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FamilyRe: If You Were To Name Your Child After A Nigerian Town/City, Which Will It Be? by 21stDecember: 5:47pm On Feb 02, 2021
Douglas=Owerri
Wethdral=Owerri
Royce=Owerri
Even Owerri too
PropertiesRe: Different Types Of Land Documents by 21stDecember: 8:26pm On Jan 30, 2021
Thanks for the information
Jobs/VacanciesRe: 30,000 Graduates Get FG’s Agriculture Extension Service Jobs by 21stDecember: 7:21am On Jan 26, 2021
This is not employment jaree. It is deception mechanism imported by FG to deceive and
while away the time of the exited npower volunteers, whom they promised mouth watering exit package but couldn't live up to it. These 30 thousand volunteers from npower has been on this job for awhile now. They were just given a token of about 3k to 18k at month end, after toiling every day inside the bush capturing and taking statistics of farmers.
This people are making mockery of graduates.
FoodRe: How To Make Ofe Owerri (Pictures) by 21stDecember: 12:51am On Jan 22, 2021
pocohantas:
NOW TO THE COOKING



Pic 1: Water level
Pic 2: Oil and cocoyam has mixed properly.

Pic 3&4: Soup is ready. Very easy

I liken the taste to okazi soup. Like a version 2.0. lipsrsealed
Yummy Yummy
RomanceRe: I’ve Been Unable To Move On After Breaking Up With My Ex For Cheating On Me by 21stDecember: 3:39pm On Jan 18, 2021
This matter tie wrapper
PoliticsRe: What Is The Name Of Your Local Government Chairman? by 21stDecember: 12:17pm On Jan 18, 2021
Lolx
TV/MoviesRe: What's The Best Nigerian Movie You've Ever Watched? by 21stDecember: 7:20am On Jan 17, 2021
Have you watched Mr & Mrs. Watch it if your marriage is having an up and down experience.
How about Invasion 1876?
PoliticsRe: Rear-Admiral Ndubuisi Kanu Dies Of COVID-19 Disease (Ex-Imo Military Governor) by 21stDecember: 12:52pm On Jan 13, 2021
RIP Sir
CelebritiesRe: Stingy Men: Toke Makinwa Needs To Sign Up For Close Legs Association by 21stDecember: 2:53pm On Jan 12, 2021
Men will continue to be stingy to you women as long as you people continue hoarding that una palliative.
RomanceRe: Can She Make A Good Wife by 21stDecember(op): 3:46pm On Jan 10, 2021
NeoWanZaeed:
I did n0t finish reading. . i think she is young..and naive. But, she cant change. .NOT FOR ANYONE EXCEPT HER MUM TALK SENSE INTO HER SINCE SHE IS MUMMYGAL
Thank sir
RomanceCan She Make A Good Wife by 21stDecember(op): 3:30pm On Jan 10, 2021
Good afternoon Nairalanders.
Please advise me on this.
Admin please move to front page so that I will get more advice.

I met a girl in February last year. We were just friends but her self reserved nature makes me ask her for friendship and she obliged.
We started. We loved each other. I even met her mom not quite long to compliment her in her in the child she has. She was just about 2 or 3 years ago secondary school leaver preparing for admission into the university. I had in mind to either enroll to acquire a skill alongside her Studies or make her learn a drug/medicine trade to start the biz since she is going into medical courses. Things were rosy at the beginning. Every one was happy. But I noticed something along the way. She is the type that loves controlling her man or even dictating for him. I advised her against it. She accepted that it is truly her character which she really wants to stop. She promised to stop it since I don't like it. She is the type that talks much of her mom than her dad. In those discussions, she placed her mom above her dad and I warned her against it.
She accepted not to act that way. In one of the occasions, she had a problem with her father because of her mom. NB (She has both older male and female siblings). I told her to start greeting the dad since she stopped after that altercation, she swore never to greet him again stating that even if it amounts her loosing "ALL" (I guess me) that she wouldn't mind. I pressed her to but she refused and let her be on that issue. She finds it difficult to say I'm sorry even when she is at fault. She takes time to accept an apology too. She can openly tell me that she won't do something and she will end up not doing it. I have had several clashes with her where she was at fault. Instead of saying I'm sorry, she prefers walking out of the relationship which makes me always pet her and apologize because I loves her. She once requested for a certain sums of money, I asked her what she wanted to do with it, she told me either to say yes that I will give her or no that I won't give her. I told her that even if I wants to give, I must know what purpose the money was for but she told me over her dead body will she tell me what she needed it for, asking if she doesn't have needs as a woman that shouldn't be disclosed to me NB(I do buy her Pads). I tried to make her say it so I can solved it for her because I know the state of things at that time in her home but she refused to tell me. I then let her be. After two days, she called and requested for a certain amount to buy Pad and Felvin. I then transfered to her an amount bigger than what she requested.

