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Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by Ishilove: 12:12am On Mar 12, 2015
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There was drama at Customary Court sitting in Ejigbo, Lagos State, western Nigeria, where a housewife, Mrs Funke Oludotu dragged her husband, Omodayo, seeking for the dissolution of their marriage because her husband refused to pay her bride price.

But in his response, her husband said her parents gave her out in marriage free of charge and there was no need to pay her bride price, saying she already had children for him.

The argument between the husband and wife caused laughter among those present at the court during the trial.

Funke told the court that she left her parents’ house to Omodayo’s house and they started living together as husband and wife which produced two kids.

She said instead of her husband to formalise the marriage by paying her dowry, he pleaded with her and deceived her to have another pregnancy.

She said she had to leave Omodayo’s home at Karimu Taiwo Street in Itire, Lagos.

She also instituted a suit seeking for the dissolution of their 8-year marriage on ground that she was not treated as his genuine wife.

Funke told the court that apart from that, he was cruel to her and her two kids and does not respect her parents.

The woman said despite the fact that her husband did not pay any bride price, he beats her regularly in the presence of her parents.

“He claimed that I am his wife but he did not pay a dime as my dowry and still wanted me to obey him always,” she said.

Funke asked the court to dissolve the marriage so that she could move on with her life and Omodayo should take care of the children.

On his part, Omodayo admitted that he did not pay her bride price.

He said Funke’s parents accepted him as their in-law despite the fact that he did not pay any dowry.

He said the marriage was blessed with two children and he was taking care of his family before Funke left his house.

Omodayo told the court that since she said that she was no longer interested in the marriage, she should go away.

The President of the court, Mr A.K. Akano adjourned the matter for continuation of trial.
Source: http://www.pmnewsnigeria.com/2015/03/11/woman-to-divorce-hubby-over-bride-price/

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by Cutehector(m): 12:14am On Mar 12, 2015
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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by delishpot: 12:21am On Mar 12, 2015
Make him sef go pay her bride price na. Him know how people dey yab women wey man never payher bride price but she dey live with am.
On the other hand, why she sef gree follow man wey never pay her bride price?

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by GboyegaD(m): 12:36am On Mar 12, 2015
Were they ever married in the first instance or what are they dissolving? The magistrate of that court was very nice to have allowed all these continue.

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by freecocoa(f): 1:06am On Mar 12, 2015
The woman is very senseless, you pack ya kaya go man house, born two shildrens, before you come remember bride price, mschew.


Talk about putting the cart before the horse.

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by DollyParton1(f): 1:39am On Mar 12, 2015
Errrrm were they married in a court or what?
Based on that story, they are not married to one another. Just a man and woman living together.

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by DollyParton1(f): 1:47am On Mar 12, 2015
freecocoa:
The woman is very senseless, you pack ya kaya go man house, born two shildrens, before you come remember bride price, mschew.


Talk about putting the cart before the horse.
She probably just wants him to do right by her. But she should be clamouring for something of legal binding instead of a stupid bride price that is probably less than a hundred thousand of naira.
Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by cococandy(f): 7:20am On Mar 12, 2015
So what's there to dissolve if they weren't married before?
Unless they had a court or church marriage only.

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by Viktor1983(m): 7:30am On Mar 12, 2015
There's no need for a lawsuit. There was no existing marriage. She just needs to change address

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by crackhaus: 7:46am On Mar 12, 2015
Omodayo told the court that since she said that she was no longer interested in the marriage, she should go away.

End of story.

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by Nobody: 7:55am On Mar 12, 2015
hahahahhahahaha, dem dey pay money for bushmeat, the thing is free noni nah, how can one pay for a grasscutter he caught in is backyard, see wahala

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by Nobody: 1:45pm On Mar 13, 2015
50 out of 100 divorce marriages are dissolved & settled at [size=19pt]Ejigbo customary court[/size]...why¿

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by bastien: 1:46pm On Mar 13, 2015
Lol, bye bye na

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by Nobody: 1:47pm On Mar 13, 2015
Gej till 2019
Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by mmsen: 1:47pm On Mar 13, 2015
So she wants to be chattel?

Will she then do whatever he asks of her seeing as he has purchased her?

Is he free to beat her because she has been purchased?

What is the difference between paying a 'bride price' and purchasing a slave?

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by martyns303(m): 1:50pm On Mar 13, 2015
The man should do the needful if he has the resources, the woman is having a deprived sense of dignity. Certain culture takes the pride price thing pretty serious.

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by Dygeasy(m): 1:51pm On Mar 13, 2015
If you want to laugh away your sorrow,just go to a customary court in Lagos. Too many dumb cases

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by icemann(m): 1:51pm On Mar 13, 2015
cococandy:
So what's there to dissolve if they weren't married before?
Unless they had a court or church marriage only.
I think Common Law marriage is practiced in Nigeria.

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by maxiuc(m): 1:52pm On Mar 13, 2015
Front page again hmmmmm sign of gud things to come anyway that's why I love my Igbo parents if u try nd give away ur daughter without pride price paid ur kinsmen wil surely roast you alife
Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by cynhamscakes(f): 1:53pm On Mar 13, 2015
Its her parents I blame. Imagine the humiliation she would have faced from even the man and other people.

But why will she abandoned her children? Na wah ooo.





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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by Gasout(m): 1:53pm On Mar 13, 2015
The woman is right, but then, this is not a court matter because there is no legal law binding both of them as husband and wife. Let the man self do the needful. The issue can be resolve among both family
Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by Sanuzi(m): 1:53pm On Mar 13, 2015
Tooo bad economy prob
Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by Dreambeat: 1:53pm On Mar 13, 2015
Should there be any talk about dissolution when there was no marriage ab initio.No court wedding,no traditional rites.

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by Krasid(m): 1:54pm On Mar 13, 2015
End time marriage.
Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by abila122: 1:54pm On Mar 13, 2015
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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by ifeomaekol(f): 1:55pm On Mar 13, 2015
GboyegaD:
Were they ever married in the first instance or what are they dissolving? The magistrate of that court was very nice to have allowed all these continue.
extactiy the same question I wanted to ask. How can you dissolve a marriage that never took place?

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by bejeria101(m): 1:56pm On Mar 13, 2015
Which part of mars did the man fall from,free of charge? He should ask his mother maybe she was given free of charge,otondo okurin
Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by publicenemy(m): 1:56pm On Mar 13, 2015
If the man was rich and she was comfortable would she leave?
Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by MKO4ever(m): 1:57pm On Mar 13, 2015
RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRobish, the woman should be happy she even has a man with kids in her life!!!
Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by dre11(m): 1:58pm On Mar 13, 2015
There wasn't a marriage before.......
So, what is there to dissolve now









All they were doing was cohabitating and enjoying themselves

Just like it's done on campus

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by Lionhearted: 1:58pm On Mar 13, 2015
DollyParton1:

She probably just wants him to do right by her. But she should be clamouring for something of legal binding instead of a stupid bride price that is probably less than a hundred thousand of naira.

What else can be legally binding by paying her ride price?

Common Law/Customary law recognises bride price as an instrument of marriage.

The value of the bride price is inconsequential.

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Re: Woman To Divorce Husband Over Bride Price by Nobody: 2:00pm On Mar 13, 2015
DollyParton1:
Errrrm were they married in a court or what?
Based on that story, they are not married to one another. Just a man and woman living together.
Its called common-law marriage. As far as a man and a woman live together for up to 6 months, its proper to call it common-law marriage and the union can be dissolved by law. Bride price signifies 'traditional marriage'. So, traditionally, they are not married, but under common-law, they are.

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