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Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by pashaun(f): 8:04pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Olufemiolaolu: Polyandry is a form of polygamy. Polygamy: po·lyg·a·my pəˈliɡəmē/ noun 1. the practice or custom of having more than one wife or husband at the same time |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by MuttleyLaff: 8:05pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
5minsmadness:I dont know why you got the hump for me being honest in admitting checking up your profile and posts before posting on the thread Though I might have fleetingly seen your monicker before, apart from that I dont know you from Jack so what has malice got to with this I bear no malice towards anybody, please dont give me bad market Where have you heard treatment or advice is given without probing questions and then the diagnosis You think this is time fooling around make more enquiries, when "all the information you gave in the original post" werent adequate enough I guessed it might come to this, which is why I warned "Please give responses to all the questions for the expected advice". - all the questions, as in, all my questions for the expected advice |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by 5minsmadness: 8:06pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
pak:Hmm. Fear come dey catch me o. Anyway go ahead |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by babygirlfl: 8:14pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Seun: Words of wisdom. @ bolded, some men concentrate so much on the qualities of a woman and forget that they need to acquire some qualities themselves 3 Likes |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by cococandy(f): 8:24pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Exactly. They have no issues except the sex thing. That's all I believe they need to work on. The rest is the usual nonsense typical of spoilt men who want to be worshipped for cleaning his own house. babyosisi: |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by MuttleyLaff: 8:26pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
pashaun: Polygny or polyandry whatever it might be, would only aggravate a situation Madam, "In polyandry the woman is the leader", is not true ma'am, as the women, just as in polygny, are not in control of this other husbands arrangement or set-up |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by quivah(f): 8:34pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Gaidenk:wrong person.. |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by helen4(f): 8:45pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Renylee:i agree with u sister mi. At times we ( women) are the arch enemy of ourselves. |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by andyanders: 9:00pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Renylee: Well said my sister. I will NEVER EVER tolerate that no matter what my situation is. A man should grow up and let a woman know what her duties are.I will love her and respect her but cannot for once, start doing her duties at home.I can help her out but that should not be taken for granted. Nonsense.The man gave her the room to act the way she is acting.Anyway, some men are weak and can leak any woman's assssssss.For me, I cannot take that. 2 Likes |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by Olufemiolaolu(m): 9:05pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
pashaun:Do u wanna do dat? |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by marv1: 9:28pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
saasala:. How old are u? U must be below 25 yrs and that is why u are nt interested in marriage. By the time u get to 40 yrs, u wont be thinking like that again, ur orietation and thinking would have changed. 4 Likes |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by pbs4real(m): 9:31pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
elantraceey:u wld prove dt wen we meet. |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by otosa(m): 9:32pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
I feel like say something but I don't know how it's normally do they (Marriage Life) because I'm still single. |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by OBlaize(f): 9:33pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
klark3: The only thing that'll make one want to bend over backwards... And make you break all your rules and resolutions Mtchew Crazy Stupid Love |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by Nobody: 9:42pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
quivah:Ok.. |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by Nobody: 9:43pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
quivah:From ur post I concluded.. |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by Tobiegal(f): 9:54pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
This OP should fast and pray for his wishes to be realized. That he helps out is no big deal... They have no maid... And he also said she returns late at night... So, regardless of what ever he has done... The stress of Traffic is enough to make any one tired. Since they work in the same office, am wondering why he would leave her there and head home without her sef! Issues are in every home, that this issue is coming from a dude doesnt make it any special. Like I started with, please go on your knees and pray and talk to her about your concerns when she's in a good mood. |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by 5minsmadness: 10:06pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
cococandy: This couple have been married for three years and have two kids. The man met his wife at his workplace during which time she had just finished nysc. They got to know each other better and soon they became a couple and got married. The man helped her get a job at his place of work but noticed she didn't mention his help to her parents, making it look as if she got the job herself. However he overlooked it thinking it was no big deal. I have tabulated, boldfaced and italicized the salient points for you to read and digest. i'm hoping your biased tendencies towards your female folk will not blind you from seeing the efforts of the man in question. 3 Likes |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by 5minsmadness: 10:10pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Tobiegal:they do not work in the same department. he is higher in the workplace ladder than she is, so they do not always close at the same time. meanwhile late here is like 6pm. No one at our firm closes later than this. |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by egobetatoday: 10:15pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
