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Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by Nobody: 6:03pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
tpiadotcom: If you are an introvert you'll know, most introverts are very carefree about other people. Although, they pay a lot of attention to themselves. However, it all depends on the amount of "sanguine nature" and "melancholic nature". Very melancholic introverts are usually not drawn to care for others. |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by Nobody: 6:04pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
I'm an introvert And I'm not 'caring.' |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by spacefreak: 6:06pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
MzNelly: Being an introvert doesn't automatically mean one doesn't care. I think you actually care for a lot of reasons. |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by njuwo(m): 6:08pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
tohpahz:Start rubbing caroline body lotion. You will become caring before you know it. Na im i dey use. I caring pass care itself now. |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by Nobody: 6:15pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
spacefreak: I do? |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by spacefreak: 6:18pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
MzNelly: Yes you do. Don't argue with feminists its like trying to convert radical Muslims. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
MzNelly: that's what I was saying, only introverts can understand. |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by Nobody: 6:19pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
spacefreak: Okay dear. |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by tohpahz(f): 6:56pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
juicyjoint:Yup i hv a lil understanding of it.. jes skimmed the book a long time ago. Nah i don't have the soft copy.. id Try finding it tho.. |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by tohpahz(f): 6:57pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
tpiadotcom:U said most.. wat if i fall into the category of the other introverts that don't care |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by tohpahz(f): 7:01pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
MzNelly: Nice meeting u |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by Nobody: 7:02pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
tohpahz: Pleasure is all mine, darling |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by tohpahz(f): 7:04pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
MzNelly: How do u cope with it?? |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by Nobody: 7:06pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
tohpahz: It's hard, I still don't know how to. My ex told me I was uncaring and blah blah blah I had to break up with him, cos I felt someone else could do better Maybe I didn't love him enough. If you love someone, I think it just flows outta you. Do you have a big ego? |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by tohpahz(f): 7:43pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
MzNelly: Same thing here oo.. though not my ex.. my present bf says i only show it wen it touches my head.. nd i know i love him .so i wonder y it doesn't wanna flow all the time.. Yes i have a big ego.. do u?? |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by Emmalaw10(m): 7:43pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Op, One thing that may be responsible for this is that if you're the type that expects people to reciprocate the care and they fail to you begin to find yourself reducing ur rate of care. I used to be like that cos I wd show care and expect people to reciprocate but it doesn't normally happen, my rate of care reduced. But now, I still care cos I now believe all rewards are in heaven. |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by Nobody: 7:48pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
tohpahz: Yes. We do indeed have a problem. All he has to do is to be patient with you. |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by Nobody: 7:56pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
tohpahz: Aii, let me know if you find it. Its been a long time since i read too. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by tohpahz(f): 7:57pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
MzNelly: Lol.. yah we do.. thinking of seeing a shrink.. it might have something to do with previous experiences.. I pray he is.. he's tried jare. *thumbs up.. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by tohpahz(f): 7:58pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Emmalaw10: Lol @the reward is in heaven part.. Am working on the stuff oo.. id chip in ur advice.. Thanks |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by Emmalaw10(m): 8:29pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
tohpahz: Anytime dear |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by tpiadotcom: 9:42pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
juicyjoint: Introverts are caring people, it comes with that particular temperament. If you see an introvert who is not caring, then that's something else and their character needs to be reanalyzed for proper placement. Some introverts might stop showing this part of their nature if people consider it a negative, a weakness or take advantage of them because of it. Its all about conditioning. Melancholics in this context, are known for being too affected by what goes on around them, more than other temperaments. I agree some may be too introspective or withdrawn to be caring. |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by tohpahz(f): 9:46pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
tpiadotcom: Thanks. I think mine is cause i feel people might take advantage of it /weakness.. |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by tpiadotcom: 9:51pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
Yes, it can be a negative if not harnessed. |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by Nobody: 10:55pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
tpiadotcom: You are very much right, i remember i used to be very caring while growing up but when i saw the reality of life and how cruel people can be, i just started sinking in gradually. At this point, it will take some serious conditioning to make me as caring as i was back then. Secondly, i think the problem is because we introverts find it hard to fake love and care (this is just an hypothesis). Personally, i wont pretend to care for anyone, if i don't feel like it, i don't see any reason to force it, and i don't feel like it most of the times. So what are your tips for the conditioning you mentioned, you sound very much like a psychologist 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by luvablesam(m): 11:31pm On Apr 05, 2015 |
tohpahz: U are in a wrong profession then...Nurses n teachers are suppose to care the most but in Nigeria the case is always different. Caring is either natural or built/ developed. U can build it. Do u know u can get to the front of any event or activity(when you are late) by just creating a 45 second relationship with the person in front of u? Oh u boy grew so big already,Av u eaten?, I missed u or love u shldnt be a biggie. it won't reduce your earnings or status. just learn!. |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by tohpahz(f): 7:26am On Apr 06, 2015 |
luvablesam: U didnt read my post well.. |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by luvablesam(m): 7:53am On Apr 06, 2015 |
tohpahz: what did I miss out? |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by Nobody: 8:21am On Apr 06, 2015 |
luvablesam: She is caring to patients. |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by luvablesam(m): 8:22am On Apr 06, 2015 |
juicyjoint: oh, ok |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by Nobody: 11:11pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Nurse in Nigeria, really? |
Re: How Do I Become Caring??? by eleganteunice: 11:48pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
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