The Monster called ''EX''
This is arguably the best time for this topic,
this issue of a former boyfriend and
girlfriend has become a re-occuring issue in
the society. You may ask me, who is an Ex,
simply put it, an Ex is a former Lover.
When you break up with your girlfriend or
boyfriend, it really hurt, you will be sad, you
will feel bad, like the whole world is
crashing on you, some will be crying/
weeping(Especial ly the girl) who told you
guys dont cry also? We do but its minimal
compare to girls, some will not eat or bath
for days, they feel like a part of their soul
have been taking from them.
Some will be bent on coming back together,
thats when you see girls stalking their ex
boyfriend on social media, checking your
posts they will call you and stay mute when
you pick it up, alot of prangs too numerous
to mention just to get their lover back. Some
of the strategy do work though while others
falters.
After a while, they enter into another
relationship, sometime just to while away
time, some are also due to loneliness,mind
you when they enter a new relationship,
most times if not all the time, they are not
100 percent committed to their new guy.
First of all i see no reason why should jump
into a relationship after break up, this is
how to go about it, after a break up, take
your time to evalute the previous
relationship, like, what you did right, what
you did wrong, so as not to repeat your
mistakes. Remember the Law, Never Repeat
Mistakes.
Let me ask my reader, should you still keep
in touch with your EX?
In my own point of view, an Ex is a past
tense.
First of all, cut cummunication with he/she,
get he/she contact off your phone, block her
on facebook, if he/she is calling your
number, you can blacklist it. Sometime i find
it funny, when girls says 'Am visiting my Ex,
but when the guy raise an eye brow, thats
when she will say ''He is just my Ex nothing
more'' this is uncalled for. What should you
be doing with your EX.
You need to move on, stop living in the past.
Also, people are fond of comparing their
present BF/GF with the previous one, thats
the worst crime to me, if they are good why
did you leave them? Think like an intellectual.
Never compare your bf/Gf with anyone, we
are all Unique in our own different ways.
Do what you didnt do in the previous
relationship so as to make your present
relationship last longer, give your guy the
Love and care he need and let it be viz a viz.
Stop living in the past and let bygone be
bygone.