you are always very vague when you discuss things like this, j

amebo no.1:

yea,hard but true,sm women want it by force,smtimes men don't like it when u force them because u want smthing

u don't have to be aggressive,its all bout trying to bring out the submissiving part of u as a woman,and d sky will be ur limit

ofcos u must not be aggressive, u r not the one that worked for money na
but since its ur man, u must know how to make him agree with wateva u want

Of course men are weak. . . . . . mentally and emotionally.
{I mean look at all the wars and crazy shyte that has happened in this world over emotions by men. . .}

Oka physically besides child birth and those phucking ridiculous over the phucking top menstrual cramps, yeah I have to give it to the men.
Aint no way in hell I'm carrying 20 pound boxes up and down the house.

onyinye2:

Of course men are weak. . . . . . mentally and emotionally.
{I mean look at all the wars and crazy shyte that has happened in this world over emotions by men. . .}

[b]Oka physically besides child birth and those phucking ridiculous over the phucking top menstrual cramps, yeah I have to give it to the men.[/b]Aint no way in hell I'm carrying 20 pound boxes up and down the house.

lmao. . . . . .i hear u babe

when a man looses his job,he acts up like d world is coming to an end

women aint like dat

for real men can be emotional

tope2000:

So u think by not getting what you want all the time is the only way to challenge yourself? or make ur life less boring?

Oh, didn't see this.
To challenge myself? Better things challenge me jare.
What I meant is that, FOR ME, getting what I want all the time is boring.
Things shouldn't always be my way.
And yes, makes life less boring.

Who wants a guy that'll always say yes. That'll always do what I want against what he wants.
A guy that'll always sit when I say sit.

Is there even any such thing?

KarmaMod:

you are always very vague when you discuss things like this, j

what is vague my dear?

HeatFusion:

Your question does not correlate with the topic

yea i know. so who is this pllllleeease?

onyinye2:

Of course men are weak. . . . . . mentally and emotionally.
{I mean look at all the wars and crazy shyte that has happened in this world over emotions by men. . .}

Oka physically besides child birth and those phucking ridiculous over the phucking top menstrual cramps, yeah I have to give it to the men.
Aint no way in hell I'm carrying 20 pound boxes up and down the house.

What things?
You best answer me before they come after your ass again

JJYOU:

what is vague my dear?
yea i know. so who is this pllllleeease?

Why do you want to know? lol, seriously

same old story . . . it must be a slow day on NL.

HeatFusion:

Oh, didn't see this.
To challenge myself? Better things challenge me jare.
What I meant is that, FOR ME, getting what I want all the time is boring.
Things shouldn't always be my way.
And yes, makes life less boring.

Who wants a guy that'll always say yes. That'll always do what I want against what he wants.
A guy that'll always sit when I say sit.

Is there even any such thing?

Ohhhhhh . . . . i get u now
I dont want a guy that wud say yes to me all the time too
but when its comes to my personal needs, he must agree

itss am mans world and u women are dependant on us men. A man is the head of the family and the breadwinner remember.

tope2000:

Ohhhhhh . . . . i get u now
I don't want a guy that would say yes to me all the time too
but when its comes to my personal needs, he must agree

Yea, but expecting him to agree all the time is very selfish.
Does he not also have personal needs?

I love arguements like this. In disproving a baseless and stupid claim, you bring up your own baseless and well, stupid claim.  Stay classy, amebo, stay classy.

manmustwac:

itss am mans world and u women are dependant on us men. A man is the head of the family and the breadwinner remember.

yea,but u men sit ur as down while a woman feeds u dis days

Ras Pwn:

I love arguements like this. In disproving a baseless and stupid claim, you bring up your own baseless and well, stupid claim.  Stay classy, amebo, stay classy.

u r blessed

HeatFusion:

What things?
You best answer me before they come after your ass again

Let them come. Won't be the first. And surely no the last.

tope2000:

lmao. . . . . .i hear u babe

Tope baby. . . . . you don't even know child you don't even know. . . . . .

onyinye2:

Let them come. Won't be the first. And surely no the last.

Ok, but you still have not answered my question.



Lol, who vexed N-guage?

HeatFusion:

Yea, but expecting him to agree all the time is very selfish.
Does he not also have personal needs?

If he has the money then why shudnt he? if he doesnt , ofcos i'll understand
besides when a man get married his wife n my kids shud come first, isnt it?

manmustwac:

itss am mans world and u women are dependant on us men. A man is the head of the family and the breadwinner remember.

we r not disputing that

amebo no.1:

yea,but u men sit ur as down while a woman feeds u this days

how many naija men do you personally know doing this?

tope2000:

If he has the money then why shudnt he? if he doesnt , ofcos i'll understand

exactly.
Hope you're not relying on his money, though

tope2000:


besides when a man get married his wife n my kids should come first, isnt it?

Yes, and when a woman gets married, she should understand that at times, it's not always about her. . . .her husband and children comes first.

HeatFusion:

Ok, but you still have not  answered my question.

Well for example. . . . men like Hitler. He was emotional unstable as clearly seen. And see all the shyte he did?? Or even the book "Things Fall Apart". You say what happened to the main character after he killed his "son"?? Yeah those men.

JJYOU:

how many men naija man do you personally know that his wife feed?

many.

HeatFusion:





Lol, who vexed N-guage?

Who's n-guage? A voice told me the trouble making, SOB got banned already.

onyinye2:

Well for example. . . . men like Hitler. He was emotional unstable as clearly seen. And see all the shyte he did?? Or even the book "Things Fall Apart". You say what happened to the main character after he killed his "son"?? Yeah those men.

Take Efunsetan aniwura, queen of Ibadan who almost wiped out her town just because her daughter died while in labor.

Ras Pwn:

Who's n-guage? A voice told me the trouble making, SOB got banned already.

who da hell are you? And cease the cursing

HeatFusion:

exactly.
Hope you're not relying on his money, though

And if i do, isnt he my husband?
Its his job to take care of me and my duty to take care of him too.
Yes i'd help out financially as well but it aint going to be 50-50 darling, infact no man should be sharing house bills with his wife equally unless i willingly came up with the suggestion because my husband doesnt earn enough.

Yes, and when a woman gets married, she should understand that at times, it's not always about her. . . .her husband and children comes first.

Ok serously who r u tryin ti impress with comment that jk
i agree

KarmaMod:

many.

many, now that is vague young lady.  those are the western world naija men. the can accomodate people. thank God for small mercies

JJYOU:

how many naija men do you personally know doing this?

a whole lot

HeatFusion:

who da hell are you? And cease the cursing  

I'm sorry ma'am but are you in any way related to this n-guage fella? I also hear he is a very weak vessel.

Lord i don't want a weakling

tope2000:

And if i do, isnt he my husband?
Its his job to take care of me and my duty to take care of him too.
Yes i'd help out financially as well but it aint going to be 50-50 darling, infact no man should be sharing house bills with his wife equally unless i willingly came up with the suggestion because my husband doesnt earn enough.

True that.
There are hard times , my dear. Those times, you must take things up financially and emotionally in order to keep your family together and safe.
My mom pays most of her bills, she's not sitting there waiting around for her husband to pay them. She becomes independent when she has to, she beomes the head of the household when she has to.

tope2000:

Ok serously who r u tryin ti impress with comment that jk
i agree

I'm impressing you na. like duh

Ras Pwn:

I'm sorry ma'am but are you in any way related to this n-guage fella? I also hear he is a very weak vessel.

At times, things we hear are not always what they seem.
No, am not related to him.
And you didn't answer my question, who are you?