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Platnum1:
I wish parents were more emotionally INTELLIGENT. I was molested as a child by at least 3 different ppl who lived with us at different times in my life. It made me supper protective of myself and I had to grow tough cos my mother just didn't have a clue. I am married now and don't know if there is still need to let her knw wat I faced as a child under my parents roof. This happens alot and most parents are too ignorant for my liking.

I feel you, everyone that ever molested me as a kid were either uncles or family friends
grown up dirty adults that my mother thought were nice people, the worst part is that
as a child you look up to your parents and wish they would know but it turns out they
have no clue and to make matters worse they keep pushing you towards the said aunt
or uncle...parents please be wise, nobody is a saint...even some fathers molest their
daughters.

hmm....Let me share my own story, because i know if i were to share it as a post, Seun will not place it on front page.

When i was nine year old, we had a maid who was probably 17 or 18 years as at that time. My siblings the girls share the same room with her while i sleep with the boys in another room.

I cannot really recall what prompted my mum asking me to join them in their room that night. Probably because we had a guest or something. Anyway that night i shared the bed with the housemaid. In the middle of the night, i felt my joy stick being held and rubbed. i had my eyes shut and pretended not to notice. Then the next thing she was putting her nipples in my mouth. Still i pretended to be asleep. She pulled off and inserted my joystick into her. Ol boi ! it was like swimming in the ocean. Well she did the pumping and all that, and i didnt tell my mum the next morning. Guess i was spoilt at that tender age.

Fast forward. We went to the village for christmas, i think i was an under graduate then. We decided to pay a visit to my maternal home and that was where i saw her.

When we looked at each other, i gave her a look that said : ''i remember what you did o''. I was much more taller than her and i didnt feel any anger or resentment towards her.

If its me, I will forgive nd pretend to be friendly. Then I will poison him

It now seems almost all Nigerian kid was molested while growing up.

Who would one blame?

When even a father molest daughter? And and uncle molest niece?

It's really a thing of pain and regret but parents and wannabes should learn from mistakes.

No matter how much time u spend outside trying to make it, will u bring those fat money back to a broken kid?
Kids actually enjoy presence better than gifts.

That's y I have been advising ladies and female friends to quit what ever job that keeps dem away from home from 4pm to take at least a teaching job till ur last kid is maybe 15. Then he has his or her will, maybe at that time, u can fly around the world if u wish.

Been a working class woman is good but the side effect is heavier than the better side.

My opinion though

HE SAID HE SHOULD COME AND TAKE GOODY GOODY . HA HA HA HA HA HA HA LOL

Some people are beast in nature,there is nothing as bad as raping an innocent child a boy for that matter useless peodiphiles that are walking freely in the street.I thank God say i no be the boy mama i for don commit murder. That abroad wey im go i go make sure say him spend am for prison.The whole scenerio is even disgusting.I can't stand cheats and oppresors,anyway its because the OP is a guy If na me i for harras am, embarras am in the process tear that im cloth wey im wear.

Nawao! Wonders shall never end. I dont think his mother made a mistake by entrusting him in the hand of UNCLE K. She would have been blamed if they are of different sex. All the same, it is well just move on with ur life and forget about the gay being.

And to think he had no iota of shame in him may God help us!

tolextony:
Super story...
Was There anytin like mouth action 14years ago?

it is folks like you that will open doors for perverts and pedophiles to
molest their kids, use your brain or better still grow some new brains
there's nothing new under the sun, every sexual act you think you
invented had been on for centuries before your forefathers existed.
have you seen old porn movies?? I guess not!

Platnum1:
I blv d op is male.

wat if he's male. . .wat d op wanted was 4 u 2 say sumtin in line wit d thread.

@silverdam I am sorry for your experience. Is this your true story? Is this why you are the way you are? You know what i mean...
God bless you

I think we should make this an annual event on nairaland
Victim of molestation's week



So many stories of molestation been revealed this week


May God protect our kids

flyingdutchman:
Sorry, but why all the graphic and disgusting description of the encounter? I had to jump past that section. I wonder why you would go through the trouble of describing in full details. Seems like either you enjoyed it, or u want to subtly entice other guys

Shut da eff up!

Guys but hope you know the. oP is gay sha.

Otherwise, why is he feminine?

Merlissa:
It is well

God would pay him back in his own time.

I promise you that

It isn't "well".

Why did 'God' not prevent the abuse?

Would that not have been the shortest course of action?

Eberex:
hmm....Let me share my own story, because i know if i were to share it as a post, Seun will not place it on front page.

