MoonCares:


My mum is very tall likewsie his mum, his dad is short, my Dad is Average but in my Dad's family, some are short. My siblings are tall and average, his brother is very tall. So the two families have the share of tall, average and Short. Hahahahahaha.

So my fears is that am average but am taller than him..

Thank anyway for your advice.

I dont think you are 5 ft tall, otherwise u wont be calling 5ft average height.
Im a man and im 5ft tall and im very angry with my height.
i dont think you should marry this guy if he is less than 5ft and you are just 5ft urself.
Dont give birth to kids who will be as sad as i am now.
I am 30 and yet i cant find a way to get over this height issue.
pease dont do this.

Op, I can remember my mom talking to her friend that she wished she had married her then short boyfriend. She refused him because he was short though he was caring,generous and loved her. Guess she was thinkg abt her future children....years later, her children are all tall with a tall husband n yet she regrets. Babe, my advice, ask urself, in 10years time, will u be happier without this short man in your life with your future tall children? If he has most of the qualities you want in a man then...........

Dyt:


Lmao
You must think I am terrible

You? Dyt? You know how to look for trouble....especially mine wherever it is I kept it

BzBee:
Op, I can remember my mom talking to her friend that she wished she had married her then short boyfriend. She refused him because he was short though he was caring,generous and loved her. Guess she was thinkg abt her future children....years later, her children are all tall with a tall husband n yet she regrets. Babe, my advice, ask urself, in 10years time, will u be happier without this short man in your life with your future tall children? If he has most of the qualities you want in a man then...........

So how about you? What's your preference....short, small or tall?

kaboninc:


You? Dyt? You know how to look for trouble....especially mine wherever it is I kept it

Hammmmeeerrrrr

kobosmalls:

I dont think you are 5 ft tall, otherwise u wont be calling 5ft average height.
Im a man and im 5ft tall and im very angry with my height.
i dont think you should marry this guy if he is less than 5ft and you are just 5ft urself.
Dont give birth to kids who will be as sad as i am now.
I am 30 and yet i cant find a way to get over this height issue.
pease dont do this.

feeling pathetic for yourself. sorry. Na wa ooo abeg you never tell yourself weting dey make you sad not being short because am short barely 5ft 2inch still if there is anything like the happiest and most liked person on the planet its me, why wouldnt i be? so tell yourself the truth...

Op. Being sincere to yourself is paramount here, do you sometimes feel disappointed by his height? Or feel ashamed of his appearance . Why I ask is because the things that make ppl happy can come from just the way their spouse smile, or his voice of height or character. If you find yourself feeling negatively about him aside the fact that you ate thinking big your kids then you really need to let him go bcoz this feeling won't ever go away.
If it's because of your kids then there is nothing to worry about. You as a mother to be should rather think of how well he could be a father to your kids, if he has the capability to train them to be respected individuals in the society. Why because beauty, height does not make a person, of you like you should be beautiful like the raising sun and tall like mountain Everest this features can't pay for education, or a cup of garri in the market or another things of that sort, except you hope your kids will go into profetional modelling..
Op please don't yield yourself to pettiness hence you will lose crib to the things that really matter in life. Of this man has the following, financial stability, God fearing, caring abilities and respect for you then you should shun his height. Except the height makes you feel ashamed.