Justfollowit:


Ermmm

The reality is most men are bound to cheat or marry more wives. We all agree with that it is unfair on us. Some women (feminist) would advocate that women are also susceptible to these vices therefore there is no problem if a woman behaves likewise. Sounds fair but it is extremely stupid.


it and it is going to create more problems and I doubt if the society at large will survive it.

I don't like it, most women don't. Until we come up with something practical, I guess we are stuck with cleaning up their mess.

That is why I tell any female who care to listen

Know thyself and Be Independent

TheSonOfMark:


Yes missy, Pinkett and Anthony.


That act ruined Pinkett's marriage to Will and Marc's to J.Lo

shitshappen:
I am a Christian, I believe in the bible as the word of God. And Jesus as the son of God.

I know the problem with our society was the day we accepted the white man's way of life, don't get me wrong. It is not in the blood of an African man to be with one woman. Centuries of practicing polygamy is now having a toll on us. We want to be faithful, we want to show you we love you, and the kids we had together with you.
But sometimes we also want to be with the other woman, they complement you. You are not perfect and we know that , that other woman sometimes make your own imperfections easy to bear.
Ask me one thing I want to change about christianity, it is that dictate of one man one woman. Now you know why I said I'm a Christian who believe in bible,who believe in christ Jesus.
I might be wrong, I might be right. I just know that men are not hot-wired to be with one woman, check the Patriarchs

brownlord:


Pray never to be in this position bro.

If she use to set the table for your meal, the moment she start contributing most of the money at home, trust me you start going to the kitchen to get food yourself, gradually she start telling you to boil water before you could say jack, ye don dey wash her clothes.

Be wise sir

kevinberry:


What about king Solomon,david, saul and the rest... They have more than one wife na...

akinsadeez:



I wouldn't want to turn this into a religious argument, but why is it that around that same time of Adam and Eve, Abraham and many others had multiple wives. Abraham slept with Hagai, Sarah's handmaid despite not being married to her. Yet God made a covenant with Abraham and made him the father of many nations. How else can you describe Sarah's maid if not as a side chick?
David had multiple wives and concubines yet the Bible records it that he was a man after God's heart. Solomon had 600 wives and uncountable concubines, yet God blessed him beyond measure. The problem is that you are quoting the Bible selectively. If God did not sanction the marriage of many wives, he would not have blessed those men like that

Not only that you are looking at things from the narrow angle of the Christian religion. What about Muslims who can marry more than one wife. Don't they also believe in God?

bukatyne:


Good to know that J-LO was not the cause of the break with Marc Anthony

itops:


the likes of those men are the reason unrepentant cheats of these days feel they are in their so called mens world.

to those that keep illusionalizing that its a man's world, how did these biblical men meet their end nd what was their late confessions to the life they lived.

TheSonOfMark:


Women try to blame men for their woes. Today's woman wallows infidelity without shame. Why should men have any regard for such lots? Cheap blackmail.

What of Rihanna who screwed with Drake while CB was in jail? What of Karrueche Tran who betrayed CB ? What about Jada Pinkett-Smith who Will Smith caught in bed with Marc Anthony ?


What about these Nigerian girls who admitted in this video that they each date several at a time?

Don't just get me started.

uzolexis:


I don't know about u but I believe that if a woman can stick 2 her man,the man should be able to do likewise. If everyone decides not to tolerate a cheating partner, the men would have no choice than 2 stop. Accepting it as normal and making it a hopeless case is exactly what fuels men to cheat and think they can get away with it, but if a woman tries that all he'll would be let loose. I pray I never get so desperate to the pnt that i'll start tolerating/managing a guy that doesn't respect me enough 2 be faithful 2 me. Mbanu.....chukwu amankwe

Sunshinelady:
I don't tink ANYBODY is 'wired' to stick to one person. Even an honest married woman will admit dat once in while u see a hot dude, if u don't control urself u start to desire him (u r human). In d olden days only men where allowed such freedom to explore their sexuality because women were being supressed then. So don't tell me because our forefathers married plenty wives and our 'foremothers' married only one man, dat it means dat its only men dat are wired to desire multiple partners no! Human needs are insartible be u male or female. Its only d fear of God dat keeps us in check. So my dear, if u r redy to stick to ur wife, she sticks to u, if u want to stray pls allow her do d same cos wat is good 4d goose is good for d gander. We women too are wired to love 'fruit salad' (who no like better thing), but its just dat desire to be morally upright & not break d rule of God dat mkes us behave ourselves. So don't gimme dat crap about only men being d ones wired to desire 'oda good pleasures'

Truckpusher:
O yeah! You made a dumb point and you expect everyone to run along with that mentality ?

Most of these women you call liabilities and such should be treated like trash actually put more into the family than the career women.
The value they add to your generations unborn by staying at home raising your kids while you work your asss off can't be bought with that same money you've been chasing all over the world .FACT

Go figure ......

