I've fallen in love with my bestfriend. She's everything I want in a woman. Initially when we met in 2012, she was in a relationship and didnt want to double date so we friendzoned eachother. Today she's single. We eat together, spend weekends together, enjoy same tv programmes & movies and I see her as an extension of me.
Shes xaring, loving & homely.
She knows all my secrets, girls I've dated, played on, flings & all in between.
I've been out of relationship for over 6 months now but each time I try to tell her how i feel she just burst into a spasm of laughter. What do I do pls?

Okay am coming.. .

Summon up courage and tell her your mind... , you've got nothing to fear... She won't kill you. ..





EricRichie

EricRichie:


Okay am coming.. .




EricRichie

Are you consulting the gods or almighty google? I need serious minded opinions please

Tell yourself the truth first then come back for my advice

cyprus000:
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Nigga

You fucckin move on..there are so many fish in the river.
No tym to waste.

Are you a learner?..in this 21century,dem still dey friendzone person[/size]

Yes bro, I've decided to stick with catfish.

missbehave247:
Tell yourself the truth first then come back for my advice

Buddy whats up, today I'm once again thankful to be a male gender... After our last duel on NL, here we are on same thread like nothing ever happened. Big ups!
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Back to your comment, the truth i told myself is, this relationship is IT.

There is nothing you can do o... Move on Bruh!

op man up and tell her. She might be waiting for u to speak.

*sigh* smh. Thanks bro.

masterchi:
op man up and tell her. She might be waiting for u to speak.

Each time I do no matter how serious I tend to be it just sound funny to her. We laugh too much which I think is the first problem.

dajoaneke:
Each time I do no matter how serious I tend to be it just sound funny to her. We laugh too much which I think is the first problem.

op this one strong oh. Anyways take her to somewhere serious and seriously tell her. The serious nature of the environment and face will make her serious.

love her? fine, ofcourse you should because you guys have been friends for long. I think you just hold on to that, don't try to take it further so that you don't blame yourself later. Friendship is cool and it lasts longer.

It very difficult to move a guy from the friend zone to become a bf. Most times, she may agree temporarily, out of pity till the guy she really wants turns up.

firstEVA:
It very difficult to move a guy from the friend zone to become a bf. Most times, she may agree temporarily, out of pity till the guy she really wants turns up.

wow! this is an indepth analysis. You are right... Theres nothing as bad as dating someone out of pity. I think I'll have to clear my thougths or just propose to her if i really want in... Thanks Eva!