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Marry her and your child will leave with you for 40years without taking any responsibility, hence you will do the feeding

I will advice the lady in question to follow her heart. What i'm i even saying; her heart is not even with the guy in thw first place

smileysmiles:
At 36 ,
1. lives off mom
2. No job
3. No ambition
4. She doesnt love him
5. Has no sense of responsibility

What advise does the lady need
1.Whats the basis of the relationship?
2. Why is she even considering the guy?
3. What are his good sides /positive attributes

didn't you read the article ni? HOLY SPIRIT..... :-/



That why I always have problem trusting a spirit for, A spirit will always be a spirit.

Anyway, who know, he might become a multi-billion Dollar pastor tomorrow, since he has contact to spirits Holy or not.




19:34:49
Sat, Mar 21, 2015

SmartFaces:


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U neva can tell the future , d rejected stone might end up being the corner stone . He might have his reasons y he still stays with his mum , mayb they liv in a big house and I think it's unreasonable for him to go waste money on rent when he has no wife , again if u go to south America and India , most rich sons marry in their fathers house , our culture might be different but that doesn't mean the boy wunt provide for her which is d major faCt here

@ op , u are not any counsellor , am sure u are her friend and u are carrying this thing on ur head more than the girl sef

In conclusion , that boy might become a house hold name in the future ( no one knows tomorrow) and she will end up blaming u

She might not love the guy but for her to bring it up means she might be considering

Don't ever underestimate any human being in this world

nnafather:


Akpa amu gi tipia there...Okuko igbo. What do you know about marriage? Go and wash plates for dinner. Mama is calling u. Anu.

So that's how you grew up? After eating you don't do dishes immediately till when next meal is to be served?
Choi....!
You better learn to start doing it right okay! Lemme tutor thee....

Back to your statement; I've held series of counselling sections with married couples okay!
So STFU and grow up lad...

Na wa o.

SmartFaces:


He said he is waiting for Indegine slot of his state to work, after service, he stayed in the house for 3good years till late last year he got a job with ministry of education as a teacher.

For the ambition, he always says, he will be a very wealthy man, that if his dad wins the case with the gov't over land that he will be swiming in money.

The land is his ambition? It is well

Dandeson1:
abegi, Jesus is 2035+ and still lives in his father's house, please don't pressure the young man

This has got to be the funniest quote, Iv read on tis forum

SmartFaces:
She is my client and this is the story.

He is 36years of age, still lives with his mum, feels very lazy and scared to do anything for himself to generate income, depends on his mum for virtually everything because she is rich, had never taken any form of responsibility what so ever, yet he wants to marry her.

Can he make a good husband and father considering the fact that he is so so lazy?

Can he give anything whether love, money, take responsibility, just name it considering the fact that he has been on the receiving side from childhood till now?

Can he be romantic enough and be good on bed, considering the fact that he forms to be so churchy and righteous...He spends all his time in the church and other religious gatherings.

More so she does not love him or even have an atom of feeling for him, but he said "The Holy Spirit Ministered to him, that she is his wife"

What should she do?

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So,someone who goes to church regularly and is effective in the church may not (or can not ) be romantic and good in bed,right? that's a new theory that I'm hearing o....when does being effective in church have to do with how romantic one is?

Adyrin:

So that's how you grew up? After eating you don't do dishes immediately till when next meal is to be served?
Choi....!
You better learn to start doing it right okay! Lemme tutor thee....

Back to your statement; I've held series of counselling sections with married couples okay!
So STFU and grow up lad...

Sorry, forgive me for even replying you...I never knew you are a mental case. I just observed now...just stick on your medication; ok?

Our generation of men are soo lazy.

There is only one reason she wants to stick with him. I sense he is a sex Marshall. This is all that matters to some girls. They just love the diick. I believe the op is not telling the full story

EfemenaXY:


You're taking this sensation-seeking thread seriously?

Ask am oo..

If she doesn't love or have any atom of feeling towards him, then why the fuss? Let her face her work and divert her attention to hard working single men with ambition. Abi is she the type that doesn't mind marrying someone for other reasons without an atom of love? Some ladies tho.