She is the type that has a very thick and beautiful eyebrows. I love it so much. She once told me that her friends were complaining that her eyebrows are too bushy that she wants to shave them. I refused and sternly warned her not to touch it. She traveled for her elder sister's wedding in August and shaved it there. I became angry when she came back. We later make up after she apologized profusely, promising not to do it again. This December, after I sent her money for hair, she shaved it again. I became angry but the fact that I loves her dearly makes her take advantage of me and do whatever she feels good to do even when I was initially against it.

She helps someone to do a clerical job on part time basis which gives her N7,500 every month.

There was a time I was owed at my place of work for several months. I became sick that period and went for test that cost me N6000. I paid N3k planning to pay the remaining while coming for the results but I couldn't pick up the results and I didn't go for treatment again because I couldn't raise the remaining N3k. I told her about it although I didn't specifically ask her to lend me. Within that period I was owed at my place of work, she fell sick too and I borrowed from my friend and took her for a test and after that, to a pharmacy for treatment. She became fine. Not quite long, she fail sick again. This time, I asked the mom to take her to hospital where she was treated after a computer test which cost me N30k plus lab test not included. She became perfectly fine. This girl is a stubborn type that any attempt to make her accept her mistakes to apologise would make her wants to opt out of the relationship. I called her for a discussion and she came. When we started, she began to press her phone. She became so engrossed in the phone that I collected it from her so that she can pay attention to what I was saying but she reacted saying "do you think I was listening to what you were saying". I became weak. I didn't speak further. I don't correct her again since she doesn't like it and sees you as persecuting her when you corrects her with advice.

She is really self reserved like I said earlier. She is the type that can keep just one relationship. I once had a discussion with her where she threatened me should I misbehave anytime we become couple. I told her that if she kill me, that she was going to stay alone and her response was" I marry and move on" I became angry but she said I can be angry but if I like I should misbehave that he won't tell me what will happen. After two days, she called me claiming it was all jokes. I have very soft heart that I don't treat people bad especially; those I loves. She is a direct opposite of me. Very hard hearted and doesn't get moved when she is determined. She do care very well about me when she is in her right mood. She is a wife you can have and she will be for you alone.
I really loves this girl and has a plan to groom her to a wife considering her self reserved nature and age 19.
When it comes to love, we plays like kids around each other. We loves like mother and child. We protects like siblings. But I'm very scared if marrying such a girl will augur well with me.

I am sorry for the lengthy write-up. I only wants to lay most things bare to get the required advice
Foreign AffairsRe: Egypt Spa Offers Snake Massages. Viral Video Leaves Twitter Terrified by 21stDecember: 12:22am On Jan 05, 2021
Huncle Lala must be salivating over those snakes now. Like; see meat dey waste here
PhonesRe: One Mobile Phone App You Can't Live Without? by 21stDecember: 10:44pm On Dec 23, 2020
sunshineV:
vpn
Please teach me how to use this much talked about vpn
PhonesRe: FG Orders Cancellation Of ₦20 National Identification Number Retrieval Charge by 21stDecember: 10:55am On Dec 18, 2020
It is not working joor.
Try it now, and see the speed rate at which your N20 flies away
PoliticsRe: Ex-Senators, Ex-Reps Ask Tinubu To Run For President by 21stDecember: 7:02am On Dec 16, 2020
Even, EX BOYFRIENDS & EX GIRLFRIENDS will ask him to run too. ��
FamilyRe: Son Pranks His Mother, Tells Her That Their TV Is Touchscreen by 21stDecember: 6:02pm On Nov 30, 2020
Ask4bigneyo:
Ignorantio juris non excusat
Does it have a relationship with the topic
TV/MoviesRe: Video Cassette: Can You Still Remember Movies You Watched With This? by 21stDecember: 9:16pm On Nov 28, 2020
Living in Bondage
Narrow Escape
Rattle Snake (Ahanna)
Witches
Igodo
High Way to the Grave
Most Wanted
Ijele
Etc
EducationRe: ASUU Divided Over FG's Offer To End Strike by 21stDecember: 8:10am On Nov 27, 2020
Hakin042:
I am a student in rwanda...schooling and enjoying my environment (electricity, good road ,good transportation, security etc).... So I try to help other students who have been stuck with Nigeria education system.... Reach out to me if you Interested in some of the top and affordable universities in Rwanda...your admission letter will be ready in 3 to 5 days ..no jamb no post utme.. no strike...graduate In 3 years in a conducive environment!
How much is the annual tuition fee there?
TV/MoviesRe: Have You Ever Cried While Watching Films by 21stDecember: 8:08am On Nov 24, 2020
ochuski:
Miracle in Cell No. 7 embarassed

