kevinberry:


In this situation they have both agreed on no entertainment...for her to go behind him and pay is CHEATING and disrespectful....am pretty sure it one of the reason the guy abandoned her...she should have pleaded with the guy that she will like to entertain rather than taking the decision alone....

You have to explain that stingy part to me,cus I don't get it

Missonas:


I'm also pretty sure he was the one that came up with the idea of no entertainment and she agreed.You're right tht was disrespectful bt u got d part where she said she recalled d arrangement and he promised to payback, meaning he later consented so what gives?

He's stiingy with his heart it was never in it (the relationship)
Who in God's name decides not to entertain well wishers?i'm not saying one should go over one's means all in the name of entertainment bt come on even kolanut they say brings life
From all i could deduce he just didn't want the marriage nt jst d wedding.From cancelling the court wedding and then the lame reason and then calling to become friends.why all d hassles?? He's self centred!

Dimples192:


Yes there's always an exception but then there's the rule.

dre11:



Was all the preparation not for the wedding day

henribj:


could you explain the "rule" ?

LadyX:

I have decided to create a thread. I'll cc you.

[size=14pt]Oh! Really? That's good, will like to see it! [/size]

freshcvvs:


Haba, there is a difference between few days to the wedding day and this is the wedding day.

You wrote "this is the wedding day" and not preparing for the wedding day, these 2 are different!

kevinberry:


It still better than cheating secretly..

kevinberry:


Self centred...I agree the lady was self centred...

Dimples192:


The rule is dnt give more than your getting in a relationship because you will be setting people up to be thieves by not knowing your worth.

dre11:


And all what the mother was doing was for when?

henribj:


if i understand correctly, you are saying everything in a relationship should be 50-50, correct?

LewisO:

[size=14pt]Oh! Really? That's good, will like to see it! [/size]

Dimples192:


You're over analysing all I'm saying is don't make someone your choice when you're their option. Love yourself enough and dnt let anyone take advantage. This is concerning this topic because every topic is different.

dre11:



And who tells you they weren't cheating secretly before someone calls cheaters network

LadyX:


Here is a link to the thread

https://www.nairaland.com/2214222/peaceful-election#31956995

[size=14pt] Thanks very, i have booked spaced. [/size]

kevinberry:
There are always three side's to a story..and this is just one of them.....

If the guy should say his part am pretty sure people will hate you..


So am gonna keep calm and keep quiet...


For you to gang up with your mother and go against your hubby decisions,I personally will not tolerate that,we are not yet married and you have start misbehaving,what will now happen if we eventually get married...btw you are both working,so I see no reason why you should still be asking for favours from your hubby....


*Berry*

Missonas:


They both were.You got the stingy part?

LewisO:

[size=14pt] Thanks very, i have booked spaced. [/size]

guiltypleasure:
But its cool the hubby asks her for favours? B real dude

LadyX:


You welcome...Lemme go offline...Excepting some *stones* to be thrown at me.
I'll be back later to adress comments

kevinberry:

Yeah I understand you..she was stingy and self-centred

kevinberry:


Don't get you

Kingsasian:
often times we see the loop holes such as this but we just over look them just as the saying "love is blind" speaking from my own experience.