My friend Ade, works offshore sometimes, his wife called me and told me that he wants to borrow some money from me and that she will pay back once Ade is back. I knew the wife through Ade, we all hangout sometimes. I am afraid of being misunderstood in the future. Do you think it is wise to lend money to a friend's wife??

@ops, As long as ur conscience is clear, Help ur friend wife and God will bless u. But be careful because this days some help can put u in trouble.

Bros is the husband aware that the wife is asking you to lend her some money?
If not, run for your life ehhh!!!!

Irrespective if how close you are to the couple, the husband should be aware that the wife is borrowing money from you.

Looks like there is a communication gap between the three of you Abeg, in the name of everything that is good, make sure the husband knows his wife is borrowing money from you; to avoid stories that touch the heart.

Next thing now, she will ask you to come and fix "her light bulb". without her husband knowing.

@Op, can you talk to your friend, like give him a call what's up man, how's things going. When you dey come bk, you know your friend more than I do. just psyche him a little see if he will bring up the issue. If not bluntly ask the wife if the husband is aware she needs money. This can go two ways either you're helping a friend in need or you're destroying a friends marriage abiet your friendship.
The lady might be trying to borrow your dongoyaro just saying.

nzeaji:
Bros is the husband aware that the wife is asking you to lend her some money?
If not, run for your life ehhh!!!!

Irrespective if how close you are to the couple, the husband should be aware that the wife is borrowing money from you.

Looks like there is a communication gap between the three of you Abeg, in the name of everything that is good, make sure the husband knows his wife is borrowing money from you; to avoid stories that touch the heart.

Next thing now, she will ask you to come and fix "her light bulb". without her husband knowing.

my thoughts exactly

Imajine to gv person moni don turn to oputa panel. Just gv her d moni anyways. Dnt think of getn it bak tho.

Give her the money and not ur last saving...it will be cool if u can inform someone

nzeaji:
Bros is the husband aware that the wife is asking you to lend her some money?
If not, run for your life ehhh!!!!

Irrespective if how close you are to the couple, the husband should be aware that the wife is borrowing money from you.

Looks like there is a communication gap between the three of you Abeg, in the name of everything that is good, make sure the husband knows his wife is borrowing money from you; to avoid stories that touch the heart.

Next thing now, she will ask you to come and fix "her light bulb". without her husband knowing.

Thanks, I have put a call across to the husband but it is not connecting... He is offshore, somewhere in the middle of the sea..

Ade wasn't aware, I have to tell a lie to save the marriage... I wonder what she was thinking of .... Women na wah oooo... May God save us men...