5minsmadness: from what i understand, this is a very wonderful home the devil is trying to tear apart. i also understand that she tries to change after being talked to. so i think its not that she doesnt love him. she is overwhelmed by the chores and duties of a wife. its good that you have started helping out at home. pls dont stop helping. remember that the devil is working against homes. with this in mind, always remind her when she starts losing interests. dont get tired of talking to her please. make her understand that u like se-xx and ask her if she will be ok if u get a side chick. make her understand that u love her n like to have only her. she is human n will understand. from what u wrote she always tries to change when u talk to her so ... 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by saasala(m): 10:19pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
marv1: Man, you sound like you are not married, dont worry, you will understand soon....And I am not below 25, I am a full grown male adult. |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by saasala(m): 10:20pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Ashonibarenla: Man, I tell you, its really overrated o. Just think, think deep bro. |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by saasala(m): 10:26pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
OBlaize: I have long made this decision, and somehow, I have been with some females who made me wanna re-think, but nope, I remained firm because I know they will change, even if we connect now, they will change. It doesnt stop me from losing my freedom too. And when these people try to come too deep into my emotions, I let them go, remain single for a while and move to the next one. I currently have one who is begging to come back, my friends are pleading on her behalf, but I dont wanna waste her time as I wont be getting married. 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by Nnocliffs: 10:35pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
I hope u are ok? author=saasala post=31612309]Do you think I was mad when I said I wouldnt get married? A man stands to gain nothing from marriage. You lose your freedom. She nags you to hell. You live your entire life to satisfy a woman. She suddenly hates sex, loses her pristine beauty and becomes a fat pig with saggy booobs and tasteless asss, your jokes are no longer funny to her, she doesnt like to go out for fun any more, she now hates picnics and the cinema. You can get more than enough what you tend to gain in marriage by remaining single: Free sex, free movement, you can even have a baby mama if you are so crazy about having a child, plus nobody will call you oloriburuku for being single unlike the females. Guys, dont get married. Think well before you cross that rubicon. Seun Osewa has known these facts hence his decision to remain single (Well, I guess). Why get married when you will end up losing your happiness, and probably divorce. As for me and my head, ama stay single for life ni o...and I dont even give a hoot about having kids. This life is messed up already, why bring another innocent child to participate in it. Think Brothers.[/quote] |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by Nobody: 10:36pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
okay...then there should be something he is still not doing right. don't get me wrong , he might be trying but he needs to learn the woman he's married to. he doesn't know her. he thinks his helping around the house will do...MBA NU! That woman needs his attention, she really does, his resorting to porn will worsen his case and push her further away...love this woman, find out who she really is and appreciate her for who she is, let her know it's not just about you wanting to get down with her,she wants a much deeper bonding, that kind of bonding that is between one who you feel understands you. I pray God grants him wisdom to handle his wife. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by saasala(m): 10:39pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Seun: Had you existed in the days of Aristotle, you would be bestowed with the title of "Philosopher" Now, @bolded...You think its so easy to find such a person. It might take me forever to find her. Your words: You believe it's very important for your wife to remain equally slim and fit and sexually active after marriage? Marry a fitness fanatic who is also a nyphomaniac. Problem solved. You want your wife to continue to laugh at your jokes after marriage? Marry a woman who actually shares your sense of humour. In other words, a friend. You want your wife to enjoy going out after marriage? Marry someone who loves going out as much as you do, and don't try to stop her from hiring a maid to take care of the housework while she's gone, because someone has to do it. Lets see how easy it will be to find such a woman who has all these qualities put together plus she also have to hate nagging and be submisive. And when you finally get her, let's see if she wouldnt just suddenly change after marriage. You also said: I have no problem with marriage because I've seen good marriages but i[b]t is better not to get married until you've surely found the right person[/b].You nailed it...Now lets talk about you, you know, like brothers. Have you found the right person? Or you are still single and searching? |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by 5minsmadness: 10:45pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
MuttleyLaff:ok, I will ask him tomorrow when i see him |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by senorova(m): 10:50pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
Renylee: |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by MuttleyLaff: 10:54pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
5minsmadness:Thank you and no hard feelings |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by komek(m): 11:13pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
saasala: Hmmm. Nice one 1 Like |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by pashaun(f): 11:44pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
MuttleyLaff: |
Re: She Doesn't Love Him, But He Doesn't Believe In Divorce. by pashaun(f): 11:46pm On Mar 14, 2015 |
MuttleyLaff: False. Polyandry in Asia, the women are in charge |
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