When i was nine year old, we had a maid who was probably 17 or 18 years as at that time. My siblings the girls share the same room with her while i sleep with the boys in another room.

I cannot really recall what prompted my mum asking me to join them in their room that night. Probably because we had a guest or something. Anyway that night i shared the bed with the housemaid. In the middle of the night, i felt my joy stick being held and rubbed. i had my eyes shut and pretended not to notice. Then the next thing she was putting her nipples in my mouth. Still i pretended to be asleep. She pulled off and inserted my joystick into her. Ol boi ! it was like swimming in the ocean. Well she did the pumping and all that, and i didnt tell my mum the next morning. Guess i was spoilt at that tender age.

Fast forward. We went to the village for christmas, i think i was an under graduate then. We decided to pay a visit to my maternal home and that was where i saw her.

When we looked at each other, i gave her a look that said : ''i remember what you did o''. I was much more taller than her and i didnt feel any anger or resentment towards her.

Uhmnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn sometimes it seems easier for boys nevertheless truth be said, she abused you sexually. By the way BAD GUY

Op, get friendly with him, and when he is off guard, give him rat poison or better still get some thugs to do away with him.
After all, God forgives when we don't.

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I feel your pain tho but I'm kinda confused here cause OP is a guy and the beast is also a guy(or is he gay)

Suprised Statement:
1)Anus penetration
2)Can't go naked around guys
3)Not the 1st time he kissed you.


Curious Questions:
1)Dont you have a pussy (only if the beast was gay tho(accepted))
2)If you are a Lady or a shy guy (It's understandable)
3)If you are a guy, and you didnt find anything wrong with him kissing why do you now find it hard to unclad in the midst of fellow guys.

@Op please come and clarify these issues cause i'm kinda lost.

N.B People should not just come here with edited stories and fool us cause this story to me looks like the one i about a lady only now i'm seeing an unprofessional edited version just to make FP on NL.

Peace

Trinxie:
Forgetting is not easy...the thought would stay forever but as u have said u have forgiven him, u also have to let go of the pain....if u hold it, it will affect

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tolextony:
Super story...
Was There anytin like mouth action 14years ago?

Ask Adam and Eve wat dere started doing after dey left d garden of Eden

One thing about sexual molestation is that it is a cycle. The person molested have the tendency of molesting another and the cycle continues.

Wish parents could be more "involved" in their children's upbringing.

@Op, I feel your pain. The best solution is to try to distract yourself from such thoughts. it is not easy but you'd sure find it helpful.

brito:
Some men are like beast, an innocent child that trusted him so much all he could do is take advantage of her innocence.

Molestation is very common these days I wonder what guys will derived in sexing an innocent and immature kids,I though they said sex is meant to enjoy,if I ever caught any guy molesting a kid,I sear to cut offf the diickk,parent pls watch ur kids

bayulll01:

Molestation is very common these days I wonder what guys will derived in sexing an innocent and immature kids,I though they said sex is meant to enjoy,if I ever caught any guy molesting a kid,I sear to cut offf the diickk,parent pls watch ur kids

This may sound weird but I do ask my son if anyone touches his peepee, his answer is always no. I do this when he was in nursery school cos some teachers can't be trusted.

mmsen:


It isn't "well".

Why did 'God' not prevent the abuse?

Would that not have been the shortest course of action?

Abeg No vex o...

Merlissa:
It is well

God would pay him back in his own time.

I promise you that

hmmm...I have a feeling he'd enjoy that

Mine was nasty when I was 7 or 8years(can't remember).

My female cousin in her 20's asked me to lick her private part.

Well, I didn't regret it because she didn't play with my penis.

Story so touching Parent,especially mothers must be very vigilant with their female child\ward.They should be close enough to know wat their children are passing thru.
Well,there is no revenge like forgiveness.My candid advice for u is to Forgive him,forgive urself and move on with your life.I know its not gonna be asy but God will help u

Ndi mmadu

It's well. The experience has only made me more careful. I don't let anyone near my little sister. Cos I don't want d same mistake to happen to again. I also hate d concept of having house helps. I have decided my babies will have to learn how to wash and clean very early cos ain't no body cleaning our home but us. Family planning is also key. After my delivery I will wait for two yrs before any other baby that way my daughter can take up responsibility,no matter how little.

fpeter:



I feel you, everyone that ever molested me as a kid were either uncles or family friends
grown up dirty adults that my mother thought were nice people, the worst part is that
as a child you look up to your parents and wish they would know but it turns out they
have no clue and to make matters worse they keep pushing you towards the said aunt
or uncle...parents please be wise, nobody is a saint...even some fathers molest their
daughters.