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mubaraqqq:

Am 33 years old

Did you ever tell her?

If so how did you do it?

If not why?

how urgly are u ?that u could'nt find a good man,how long have u been living wit this virus, dont worry there is a cure for america virus.on a serious note do u not need to go back to africa and do u not need family of ur own.if yes so,u dont owe ur mum any explanation about ur sexuality.

Kai this world is turning into something else. A sperm from a donor to a woman and another woman believes it is their child when she can also become preganant. No offence but me feel this something has to be wrong upstairs for having this thought

Only after two years with Rachel you want to bring a child into the world a child you cannot even tell your mother about because she doesnt even know you are a clit muncher!

So the child who did not ask to be born will be a dirty little secret. I hope your child can contact the donor I hate people both straight and gay who are giving birth to this whole new generation with no background or identity.

As far as I am concerned your sexuality was your choice. Why cant you accept that you cant have children?

yeye topic,sick!sick!sick!

martin1:

yeye topic,sick!sick!sick!

wetin i go talk again,
wetin penis dey for.

D poster need help,
she's not normal.

LadyT:

Only after two years with Rachel you want to bring a child into the world a child you cannot even tell your mother about because she doesnt even know you are a clit muncher!

So the child who did not ask to be born will be a dirty little secret.  I hope your child can contact the donor I hate people both straight and gay who are giving birth to this whole new generation with no background or identity.

As far as I am concerned your sexuality was your choice.  Why cant you accept that you cant have children?

that is too much to ask the indulging brigade.

Lagosboy:

Kai this world is turning into something else. A sperm from a donor to a woman and another woman believes it is their child when she can also become preganant. No offence but me feel this something has to be wrong upstairs for having this thought  

o boy nawao. u see wetin these nigerian women don become.  na good people born this k leg generation so imagine when they begin to reproduce their kind.  anyway  see their secretary general ebumowa reply

ebumowa (f)  « #9 on: January 19, 2009, 04:40 AM »

@Sapphic:
You're lucky someone did it for you, most of my siblings know but my parents don't (I don't want to think about their reaction).

@Poster:
You're independent of your parents, go ahead and tell your mom, you have a life partner, a child on the way, you have so much going for you, its time to look foward. Wish you goodluck in whatever decision you make.

need i say more.

**osisi:

so many lesbiana's on nairaland
go ahead and tell her after booking her funeral at heaven's gate funeral home.
maybe you should send her a text before she arrives and tell her the size of your Love Machine too.

I feel creepy crawlies on my skin.

say it again.  they even have cribs.

farotika:

whao!!! Gud have mercy What is this World turning into

one big lesbian crib

outlaws:


During the early civilizations gays and lesbians were considered crazy people. They would be locked in chains. Some were thought to be possesed by evil spirits and they will also be locked in chains at the church and people will come to pray to cast out the demon.

Do I approve gay and lesbians or not? Well according to the hollybook, it clearly states that is immorality and the wedges of sin is death. I don't approve it and I don't discriminate against them. I think is a personal choice nomatter how your hormones react. I also think is a mental disorder that can be unlearned if the person wishes.

Some may disagree that is not a mental disorder but if you have taking psychology you will know that there are a lot of mental disorders. I have taken maybe over 6 different psychology classes in college and I still may take more. For example if you use nairaland too much that it becomes a problem meaning you don't get to do other things that you are suppose to do, or you drink that you are having problems at work or with your spouse, or you are addicted to drugs, porn, masturbation,sleeping around that you don't seem to stop, all these things are mental disorders. Phobias are also mental disorders.

So is life, you make the choices don't blame any one for it including your hormone reactions and you also face the consequencies of your choices.

it is the choice lifestyle of the media people so they have made it cool like they made HIV, drugs, rebelion, promiscuity and mucical anarchy cool

martho:

D poster need help,
she's not normal.

she would likely be a dad already

dnt nt tel her nd pls stop dis trash.

dnt nt tel her nd pls stop dis trash.

weitin dey for woman body wey u like, been a lesbian or gay means the person is sick upstairs, or posseed, all man and woman were created to like their oposite sex, so i guess a nut i loose in their brain or somfin,

Why dont u learn how to stop tht habit by given ur life to christ,b/cuz telling ur mum,wud nt help the matter.but i think telling God n quit wud help.
For instance,imagine ur own daughter telling u such,how will feel,even though u forgive her,u will also feel bad.Plz dnt cuz another type of sickness on tht innocent woman by revealing tht act without repentance.