If you watch that movie and you dont cry then you're a witch period!.
I downloaded this movie but couldn't understand it as I watched because it came in a foreign language. I tried to get the subtitled version, but it was in futility.
PoliticsRe: Osinbajo: FG Plans To Buy Locally Assembled Cars by 21stDecember: 8:01am On Nov 24, 2020
Bighead5:
Whatever they do, FG should not buy any INNOSON Motors. They are substandard, fake with Zero safety features. Peugeot or GAC are better.
Tribal bigotry in action. SMH..
RomanceRe: Lady Breaks Up With Her Boyfriend After Training Her Through Nursing School (Pix by 21stDecember: 11:51am On Nov 18, 2020
This is really painful.
I pray that this innocent dude wouldn't harm himself
EducationRe: Come And Collect Your Certificates! - University Of Benin Pleads by 21stDecember: 11:30am On Nov 18, 2020
This ones are giving theirs out without charging a fee. Come to IMSU and ask
HealthRe: Please Help.i'm Having A Slight Hotness Around My Arms For 1week Now. by 21stDecember(op): 7:18am On Nov 13, 2020
21stDecember:
Good evening everyone.
Please what could make one to start feeling some hotness around his two hands. I just started having the feelings not quite up to a week now. It comes and goes after some minutes.
Please what can I do to stop it?

Admin should please move this to front-page so that it can get more contributions.
Thanks.
Admin please approve my post
HealthRe: Please Help.i'm Having A Slight Hotness Around My Arms For 1week Now. by 21stDecember(op): 6:51pm On Nov 12, 2020
kobosmart:
U have AIDS
Lolx
Back to sender
HealthRe: Please Help.i'm Having A Slight Hotness Around My Arms For 1week Now. by 21stDecember(op): 6:50pm On Nov 12, 2020
21stDecember:
Good evening everyone.
Please what could make one to start feeling some hotness around his two hands. I just started having the feelings not quite up to a week now. It comes and goes after some minutes.
Please what can I do to stop it?

Admin should please move this to front-page so that it can get more contributions.
Thanks.
please help me
HealthPlease Help.i'm Having A Slight Hotness Around My Arms For 1week Now. by 21stDecember(op): 6:49pm On Nov 12, 2020
Good evening everyone.
Please what could make one to start feeling some hotness around his two hands. I just started having the feelings not quite up to a week now. It comes and goes after some minutes.
Please what can I do to stop it?

Admin should please move this to front-page so that it can get more contributions.
Thanks.
PoliticsRe: United States Not Supporting Okonjo-Iweala’s WTO Candidacy - Sahara Reporters by 21stDecember: 11:03am On Oct 28, 2020
SUFFERInSMILIIN:
]Nigeria is a nation of illiterate and stupidity.
What did she do for Nigeria in terms of development nothing what did she do for Africa in terms of development nothing. How can you have somebody for one of the most backward countries in the world trying to lead the wto please let her come and build our country before taking her illiteracy to other countries. You cannot destroy your country and you want to go and destroy another person's country. Nigerians are suffering from mass illiteracy[/color][/b]
You're truly suffering and smiling from multiple, mental illiteracy as your Monika suggests.
CrimeRe: Lekki Shooting Victim Receiving Free Treatment Steals Nurse's Phone by 21stDecember: 7:26am On Oct 26, 2020
This one sweet me separate
PoliticsRe: Fashola Discovers Mystery Camera At Lekki Toll Gate During Inspection by 21stDecember: 7:09am On Oct 26, 2020
This people won't stop to amaze and amuse me. All these staged, managed tricks are just to make the gullible APC dunderheads to continue believing that they were exonerated from blame of the attack
CultureRe: Traditional Priests In Lagos Curse Men Who Attacked Oba Of Lagos Palace by 21stDecember: 9:14pm On Oct 25, 2020
PissfulProtester:
At least this will reduce their population in Lagos. From experience, curse wey dey come from palace dey strong. They will just waste like fowls
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You are indeed, a PissfulProtester!
The curse will actually depopulate those his subjects that saw his partisan conducts and decided to rise up against it.
The gods actually left the stool and staff long time ago, before the invasion because they, the gods are naturally just and do not condone those unbecoming acts of it's Messengers/Mouthpiece in the traditional stool.
PoliticsRe: Armored Tanks Guard Plateau COVID-19 Palliatives Warehouse As Youths Break In by 21stDecember: 11:11am On Oct 24, 2020
Where is Imo State palliative warehouse?
Please anyone with a clue should notify us.

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