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Ive Moved Out At 16! by Kourage3: 10:51pm On Jan 22, 2009
Yah & i Usually go Home on occasion, But i Kinda hate doing
it becuz My mom alwasy gets mad at me For Doing
So, She says i Shouldnt be able to come and go as i Please,

So im thinking About Juesst Taking All of my stuff Out && Moving
With My Bf,

What Do You Think??
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by ifyalways(f): 11:07pm On Jan 22, 2009
Kourage3:

Yah & i Usually go Home on occasion, But i Kinda hate doing
it becuz My mom alwasy gets mad at me For Doing
So, She says i Shouldnt be able to come and go as i Please,

So im thinking About Juesst Taking All of my stuff Out && Moving
With My Bf,

What Do You Think??
babe,dont u think you are way too young to move out and stay with a BF of all ppl.
what happens if the guy throws u out,gets a new GF or sumtin?
hold on babe,listen to your mum and say maybe in the next 2 yrs u might want to try this,now is not just the time.
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by Nobody: 11:08pm On Jan 22, 2009
Poster, please take what ifyalways has said into consideration sad

How old is your BF by the way?  shocked sad
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by Kourage3: 11:10pm On Jan 22, 2009
Hes 20.!!!

undecided kiss kiss shocked shocked shocked

Yah i kno!
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jan 22, 2009
*igbo mode* Chineke.

Like I said, please take what ifyalways has said into consideration  sad
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by TOYOSI20(f): 11:22pm On Jan 22, 2009
ifyalways:

babe,dont u think you are way too young to move out and stay with a BF of all ppl.
what happens if the guy throws u out,gets a new GF or sumtin?
hold on babe,listen to your mum and say maybe in the next 2 yrs u might want to try this,now is not just the time.

Ify u are so right oo. . . .

Like its only when one gets out of his/her comfort zone that u really and truly then realize what u had

I say u weather these stormy times so to speak wid ur mother. . .

it'll make u a better person and I'm most certain she has ur best intrest at heart wink

Pls think about it seriously before u make any drastic decisions

Good luck to ya too!! smiley
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by MrCrackles(m): 11:29pm On Jan 22, 2009
POSTER
Your story reeks of lies, deceit and watery fantasies!
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by dayokanu(m): 11:37pm On Jan 22, 2009
@OP,

Do yyou work and pay your own bills yet?

Or are you in school? Maybe live on financial aid
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by spikedcylinder: 8:42am On Jan 23, 2009
You are too young to live alone. If you insist on moving out, move out but not IN WITH A BOYFRIEND. undecided
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by LadyDee1(f): 10:48am On Jan 23, 2009
If na my mama and papa, they go tell me say,
If i fit walk out the door anyhow, DONT COME BACK!!!! angry angry angry shocked shocked

Your only 16 years old!! As much as you want to grow wings and Fly, trust me, you will later regret it Hun!!! undecided embarassed

You live in a house rent free, get fed, clothed and loved by ur parents,
What else do you need right now?

Yea I know your 'IN LOVE' blah, blah, blah,

But REMEMBER, you only get one pair of parents in your LIFE!!!

Listen to what your mother has to say, your still young and if you move out, whats to say it doesnt work out with your Boyfriend, undecided undecided

Where will you go, Back Home shey?

Furthermore, What kinda Boyfriend would encourage that kinda CRAP, If he loves you for real, He should be encouraging you to respect and work things out with your mother, not moving out to live with him! shocked angry angry

NOTE: The key word here is RESPECT,

Still at my AGE (23), I cant be waltzing in and out of my house as I please in my parents house!!

