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10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by chidiezeh(m): 2:02pm On Mar 04, 2015
Here are some things I absolutely think women should
stop doing to each other:


1. Stop Taking Each Other Down
If anyone should be there for a woman, it is another
woman. As women, we need to stop taking each other
down with our words and actions and rather focus on
lifting each other up. The world would be a much better
place if we all did that.

2. Stop Comparing
As women, we find it so easy to look at ourselves and
compare varying qualities that other women possess. Each
of us is created in our own unique and special way. Let us
try taking the time to realize the unique qualities that
each of us has rather than comparing.

3. Fighting Over Guys
Obviously, if your best girlfriend has an affair with your
guy, you have every right to scream and yell. That kind of
betrayal warrants anger, for sure. But most times, we
should take our anger out on our partners rather than the
other girl. Also, if your girlfriend is in a relationship and
you are not, don’t allow your jealousy and frustration to
get in the way of your friendship.

4. Criticizing Other People’s Weight
There are very polite ways to make a complement on
another woman’s weight. But saying “oh my gosh you’re
so skinny” or “wow, you’ve added so much weight!” might
be more hurtful than we think it is.

5. Withholding Compliments
Not only is it bad to compliment someone negatively, it is
also wrong to withhold good compliments. If your
girlfriend has a really nice hairstyle on, or has lost some
weight and is looking great, go ahead and say it to her.

6. Telling Each Other’s Secrets
It’s really sad to confide in someone and find out that the
person has let out your secret to the wrong person. Ladies,
let’s not do this to ourselves.

7. Not Being Supportive
Many times as women, we desert our friends when they
need us the most. Its our friend’s wedding, birthday,
graduation, store opening…. and because we feel a certain
way about that achievement or milestone, we don’t give
our support. So wrong.

8. Stop Competing!
I wish I could scream this. Not everything in life is a
competition. No one has to really ‘win’ that best dressed
award or most expensive bag title. Focus on your own
qualities that are unique and special to you.

9. Comparing Our Bodies
Hey ladies, we really need to stop this. Many of us have
done harmful things to our bodies in a bid to look like the
next person. Love who you are and don’t think you need to
look like anyone else.

10. Stop Hating
I really didn’t know what to title this last point. It might
not be the appropriate word to use, but have you noticed
that some women just don’t like other women for
absolutely NO REASON? I’ve heard this a lot of times
“I don’t like that lady” and when you ask why, the
response is “I don’t know, I just don’t like her“. Maybe
she walks or talks in a certain way that you don’t feel
comfortable with and because of that, you conclude that
you don’t like her even though you hardly know her!
This gets me confused. Let’s continue this discussion in
the comment section. Ladies, why do you think we do this
to each other? How can we stop such habits?

What other things do we need to stop doing to each
other?..... Ll

Ladies add yours
Re: 10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by cyprianlah(m): 2:04pm On Mar 04, 2015
women! jealousing them selves since the time of adam grin
Re: 10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by lokito: 2:05pm On Mar 04, 2015
Stop taking each other's bobo
Re: 10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by teewai3(m): 2:11pm On Mar 04, 2015
dem too get problem!!!
Re: 10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by Thanos(m): 2:29pm On Mar 04, 2015
Mtcheew
Re: 10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by Mhizizzy(f): 2:41pm On Mar 04, 2015
I will put dah in mind
Re: 10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by cyprianlah(m): 3:10pm On Mar 04, 2015
Mhizizzy:
I will put dah in mind


You dat i knw
if i hear!
Re: 10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by Mhizizzy(f): 3:36pm On Mar 04, 2015
cyprianlah:



You dat i knw
if i hear!
t


Bro Cyprian ekwesi

Y are u following me about

Puhleez
Re: 10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by Nobody: 3:52pm On Mar 04, 2015
we are just unique in nature than u guys grin cheesy#we can never change!
Re: 10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by cyprianlah(m): 4:19pm On Mar 04, 2015
Mhizizzy:
t


Bro Cyprian ekwesi

Y are u following me about

Puhleez



another escapee from 121 calabar road (psychiatric hospital) sad
Re: 10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by Mhizizzy(f): 5:41pm On Mar 04, 2015
cyprianlah:




another escapee from 121 calabar road (psychiatric hospital) sad

I asked u to stop quoting me..Mr crazy

Is dah d hospital u live?
I tot it wuz yabaleft
God go heal u soon
Sorry hen
Re: 10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by cyprianlah(m): 5:48pm On Mar 04, 2015
Mhizizzy:


I asked u to stop quoting me..Mr crazy

Is dah d hospital u live?
I tot it wuz yabaleft
God go heal u soon
Sorry hen

Normally i don't do dis, i don't sit on my pc to say harsh words to peepz

Buh u nairalanders can push somebody enn embarassed

Sorry about wat i said ealier

sifini?
Re: 10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by Mhizizzy(f): 7:02pm On Mar 04, 2015
cyprianlah:


Normally i don't do dis, i don't sit on my pc to say harsh words to peepz

Buh u nairalanders can push somebody enn embarassed

Sorry about wat i said ealier

sifini?

M sorry too
Re: 10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by Nobody: 7:10pm On Mar 04, 2015
ok.... for the ladies only
*Em_out
Re: 10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by malaria(f): 7:14pm On Mar 04, 2015
Women hating each other is as a result of sheer jealousy and envy. Any lady beefing another is feeling inferior and deep down in her admires something about someone she is beefing. Shekina
Re: 10 Things Women Should Stop Doing To Each Other by cyprianlah(m): 7:17pm On Mar 04, 2015
Mhizizzy:


M sorry too


alryt!
so hw was ur say?

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