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How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by CharlesNneji1: 2:06pm On Mar 08, 2015
After reading this thread you will find out:

- Why girls usually friend zone you, even when you have been a perfect gentle man and nice to them
- Why a girl who formally has an interest in you suddenly starts loosing interest, even after giving you strong "green lights" initially.
- Why, after spending on a girl, training her in school - the girl either still does not like you or even go ahead to dump you.
- Why the more you tell a girl that you love her, the more you show her how YOU like her the more she seems NOT to like you

By the time i'm through with all this you will finally find out a bit of HOW THE MIND OF GIRLS WORK and why all the girls you have ever liked never liked you back.

Stay with me...

Most of the time most guys have no idea how to make a girl interested in them, I mean - they no dey teach am for school na.

so what do they do?

They start practicing what they see in movies, what they hear from friends, and what they hear from music videos by: Buying a girl gifts, pursuing her like crazy, always doing things to please her, heaping compliments on her.

But still, they find out that all these things doesn't work and they wonder why. Most times the wrongly believe something is wrong with them.

Sometimes girls find guys who do all that i have listed above really "nice" - Then wonder to themselves why they still don't feel the butterflies for such guys. "He is really sweet and a good friend - why don't i like him" they ask themselves.

Then another guy comes along and without even trying as much as you, makes THAT SAME GIRL to fall crazily in love with him, sometimes guys see this as plain luck. The raw truth is this: Some guys know how to trigger attraction and interest in a girl while some others don't.

The reason those girls are turning you down is not because you are ugly, it is because you are not doing something RIGHT.

And that brings me to one thing you have to understand...

IT IS NOT THE SAME WAY A GUY FALLS IN LOVE THAT A GIRL FALLS IN LOVE.

For women attraction and falling in LOVE HAPPENS IN STEPS; it is a process - for them it just doesn't happen. This why when you tell a girl you've just met that you like her she feels you are just saying that just to have sex with her.

A woman might flash her "body" at a guy and she will have his interest (even when he is not in love with her, it will still make him chase her), but try flashing your "stuff" at her and watch her scream. It just shows you that we are DIFFERENT.

Stay with me, i want you to get something.

Making a girl fall in love happens over time and depending on some certain things - that attraction she feels for you might either decrease or increase or even stop totally.

Lets dissect these scenarios together one by one:

- SCIENCE OF WHY A GIRL WHO LIKES YOU SUDDENLY LOSES INTEREST.

Sometimes a girl sees a guy and likes him, even without the guy saying hi, so she starts showing him "green lights" - showing him signs that she is interested in him. Then the guy, as a sharp guy, codes the signal and moves in.

THEN HE SPOILS EVERYTHING.

By calling her up every time, telling her how much he feels about her too often, trying to please her all the time - practically going crazy for her. Sometimes, while still toasting her, he goes ahead and exposes how much he likes her.

AND THE GIRL LOOSES INTEREST then he wonders why, wondering if the green light was a FAKE one.

No it wasn't fake.

To girls, attraction is like a suspense movie, if you show her EVERYTHING at once it makes her loose interest in watching how the rest of the "story" will go.

Becoming too predictable too quick will switch off her interest switch - you have to feed her the info of how you feel bit by bit. Yes, a girl will tell you that she wants her man to tell her how he feels about her like it is a song BUT do it too early and she will loose interest and do it too often and it will start becoming boring.

The more unsure she is of how you really feel about her the more she will want to know, and the more she wants to know the more she tries to
get you to tell her. This is how you build an attraction tension.

And attraction tension is what triggers the chemicals in the brain that makes a girl fall.

The questions girls ask me too often is: "How do you feel about me", "Are we now dating", "Do you love me", "Why don't you ever tell me that you love me", "If you don't show me how you feel about me, i will leave"

Yet they stay on...

Yes, girls will always say that they can't stay with a guy who she is not sure of how he feels.

BUT...the truth is this, attraction is not controllable, it is not something a girl wakes up one day and just switch off or on the way she likes.

This is why you hear relationship questions where someone is asking weather to leave someone who cheated on him/her (Making you wonder why he/she is even asking that question in the first place).

Because a girl can't control it; you can't just convince her into liking you. It's not something you sit down and say: "Ok, when you go fall for me". No you don't do that - You MAKE HER fall (i explained how to make a girl fall lin love in my e-book: The Bang Rule, see my profile for how to get it).

