tohpahz:


Thanks. I think mine is cause i feel people might take advantage of it /weakness..

This is actually the reason most people who are 'not caring' are the way the are. I actually wanted to write just that and maybe explain, but you did.

It is just FEAR. Fear of abandonment of some sort. Fear that people would take one for granted if one '1st' showed love or care. A huge ego or in some instances, a not too great self confidence/belief usually also goes with/feeds this fear.

The best way to beat this is to fight this fear. And thee are practical steps that can be so taken.

Wish I could type more but can't for now. All da best tho

taharqa:


This is actually the reason most people who are 'not caring' are the way the are. I actually wanted to write just that and maybe explain, but you did.

It is just FEAR. Fear of abandonment of some sort. Fear that people would take one for granted if one '1st' showed love or care. A huge ego or in some instances, a not too great self confidence/belief usually also goes with/feeds this fear.

The best way to beat this is to fight this fear. And thee are practical steps that can be so taken.

Wish I could type more but can't for now. All da best tho

Thanks dear..

tohpahz:


Thanks dear..

No p....

tohpahz:
I have really tried to be caring, but it just seems like i cant ever be.. it affects my r/ship with people on a major scale.. and am tired of always apologizing and promising to change ..
Although am a nurse and people expect me to be caring.. i am actually caring to my patients (patients care i guess is different from normal socio-interactive care ) because i cant seem to bring that whole loving nature in interactions with friends..
Any suggestions please??

helo Start campaigning,get a campaign manager,photo editor,mk ur present felt on romance lander d more, use all ur nairaland bfnds lol.both ur enemies etc

12ways
1. Become a Mugu yourself
2. Don't ask for sex
3. Fix her problem, i mean financial problem
4. Fight for her
5. Always say i love you and i'm sorry
6. Buy things for her?
7. Ask questions like have you eaten? why do you look sad? have you got home? Don't you know i'v been missing you? Do you want to kill me?
8. Don't ask question like who is that guy? where are you coming from?
9. Give her money
8. I say give her money.
9. Give her more money
10. Don't stop giving her more money
Thank me later.

peeparty:
helo Start campaigning,get a campaign manager,photo editor,mk ur present felt on romance lander d more, use all ur nairaland bfnds lol.both ur enemies etc

Lolzz.. am doing all that.. u seen my pm??

nop resend

tohpahz:


Lolzz.. am doing all that.. u seen my pm??

tohpahz:


Lolzz.. am doing all that.. u seen my pm??

hello

u av to undastand ur temperament first very well before u will be able to av a good rapor wt people. Read "why we act d way we do" by Tim Lahaye. it will help u a lot.

tohpahz:
I have really tried to be caring, but it just seems like i cant ever be.. it affects my r/ship with people on a major scale.. and am tired of always apologizing and promising to change ..
Although am a nurse and people expect me to be caring.. i am actually caring to my patients (patients care i guess is different from normal socio-interactive care ) because i cant seem to bring that whole loving nature in interactions with friends..
Any suggestions please??

..whats up dear

RapAcme:
..whats up dear

Evening.. am okay.. u??

darexkey:
u av to undastand ur temperament first very well before u will be able to av a good rapor wt people. Read "why we act d way we do" by Tim Lahaye. it will help u a lot.

I've read that.. thanks though.. i appreciate

tohpahz:

I've read that.. thanks though.. i appreciate

ok then, letz chat beta on whatsapp 07039359066 or bbm 7f65a1a8

darexkey:

ok then, letz chat beta on whatsapp 07039359066 or bbm 7f65a1a8

Okay..

tohpahz:

Okay..

Tohpahz
hope u gat ma mail?

tohpahz:


Evening.. am okay.. u??

same here dear..i am david smarts a.k.a tha-rapacme(the 1st son of kr0ne,,jason21 sold hs birthright 2 me lol )......

Cn we chat on facebook/whatsapp??

RapAcme:
same here dear..i am david smarts a.k.a tha-rapacme(the 1st son of kr0ne,,jason21 sold hs birthright 2 me lol )......

Cn we chat on facebook/whatsapp??

sold what??

Jason21:

sold what??

mogbe!!!. oga fyh ah bow..lol,was just joking tho

where av u been bro? Missed ur scripts especially the flow in them