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Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by yahx(m): 10:21am On Mar 18, 2015 |
It might not be nice, but there are some reasons he ignores you. If you're finding that your #boyfriend is ignoring you, what do you think are some of the reasons? Do you think that he feels pressured? That maybe he is done with your nagging? To make it easier to see some of the reasons he ignores you, I've compiled a list of the top 17 reasons he not be paying as much #attention to you! 1. YOU'RE ALWAYS AROUND A guy likes to be able to miss the #girl he's with, and he might be ignoring you if you're constantly around for him NOT to miss. Truthfully, you want to make sure that you leave a little mystery to your #relationship. If this is one of the reasons he ignores you that you've noticed, make sure that you let him plan a night out with the boys while you go out with the girls. Sometimes, when a #guy gets completely and totally stressed out, it could be one of the reasons he ignores you. It could be his way of dealing with the stress. Or at the very least, it could be his way of ensuring that he isn't going to drive you away, push you away or snap at you. * 2. HE'S FEELING PRESSURED Have you been with your #boyfriend for a while and you're still waiting on a ring? Or what if you've been dying to move in together but haven't yet? If a #guy feels pressured, it could absolutely be one of the reasons he's ignoring you. The best remedy for this is to make sure that you just calm down. Don't pressure him for a ring or moving in – if it's meant to happen, it'll happen! 3 CONSTANT NAGGING When a guy feels like he is constantly being nagged about chores, being nagged about his job and being nagged about – well, #everything, it might cause him to shut down. One remedy for this is just to chill out a bit. Change your nagging into soft little reminders and maybe space them all out. 4. CHANGED FEELINGS Sometimes, when you are in a #relationship, the guy you are dating might sense a shift or change in his feelings. Instead of breaking up with you, he could just draw away and start to ignore you. If you feel that he is ignoring you, you might want to talk to him about it. This definitely isn't something that you want to just sit on, ladies. 5. YOU'RE TOO CLINGY If you are constantly clinging onto your man and constantly dependent on him, he might start to resent that. Most #men are attracted to not only confidence but also a woman who is independent. If you notice that your #man is ignoring you, one of the reasons he might ignore you is because of the fact that you are clinging to him a little too much! 6. INSECURE Insecurity is something that affects every single #woman. However, did you know that it affects #men too? If a #man is really insecure and you keep pressing his buttons, it might be one of the reasons he ignores you. So ladies, lay off your #guy, you might see a huge difference in his attitude! 7. TOO YOUNG If you notice that your #man is ignoring you, it could be because he is too young. Age does make a difference and sometimes, if a guy is too young, he is also immature, which means that he might not understand exactly what it means to have a #girlfriend and how to treat a girl. 8. YOU WANT MORE THAN HE DOES While many guys like to have a #girlfriend, they might not be in the neighborhood for a future wife or potential fiance. Your guy just may like dating you, but not want anything more serious than a simple #relationship with no commitment promises in the cards. 9. HE'S SEEING SOMEONE I don't suggest you jump to this conclusion first, but this could be a reason why your #guy is missing in the act or ignoring you lately. Perhaps, goodness forbid, he could be seeing someone else. I don't think it would be smart to demand to see his phone or stalk him 24/7, but it's definitely something to think about. Oh, and here's a tip: don't question him to death until you find out for sure. 10. YOU SAID SOMETHING Don't get all paranoid on me, ladies, but sometimes we say #things that guys either don't understand, or take to heart. Even though they pretend they aren't all sensitive, they really care more than they let on about what you say. Have you had a recent conversation about his job, family, your #relationship, your career, what he dresses like, other girls, etc? These types of discussions tend to get personal if he takes them to heart. Or, if he disagrees with what you said, and doesn't want to say anything about the issue, it may be another reason. 11. HE'S AVOIDING AN ARGUMENT A #guy will avoid an argument like the plague. If he senses you're touchy about something, in a bad mood or you're upset about something, he might avoid you to avoid the argument ahead. Instead of getting mad, talk to him about something lighthearted to try to start conversation. Give it #time and then see if it might be for another reason. 12. HE'S A WORKAHOLIC Some guys are workaholics, even at a young age. This is one of the many personality traits among #men today, for a very simple reason. Men like to think of themselves as providers, and are usually always striving for more #money, power, success, etc. Many guys also throw themselves into their work to deal with stress from other issues. If this is the case, let your guy know that you appreciate his work ethic, but would like him to make more #time for you if possible. 