have always thought that shyness comes when try to woo the lady to be your girl and when she becomes your girl....... The shyness disappear and principles set in

Qmab:
i think the guy in the context is still a learner. Since he dated the same girl straight from secondary school for six years and he still remained a virgin. So i suppose he needs help the first time around. After which the girl will change tune and start singing ' help my boyfriend is a sex addict' lol.

UnimkeAk:
That boi is impotent joor.
That girl should rape that nigga with the aid of those women that raped their husband to dead in Benue

If it was because of his religious believes that's why, he doesn't wanna have sex(we know the likes), then he wouldn't have had a gf in the first place.

Yh and girls initiate sex all the time, Once a babe gets to know you, that ure a cool guy and is free with you, you don't judge her, you'll be amazed at wht she is capable of... Which is always fun. And deepens connections.

jacksparrow1207:
DOES SHE EVEN NEED TO FORCE ME?
I DOUBT.........AS LONG AS SHES SWEET, SHE'L ALWAYS BEG TO BE GIVEN REST

Mhizizzy:


Lolz

dre11:




A lady can initiate sex
But,
She should not force sex........ Just my opinion