Sexual desire is not a slave chain. It was never meant to be a yoke around a person's neck.

Society treats sex like it's a brand new discovery. They've made sex such a front page story, that people today believe they cannot function in life without releasing an orgasm!

At the end of the day sex is nothing more than PART of God's command to be fruitful and multiply. But it was never meant to be the total package.

In other words: God was commanding Adam and Eve to be productive. And that productivity transcends sex alone.

When people lack ambition and strong challenging goals, their desire to have sex will overwhelm them. They'll misuse that God-given reproductive energy on cheap thrills and pleasure, when it could be better utilized in building a prosperous business, getting a degree in college, winning a political race, writing a great book, or fixing houses, etc.

Putting it a different way: the desire to have sex is nothing more than the desire to be productive. Why limit that to just bedroom gymnastics? Be productive in every area of your life: that way sex alone won't be such an overwhelming urge.

The best way to control your sexual drive and urges is to have something else going on in your life that's more important to you than sex.

Athletes do this when training for the Olympics: they forgo having any sexual contact during training. And training might last for several years! Boxers and MMA fighters also abstain from sex when training for an upcoming fight.

What goal are you working on in your life that's so big, so enticing and so humongous that you'll gladly forgo having sex for as long as it takes for you to reach that goal?

If you don't have an answer, get busy finding one!

If you're a Christian you have an extra advantage. You can call on the power of God's Holy Spirit and find extra leverage to control your flesh with.

Occasional fasting also helps tremendously. Abstaining from something as necessary as food shows your body that YOU are in control of it: not the other way around. You have to show your body who's the boss.

Those who practice fasting rarely have issues with controlling their sexual urges. Fasting is a lost art in the church world today, but needs to be revived again.

Lastly, it's never a bad idea to have a trustworthy accountability partner: preferably one of the same sex and seeking similar goals (unless you're struggling with homosexual issues).

You get into murky waters by having a sexual accountability partner of the opposite sex though. That's too much sexual tension in one room.

I'm just offering some practical advice on the topic, because I know it's a struggle that many people go through. But you can overcome that struggle and flip it to your advantage.

Feel free to add your own helpful insight or experience on this topic. God bless.

What I want to add is.

1.The dick,has it own mind.


2.konji knw no misconception.


3.d women pu**y needs a healthier dick.

Thanks to you@OP

golor:
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How many plots of land did u just book?

[quote author=temitemi1 post=31441924]Thanks to you@OP[/quote

Thanks too.

Very interesting

Well said op

Pleasure of lust outside wedlock

Nneka123:
Very interesting

Hey Sweetie, Whazzup with ya?





#Ghuud'Morning

JayKayMaybachz:

I do mean it.

reganvida:


I do mean it.

Okay sir

JayKayMaybachz:


Hey Sweetie, Whazzup with ya?





#Ghuud'Morning

hey fine, you?

Nneka123:
hey fine, you?

Am ghuud


Hop3 yhu had a ghuud day?

JayKayMaybachz:


Am ghuud


Hop3 yhu had a ghuud day?

yup, did you?

Nneka123:
yup, did you?

Yes ah did.. .

Thanks