ehie007:

weitin dey for woman body wey u like, been a lesbian or gay means the person is sick upstairs,  or posseed, all man and woman were created to like their oposite sex, so i guess a nut i loose in their brain or somfin,

yeah u is right.  some mad people wear clothes and function effectively as if nothing is wrong

sucessful1:

how urgly are u ?that u could'nt find a good man,how long have u been living wit this virus, dont worry there is a cure for america virus.on a serious note do u not need to go back to africa and do u not need family of ur own.if yes so,u dont owe ur mum any explanation about ur sexuality.

With all the nice dikc out there, a cute woman wanna waste herself away and be a lesbo.

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This is the part i can never understand about gay people YOU chose to be gay so deal with it and any other issues that follow but why drag a child into the mess and get the kid confused about life.pure wickedness and selfishness.

Must you have a kid,after all when the kid grows up he will know abt the selfish nature of the act you get a faceless, nameless person"s sperm and boom when the whole world knows a woman cannot impregnate another woman. Explain that to the poor kid.

@ OP do YOU! Life is too short to live for someone else. If women rock your boat, then good for you. Too many irresponsible and useless men out there anyways.

Nonsense Post. The world is coming to an end, Repent for the kingdom of God is near. Heaven help those who help themselves.

just the very way you started it.

guys chilll, she is already a dad now, lmao is all good, ur selfishness no go kill you ooo

when i saw this topic, my 1st reaction was *wats wrong wth this one, u tink say na america u dey* then i read the post and realized, yeah na america she dey, stuff like this just doesn't happen in Naija,we ave way too much going on to start thinking bout all dat lesbians sperm donor,living together balderdash,our society just doesn't give room for gays living together openly, and then taking it a step further by having kids together,and i really am glad about that, a line has to be drawn somewhere

Think dear...Think...
If you're doing the right thing, why are you averse to telling your mum or why are you finding it difficult?
Deep down, you know it's wrong at least the reason for this post suggest so...
At 33yrs of age, you know what's best for you, stand up to the repercussion of your action...If you can't stand the heat....

hmmmmm

I can see that most of the females encouraging the poster are all lesbians.
Anyway, @poster, I don't think there is anything to fear from your mom, a snake doesn't give birth to a cow, your mom is probably a lesbian too, and the health trip is just an excuse to meet up with her lesbian partner.
Just give her a long passionate kiss whenever she arrives and make out with your girlfriend in front of her, you will be surprised she will join you for a 3some.
@sapphic, you can rain down the insults, I am waiting
BTW, I am a lesbian too, looking for playmates. If you're interested, please pm me
Ciao

Action of gay which u are not proud of, why engage in it? God created man and woman , not woman and woman, u truly need God!!! Talk to him to change u for himself.

mubaraqqq:
Fellow Nigerians I need your help.

I have been in America for 6 years now, and during those six years I have realized that I love women instead of men. I am more complete with a woman as my partner than a man. Rachel the love of my life, and I have now been together for two years; and through a sperm donation from the hospital she is now carrying our first child.

My problem is that my mom is coming for treatment in the states and she will be staying with us. she doesn't any of this. I have been so worried thinking about this that am losing sleep over this. I just don't know what to do. How should I break this to a Nigerian mother?

You claim you have a partner and can't get yourselves pregnant. Why going to look for a male sperm to enable you conceive. If you are bold enough and feel what you are doing as a lesbian is right, why are you scared to tell your mum?

[quote author=Sapphic post=3358925]

If she is not going to be with you guys for too long and you are not ready to break the news to her, then don't tell her. Let her just believe that you two are flatmates and that Rachel has agreed to share her bed with you so that she (your mum) can be comfy in "your" room.

Coming out is never easy, especially to the parents. Another option would be to let your mum come over and get to like Rachel and then break it to her gently. There is no real easy way. I guess I was kinda lucky that my nosy siblings did the difficult deed for me.[/quot
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Sister change your ways. I can decode that you are a lesbian. How do you feel being a lesbian? I believe you are not normal.

Formication is allowed, adultery is tolerated, pornography is condoned, peadophiles are excused even incest isn't necessarily frowned at, same people condemn another in the same category but with different preference