i'm 22 and have been with my girlfriend for a little over a year now. we have always argued alot but for some reason that really didn't matter at the beginning. now we have arguments every single day and i'm fed up. some days she will wake me up and start arguing with me for really no reason. this, in turn, ruins my entire day. the other day i woke up in a great mood and was all ready to go workout. i called my girlfriend before i went to the gym just to say good morning but before i knew it we were arguing. this argument lasted 3 hours on the phone and by the time it was over i had no desire to workout anymore. i went back to my bedroom, changed, and laid down. she drains me when we argue and i don't know how much more i can take.

we had broken up before for a period of a month and then got back together, this was about 4 months ago. i was miserable when i was broken up with her so i went back to her,  mistake. we fight every day, sometimes multiple times, but she says she loves me so much and can't be without me again. she never admits she is wrong and the only way to end an argument is for me to apologize, even if i'm not the one who is wrong. when i do try to break up with her she starts crying uncontrollably and even falls to my feet. i dont get this girl and i dont have much desire to be with her anymore but i was miserable the last time we were broken up. i dont know if i should break up with her just because the grass on the other side looks greener because i've been there before and was not happy. i am also afraid that if we break up again we will just end up getting back together and i don't want this to be a continuous loop.

thank you for reading and please share any advice. it is deeply appreciated.

Sounds like the enemy.

Satan uses those closest to us to cause sorrow and strife. This is an example of that.

God is not the author of confusion. You seem very confused and perplexed, so that should be an omen for you to get out as soon as you can.

Only deal with positivity. Leave behind all the negative vibes. You will be healthier, happier, and I'm sure that you'll find someone 300% better than the girl you are with.

Good luck!

Peace and Love, Magz

By the way, what is it that causes you to argue so much?? What matters are serious enough to even cause such bickering??

Magz:

By the way, what is it that causes you to argue so much?? What matters are serious enough to even cause such bickering??

Before i can offer any advice I would like know this too.

Honestly,u need to be more prayerful.dis is serious.