13. YOU'RE NOT COMPATIBLE How much do you and your #guy have in common? Do you like to do the same activities, eat at the same places, hang out with similar #people? Do you have topics to talk about you can each relate to? If you come from different areas of life, that's fine, but if you don't have any common interests, it could be a reason he ignores you. 14. HE'S MORE INTO CASUAL DATING While this is similar to not wanting a commitment, it's not quite the same. Some #guys are into seeing girls every few weeks instead of on a regular basis. These are known as casual daters, who usually never settle down either. Know one before you choose one. 15. HE HAS AN ADDICTION Believe it or not, your #guy could have an addiction, leading him to ignoring you. This could include #everything from drinking, to porn, to gambling, to hanging out at bars or strip clubs, and even video games, which is one on the rise today, even in married couples. If he has an addiction, there's nothing you can do besides confront him gently and ask him to get help. Just be prepared because he'll probably deny it and won't accept it well. 16. HE'S A JERK I'm not a #man basher, so don't take this the wrong way, but the guy you're obsessed with or in love with could just be a downright jerk when it comes down to it. If you're giving him distance, not hurting his feelings through conversation and if he promises you #things and then you don't see or hear from him for a week, he could be taking advantage of you. Consider getting a new #guy that you deserve! So ladies, now that you understand some of the reasons he ignores you, make sure that you take notice of them. If you're nagging too much, it might be a good idea to transform that nagging into something else. These are just my top 17 if you ignore him he will also do same some ladies are too proud to say am sorry instead they wait for the guy to do that and that will make him ignore you 17 reasons he ignores you, what about some other reasons, ladies? Have any? |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by Nobody: 10:32am On Mar 18, 2015 |
There is no point ignoring a woman if u honestly love her, Ignoring someone that loves u exerts same pains to the brain when compare to physical trauma. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by Nobody: 10:33am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Every woman on earth deserves to be ignored Because na them start am I don't go for women who wld ignore me I hate ignorance Someone did not get this *dancing alanta* 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by Nobody: 10:35am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Why do guys feel that they are doing us a favour in relationship? Nonsense! |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by yahx(m): 10:35am On Mar 18, 2015 |
oloyolo:not all women lol but women like my ex ignore them they feel too big to say sorry |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by Nobody: 10:36am On Mar 18, 2015 |
oloyolo:How is ignore related to ignorance? Choi |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by yahx(m): 10:37am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Vickybee:nooo don't say that ,,is nat a favor! But can you do without a male lover? Who will call you ,make u blush with some romantic words even if nobbi true, |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by yahx(m): 10:39am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Vickybee:abeg help us differentiate. ram we dey learn ignore nd ignorance |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by Nobody: 10:43am On Mar 18, 2015 |
yahx:Roman gini? No romantic word entices me. I'd rather read Shakespeare and Soyinka's Ode, sonnet, ballad etc. than listen to any guy. That's an old trick. |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by lordthree(m): 10:43am On Mar 18, 2015 |
lol ignore and ignorance wow |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by Nobody: 10:46am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Vickybee: C u dnt have humors |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by yahx(m): 10:46am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Vickybee:are you heartbroken? Watch 50 shades of grey |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by Nobody: 10:48am On Mar 18, 2015 |
yahx:Mtcheew. Lame. Come with a better line. |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by Herapal(m): 10:53am On Mar 18, 2015 |
oloyolo:A woman gave birth to you. She doesn't deserve 'ignorance', does she? |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by yahx(m): 10:56am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Vickybee:lol was jokin doh |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by refreshrate: 10:56am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Vickybee: Chill out the guy was only cracking a joke with that line. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by Nobody: 11:00am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Herapal: Wait a minute did take ignore and ignorance for the same thin bro it was a joke Now I know there ar also people u tell a joke and then explain the joke to them |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by Nobody: 11:00am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Herapal: Wait a minute did take ignore and ignorance for the same thin bro it was a joke Now I know there ar also people u tell a joke and then explain the joke to them |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by Enegod(m): 11:11am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Women like being ignored |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by yahx(m): 11:18am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Enegod:your reasons |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by Herapal(m): 11:19am On Mar 18, 2015 |
oloyolo:See this bros o, who tell you say I no know say ignore and ignorance relation na joke? I dey play along ne! |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by Herapal(m): 11:21am On Mar 18, 2015 |
oloyolo:See this bros o, who tell you say I no know say ignore and ignorance relation na joke? I dey play along ne! :-/ 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why Sometimes Your Guy Might Ignore You ... by Nobody: 11:29am On Mar 18, 2015 |
Herapal: Lwkm |
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