In my journey through life and my personal daily interaction with everyday people, I have keenly observed that men seeking ladies to settle down with are quite intolerant of women whose body counts (as it pertains to sexual liaisons) are relatively high. It is also true that very often ladies prefer to remain discrete on such matters only ever opening up to the fiancé when pricked by their conscience and when they suspect that sordid details of their past may haunt them someday in matrimony.
But one very interesting perspective on this topic is the heightened resentment men seeking ladies for marriage display towards such spinsters who have had emotional or sexual affairs with married men in the past. Statistically, younger men were more turned off and nursed second thoughts on progressing the marriage-bound relationships when presented with such revelations than their older counterparts.
This has led me to believe that morally inappropriate behaviors perpetrated by ladies in their past are better dealt with by older men who probably possess the requisite maturity needed to deal with the emotional issues than younger men.
What's your take?
In my subsequent post, I'll give you a real-life portrayal of how a younger man dealt with this situation versus an older fellow.

Too cerebral.

donKonji:
In my journey through life and my personal daily interaction with everyday people, I have keenly observed that men seeking ladies to settle down with are quite intolerant of women whose body counts (as it pertains to sexual liaisons) are relatively high. It is also true that very often ladies prefer to remain discrete on such matters only ever opening up to the fiancé when pricked by their conscience and when they suspect that sordid details of their past may haunt them someday in matrimony.
But one very interesting perspective on this topic is the heightened resentment men seeking ladies for marriage display towards such spinsters who have had emotional or sexual affairs with married men in the past. Statistically, younger men were more turned off and nursed second thoughts on progressing the marriage-bound relationships when presented with such revelations than their older counterparts.
This has led me to believe that morally inappropriate behaviors perpetrated by ladies in their past are better dealt with by older men who probably possess the requisite maturity needed to deal with the emotional issues than younger men.
What's your take?
In my subsequent post, I'll give you a real-life portrayal of how a younger man dealt with this situation versus an older fellow.

Your write-up made for good reading until you started to input your own value judgement. Whether a high body count is "morally" wrong or not is subjective and better left out of a critical examination of a matter of this nature.

But I will be reading your thread and maybe you can manage to eschew too much subjectivity henceforth.