I will be covering why girls friend zone guys in my next article on this thread. stay tuned.

My page: www.facebook.com/attractbabes

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Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Fabdedon(m): 2:11pm On Mar 08, 2015
Rule 1. book space in a potential thread before reading.. smiley

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Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by JayKayMaybachz(m): 2:13pm On Mar 08, 2015
undecided Eh... .

Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Dotwillis1(m): 2:13pm On Mar 08, 2015
*Listening to lil wayne's ft T_pain ' How to Hate' .... .
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Princecalm(m): 2:20pm On Mar 08, 2015
You guys are just so funny, booking spaces as if your life depends on it.
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by quinnboy: 2:21pm On Mar 08, 2015
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Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Dotwillis1(m): 2:22pm On Mar 08, 2015
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Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Nobody: 2:23pm On Mar 08, 2015
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by vizkiz: 2:29pm On Mar 08, 2015
Princecalm:
Still reading....

quinnboy:
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Dotwillis1:
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Orijin101:

see these furckers! grin

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Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Vivly(f): 2:32pm On Mar 08, 2015
This article is Just like term paper.

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Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Captain1Nigeria(m): 2:32pm On Mar 08, 2015
jemimaa01 don enter trouble be that oo.
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Princecalm(m): 2:34pm On Mar 08, 2015
vizkiz:








see these furckers! grin



you are absolutely one of them.
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Vivly(f): 2:34pm On Mar 08, 2015
Dotwillis1:
*Listening to lil wayne's ft T_pain ' How to Hate' .... .
Listening to Lil wayne's How to love
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by MzMessiTohBadt(f): 2:40pm On Mar 08, 2015
Sum1 shud plz summarize diz whole epistle for me,
any1??
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Princecalm(m): 2:46pm On Mar 08, 2015
MzMessiTohBadt:
Sum1 shud plz summarize diz whole epistle for me,
any1??
dey there na.
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Dotwillis1(m): 2:53pm On Mar 08, 2015
Vivly:

Listening to Lil wayne's How to love
*listening to lil'waynes 'I hate love'
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by cutieberie1(f): 3:10pm On Mar 08, 2015
i reserve my comments.
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by MzMessiTohBadt(f): 3:18pm On Mar 08, 2015
Princecalm:
dey there na.
lol
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Nobody: 3:20pm On Mar 08, 2015
vizkiz:








see these furckers! grin



ya papa tongue undecided grin angry smiley sad cool wink embarassed cry :O
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Princecalm(m): 3:37pm On Mar 08, 2015
MzMessiTohBadt:

lol
have you read the piece?
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Nobody: 3:39pm On Mar 08, 2015
Captain1Nigeria:
jemimaa01 don enter trouble be that oo.
but what did I do
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by wilson61(m): 3:39pm On Mar 08, 2015
Hm
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Samoranopapa(m): 3:47pm On Mar 08, 2015
Hmmm
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by dareyking(m): 3:58pm On Mar 08, 2015
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Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by dareyking(m): 3:59pm On Mar 08, 2015
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Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Nobody: 4:03pm On Mar 08, 2015
so true. Nice one op
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by SkinnyDude(m): 4:28pm On Mar 08, 2015
yg
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Desteenee(m): 4:31pm On Mar 08, 2015
No offence intended though, but sometimes one will be forced to think that some nairalanders reason with their anus. An op sit and composes a nice piece as this and some people except few are commenting shit.
These same people are always hopping from one relationship to another in search of non existent perfect friendship, but fail to apply certain principles in their relationship.
Thanks op for a nice piece as i await the others.

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Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by FavouredBee: 4:41pm On Mar 08, 2015
Bla bla bla blah!
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by akinsadeez(m): 4:54pm On Mar 08, 2015
so many space bookers. Chai angry cheesy
Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by psalmsonovic(m): 4:55pm On Mar 08, 2015
i agree with you on that attracting stuff...bt d problem i have with ur write up(s) sometimes is that, the topic does nt go with the context.

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Re: How Girls Fall In Love...the Science Of Attraction Exposed by Nobody: 5:16pm On Mar 08, 2015
MzMessiTohBadt:
Sum1 shud plz summarize diz whole epistle for me,
any1??
Summary: Vote for GEJ

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