I go meet my Papa one day waiting with Machete!!! grin grin wink wink
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by steve49ja(m): 12:26pm On Jan 23, 2009
Heeeeee na wa oh 16?
And for a boyfriend?
You need to be wiser
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by Nobody: 12:50am On Jan 24, 2009
Kourage3:

Yah & i Usually go Home on occasion, But i Kinda hate doing
it becuz My mom alwasy gets mad at me For Doing
So, She says i Shouldnt be able to come and go as i Please,

So im thinking About Juesst Taking All of my stuff Out && Moving
With My Bf,

What Do You Think??
You sound very foolish. Foolishness is not bliss.
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by JJYOU: 1:00am On Jan 24, 2009
HeatFusion:

You sound very foolish. Foolishness is not bliss.
extremely foolish and very naive. i will tell you now give that boy another 3 -6 months you are history in his books.
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by SeanT21(f): 3:13am On Jan 24, 2009
16 year old moving in with a 20 year old. lipsrsealed

DONT TRY IT!!
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by chichi34(f): 10:36am On Jan 24, 2009
What do i think?

I think it is very stupid of you.

It is always the same thing with you young teenagers.

When you can not follow some little rules,your parents gave you,then the only sulution is,to run away.

Are you not even to young,to have a boyfriend?

Think about your education first,before you think about moving to your boyfriend.

I really want to have your problems. cheesy

Have you ever think about how your mother feels about it.

She is giving you the rules,bcs.she wants you to be a nice girl.For you to be respected by familymembers and neighbours.

She loves you.

If she does not,she will allow you every nonsens you want to do.

Can't you children understand our feelings?Don't be selfish.

Sit your mum down.Maybe both of you will find a compromise.

Good luck,but think twice.

My words in your thoughts.
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by Outstrip(f): 1:53am On Jan 25, 2009
Your mother is so right. If I were your mom I would change the locks.
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by tRoOE(f): 3:22am On Jan 25, 2009
LOL typical teen attitude cheesy cheesy
I wonder y people are wasting their time giving you advice
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by Nobody: 3:31am On Jan 25, 2009
if i were your mother i'd whip you with koboko until u cant sit for a week. Naughty thing . . . go and do ur homework. When i was ur age i needed a dictionary to figure out what a girl friend was.
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by Nobody: 3:52am On Jan 25, 2009
davidylan:

if i were your mother i'd whip you with koboko until u cant sit for a week. Naughty thing . . . go and do ur homework. When i was ur age i needed a dictionary to figure out what a girl friend was.
hehehe, the truth don reveal itself, do you still need a dictionary to define gf? grin grin
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by hotstuff06(f): 6:42pm On Jan 26, 2009
davidylan:

if i were your mother i'd whip you with koboko until u cant sit for a week. Naughty thing . . . go and do ur homework. When i was ur age i needed a dictionary to figure out what a girl friend was.

So so true, In my case it though it was boyfriend.
Gosh girl u have no idea the major mistake you are about to make, NOT EVEN GOING TO ADVICE U BUT ASK U TO PACK UR BAGS, GO HOME AND APOLOGIZE TO UR MOTHER. You still ahve lot of time to go into the world of Wolves ready to devow u but u still need more upbringing from ur mother to know what this life is all about. GIRL U HAVE NO IDEA, GO BACK HOME
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by Omolola1(f): 7:20pm On Jan 26, 2009
Did i hear you say SIXTEEN!
And you want to move to your bestfriend's boyfriend's house. shocked
If you try it, you're going to regret it for the rest of your life, trust me. cry
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by cibilola(f): 7:40pm On Jan 26, 2009
@poster

I kind of understand where you are coming from but it is not advisable to move out at that age. You will have to endure WHATEVER it is that is giving you excuses for an early exit out of mumsy's house ok! wink didnt say it is easy.

oh, , lest i 4get don't move in with a boy (best friend or boy friend). They only have thing to offer. Once they have their fill, they will look for a fresher meat tongue lipsrsealed (don't mean to be rude)

so be a nice young lady and go back and enjoy mumsy's trouble for a while. i'm sure u will be cool smiley wink
Re: Ive Moved Out At 16! by ehie007(m): 6:14pm On Jan 27, 2009
haha, i laugh, if u go u go still carry those ur two legs go back for were u come from, no one will tell you, u will just see urself in ur folks house, u sef go surprise, weitin u won go run wiv u bf for, is it the sex that is shaking ur head, please, u av a good life ahead, make use of it, u shuldnt be even finking of boyfriend now, ur boyfrined should be ur books, some of ur mates are in covenant university jacking their ass out now, lol cry

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