I'm just here to read comments n learn...#teamsinglenotreadytomingle.

winnieberry:
I have been single for over a year now,and my friends both in my hostel,dept,home have been bugging me over why am I single,am I normal,am I a lesbian,do I have a spirit hubby preventing me frm being in a relationship.Its seriously annoying ,they have hooked up wit guys number of times but have turned them down with flimsy excuses like not tall enough or too smallish.Am a pretty tall lady though am not interested in height or physical appearances ,those are what I used turning down toasters so they stop bugging me,this made my friends to think am being selectively main reason for me is I haven't met a guy I feel a connection or a spark with, most times I try but I end losing interest in them. My older friends I confided in think I should start a relationship first and love or feelings will come later But what I end up dating a guy and the love or feelings doesn't come,do I end dumping him or continue in a loveless relationship?my friends don't understand my reasons so I just keep it to myself.But for now am content with being single for now.My friends are the ones making it a big deal out of it like being single is a crime.Abeg nairalanders is it a big deal or abnormal to be a single?

There is nuthing wrong with U. As long as Ure comfortable.
People are good at telling you what to do. Dont mind them
single live free