Sunshinelady:
I don't tink ANYBODY is 'wired' to stick to one person. Even an honest married woman will admit dat once in while u see a hot dude, if u don't control urself u start to desire him (u r human). In d olden days only men where allowed such freedom to explore their sexuality because women were being supressed then. So don't tell me because our forefathers married plenty wives and our 'foremothers' married only one man, dat it means dat its only men dat are wired to desire multiple partners no! Human needs are insartible be u male or female. Its only d fear of God dat keeps us in check. So my dear, if u r redy to stick to ur wife, she sticks to u, if u want to stray pls allow her do d same cos wat is good 4d goose is good for d gander. We women too are wired to love 'fruit salad' (who no like better thing), but its just dat desire to be morally upright & not break d rule of God dat mkes us behave ourselves. So don't gimme dat crap about only men being d ones wired to desire 'oda good pleasures'

devour129:
there's nothing wrong with a man finding a lady that " compliments " his wife as long as the wife can find a guy to complete what is missing in the husband . Sometimes I wonder if it's the same mother that raised a woman raised the man .

TheSonOfMark:


How about Jada_Pinkett who ruined her marriage with her infidelity to Will Smith?

devour129:
there's nothing wrong with a man finding a lady that " compliments " his wife as long as the wife can find a guy to complete what is missing in the husband . Sometimes I wonder if it's the same mother that raised a woman raised the man .

joanana:
I don't accept flings in my relationship. If he's with me, he should be with me alone and no else. # one man one woman

I rather remain single than become someone mistress. Tufiakwa!! !!! !

brownlord:


Pray never to be in this position bro.

If she use to set the table for your meal, the moment she start contributing most of the money at home, trust me you start going to the kitchen to get food yourself, gradually she start telling you to boil water before you could say jack, ye don dey wash her clothes.

Be wise sir

duni04:
The so called "Feminists" of today are lousy women whose mothers didn't treach them the secrets to a successful home and marriage. If you're a woman and you were raised by either your mother alone, or by divorced parents, you can't understand the concept of a successful marriage or relationship.
Dear feminists, heres what your mothers didnt teach you. The keys to a successful marriage are as follows:
1. Accept that its a mans world and that the rules are his and his only.
2. Accept that a man is always going to have flings with other women and there's nothing you can do to stop it.
3. When a man starts looking outside to other women, you either try to meet the needs which he's trying to satisfy outside or just close your eyes and let him be the man he is. Divorce is never an option!
Women with long and successful marriages will tell you the key to a successful marriage is accepting your man the way he is and accepting his nature. Man was not made for one woman! No amount of feminism or gragra will change it.

uzolexis:



That's why there is something called making sacrifices 4 ur partner. Do u think women don't like having more than 1 man too or that women r "wired" to be with only one man If u want 2 get married, stick 2 what it entails, 1 man, 1 wife or don't even do it at all, afterall marriage is not compulsory. Whatever is worth doing is worth doing well.

duni04:
The so called "Feminists" of today are lousy women whose mothers didn't treach them the secrets to a successful home and marriage. If you're a woman and you were raised by either your mother alone, or by divorced parents, you can't understand the concept of a successful marriage or relationship.
Dear feminists, heres what your mothers didnt teach you. The keys to a successful marriage are as follows:
1. Accept that its a mans world and that the rules are his and his only.
2. Accept that a man is always going to have flings with other women and there's nothing you can do to stop it.
3. When a man starts looking outside to other women, you either try to meet the needs which he's trying to satisfy outside or just close your eyes and let him be the man he is. Divorce is never an option!
Women with long and successful marriages will tell you the key to a successful marriage is accepting your man the way he is and accepting his nature. Man was not made for one woman! No amount of feminism or gragra will change it.

stan241:
Now this is mainly my opinion but men who cheat are those who can't discipline themselves...the true concept of the word "love" and "respect" in a relationship is used loosely in our society but here is the truth and the ladies should take note..."Any man who truly "loves" you will "respect" you and its the combination of both these things that keeps his "john thomas" from straying....people keep shouting that all men cheat and that is the biggest fraud that has been sold to people but i guess in a society like ours with persons from different backgrounds stuff like this is common..I would rather remain single than keep two women in my life cus the stress of one should be enough to last me a lifetime

Youngpo413:
You may even be the side chick without knowing...

Urine:


Babe, your article has revealed something about you; you don't read your Bible.


Isaiah 4:1 And in that day seven women shall take hold of one man, saying, We will eat our own bread, and wear our own apparel: only let us be called by thy name, to take away our reproach.

You can't blame the guys, a prophecy was made and we are witnessing the manifestation.

Mhizizzy:
NA to marry pastor sure pass o

All dis one wey everybody Don dey advocate for side chick

#Teampastormrs

Buh wait

My papa has never cheated before o

And

He is purely african

bukatyne:


It is really a reason to wonder.

And supporting such with the Bible is appalling

HizMissy:
I've seen what staying with an unrepetant cheating spouse can do to one's mind.


In conclusion, if i dnt find a guy who wont cheat, i dnt mind being ALONE.

kevinberry:

It only a woman who cannot please her man that would be bother about this...

When dealing with problems you find two solutions to the problem..
1 you tackle the problem
2 you find ways of making sure such thing never happen again

But it so sad most nigeria women always like playing the victims....


When they don't step up their game

When the marriage is boring..from being religious to giving men silly excuse..forgetting that their are thousands outside wishing and waiting to have your man...

*Berry*

Mhizizzy:
NA to marry pastor sure pass o

All dis one wey everybody Don dey advocate for side chick

#Teampastormrs

Buh wait

My papa has never cheated before o

And

He is purely african