My father has a house or two, my mother probably has more, my grand parents on bot sides have at least one each, if i have 20 more houses for myself, we won't be living in them, because they were built to bring incomes, so i still stay in my father's house with my wife and child, if she so needs a house which she needs, she better get herself one.
This is why we are poor in Africa, That mentality that i must have my own place, when your families have loads of them is useless. do something else with your time and money.That is the only reason why GOD blessed your mum or dad or parents with their house(mansion), so that you may do something else.

Op I hope d person in question is not ur man to be

Babe! Your friend needs to tune up her sense of self worth and esteem. It is preposterous to think that she would entertain the possibility of marrying such a fellow in this day and age...
The Holy Spirit part is just mere gimmick to wind you tight on religious sentiment. Be careful not to buy into a likely case of delusion
For the sake of your peace of mind and joy in a few years from now pls refrain... peace

SmartFaces:
She is my client and this is the story.

He is 36years of age, still lives with his mum, feels very lazy and scared to do anything for himself to generate income, depends on his mum for virtually everything because she is rich, had never taken any form of responsibility what so ever, yet he wants to marry her.

Can he make a good husband and father considering the fact that he is so so lazy?

Can he give anything whether love, money, take responsibility, just name it considering the fact that he has been on the receiving side from childhood till now?

Can he be romantic enough and be good on bed, considering the fact that he forms to be so churchy and righteous...He spends all his time in the church and other religious gatherings.

More so she does not love him or even have an atom of feeling for him, but he said "The Holy Spirit Ministered to him, that she is his wife"

What should she do?

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yes she can marry him, if she so in need of a prayer project.

ROTFL, LWKMD

sparko1:

yes she can marry him, if she so in need of a prayer project.

To Me This Matter Is Pretty Easy. Tell Him U'll Marry On 2 Conditions. He Should Get A Job And Get A Self-Con. Once He Does That Then Uve Given Him A Reason 2 Live. U Must Pray 1st And Ask God 4 Signs

That guy is such a waste! The girl should not be carried away at all

steppin:

Smh...because he still lives with his parents?

not because he still lives with his parents but because like the op pointed out, he's lazy and he is being spoon fed.

What happens if the said mother dies? You would say he will have an inheritance. To that I say " a fool and his money are soon parted".

The? has already bub answered from d post.

sleekman:
To Me This Matter Is Pretty Easy. Tell Him U'll Marry On 2 Conditions. He Should Get A Job And Get A Self-Con. Once He Does That Then Uve Given Him A Reason 2 Live. U Must Pray 1st And Ask God 4 Signs

Let's not play religion with this. GOD gave us a brain for a reason.

Do you pray for someone to be hard working? Let's stop playing GOD, GOD can't be fooled.

SmartFaces:
She is my client and this is the story.

He is 36years of age, still lives with his mum, feels very lazy and scared to do anything for himself to generate income, depends on his mum for virtually everything because she is rich, had never taken any form of responsibility what so ever, yet he wants to marry her.

Can he make a good husband and father considering the fact that he is so so lazy?

Can he give anything whether love, money, take responsibility, just name it considering the fact that he has been on the receiving side from childhood till now?

Can he be romantic enough and be good on bed, considering the fact that he forms to be so churchy and righteous...He spends all his time in the church and other religious gatherings.

More so she does not love him or even have an atom of feeling for him, but he said "The Holy Spirit Ministered to him, that she is his wife"

What should she do?

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What other answer does your client need? No. The whole thing would be a disaster.

have you tried help him get a job and he declined? and who told you church workers don't make money? you are the one to work on your perception towards life. if you love him solve his problem, if you don't leave him alone. shikena

nnafather:
You had better go and marry before it is too late. His mother feeds him and he is lazy? If he marries you, won't he feed you? Lazy girl.

she nt lazy d man is d one dats actually lazy how can a man of his age got no ambition? he still depends on his mum how can he take care of his family. even if d lady is earning much d laziness of d man will still affect

steppin:

Smh...because he still lives with his parents?

seems u re still living with your parents

If she insist and marry him.....the suffernexx that she will face is still in the gym!