ok, he's 6'1. he's not my bro but a verygood friend of mine , i guess u could call him that too . i just want to find a nice girl for him . he has been single for 3 yrs, very responsible, not the player type. does ur sis know u're trying to find her a man ?

fem29:


Oooo cool , She is an anti money laundering specialist.

She is finding it hard to find non gay suitable guys in San fran. How tall is your bro my sis is a bit taller than me and I'm 6ft

aflyingbird:
ok, he's 6'1. he's not my bro but a verygood friend of mine , i guess u could call him that too . i just want to find a nice girl for him . he has been single for 3 yrs, not the player type. does ur sis know u're trying to find her a man ?

Sounds good , I'm going to send you an email, so we can arrange.

fem29:



Thanks Hun

Eeyah funny enough she moved from nyc about 6 months ago for work.

Ur name is not exactly appetising tho

I'm a good guy, pls don't get swayed by the name.

I'm kind and pleasant.

Are you sure obowunmi is not trolling? Who starts a story or conversation by saying 'i'm from a very wealthy family'. Total turn off for me, i don't know about others tho.

veave:
Are you sure obowunmi is not trolling? Who starts a story or conversation by saying 'i'm from a very wealthy family'. Total turn off for me, i don't know about others tho.

What is trolling and why would I troll?

ifyalways:
Hahaha.

Obo is back. Wait make I call Slimyem first.

Seriously, enough of your " I'm from a wealthy family ish". It's old. Enough of buying expensive gifts to guilt trip Babes into dating you.
Brb

lol. You never forget to call me out when he shows up.he is a joker though and anyone who's been here long enough would know that.

@obowunmi..agba ma ti'n de...when will these stories come different?

slimyem:
lol. You never forget to call me out when he shows up.he is a joker though and anyone who's been here long enough would know that.

@obowunmi..agba ma ti'n de...when will these stories come different?

Will date me? I'm told you're married and with child now.

I lnow, I'm 31 and nothing is working out for me. It's pathetic. What else should I do?

I want to come on Nairaland with a changed story but I don't know. O ti sun mi. I tire.

You would think money can fix everything but No, the world is not round.

Yadoctora:
You would think money can fix everything but No, the world is not round.

The world may not be a perfect circle, but who lied to you that it isn't round?

And what else makes it go round apart from money?

op your post sounds like a joke

No offence meant.

SirShymexx:


The world may not be a perfect circle, but who lied to you that it isn't round?

And what else makes it go round apart from money?

chai! I meant to say the world is not a circle.

Well, I do know that money is not all.

slimyem:
lol. You never forget to call me out when he shows up.he is a joker though and anyone who's been here long enough would know that.

@obowunmi..agba ma ti'n de...when will these stories come different?

i still cannot believe you didn't give obowunmi a chance. i thought you guys were into something last year. what happened? did you discover he's impotent or what?

Yadoctora:


chai! I meant to say the world is not a circle.

Well, I do know that money is not all.

Hmmm...I hear that.

But in this age of materialism - money doeth all things and it's all about the benjamins.

Money, power, and respect.

SirShymexx:


Hmmm...I hear that.

But in this age of materialism - money doeth all things and it's all about the benjamins.

Money, power, and respect.

Our experiences are different. So, I respect your opinion.

Have you tried to think of what you can bring to a relationship if you don't have all this money?

Yadoctora:


Our experiences are different. So, I respect your opinion.

Lol. Dead presidents don't care about the nuances in all kinds of experiences - that's why human beings are the only living things on this planet who pay for almost everything.

Are you telling me that in Ibadan, you lot survive without money?

coogar:


i still cannot believe you didn't give obowunmi a chance. i thought you guys were into something last year. what happened? did you discover he's impotent or what?

Looooool.... trust me, my fdick, works and gets me into so much trouble.

oluite:
Have you tried to think of what you can bring to a relationship if you don't have all this money?

Interesting question but NO!

hit the dating and meetup segments. There are some seriously searching sisters there too.

BTW, a seriously rich boy has most of his problems solved...just find a girl who believes in your seriousness ni.

SirShymexx:


Lol. Dead presidents don't care about the nuances in all kinds of experiences - that's why human beings are the only living things on this planet who pay for almost everything.

Are you telling me that in Ibadan, you lot survive without money?

We survive with money and more. Money is important but so are other things. The bold suggests that

Yadoctora:


We survive with money and more. Money is important but so are other things. The bold suggests that

With the "almost" - I was indirectly saying the only thing I use freely without paying for, is air. I pay for everything else.

Can you see how important money is now?

Darn! I need to move to Ibadan then - to get some of ya freebies. Is amala also free in Ibadan? - lawd knows I need a taste of the food, served with delicious vegetable soup.

SirShymexx:


With the "almost" - I was indirectly saying the only thing I use freely without paying for, is air. I pay for everything else.

Can you see how important money is now?

Darn! I need to move to Ibadan then - to get some of ya freebies. Is amala also free in Ibadan? - lawd knows I need a taste of the food, served with delicious vegetable soup.

You pay for love, friendship, loyalty

Yadoctora:


You pay for love, friendship, loyalty

In what context, though?

If it's about chics, in getting to know them - to get the love, friendship, and loyalty - you have to spend money. Taking a chic out on date do cost money. I'd say the least I've spent on a date with a chic is £70. Also, every time a chic comes to ya house, you have to be a good host - and that cost money as well. And all these are in the process of acquiring/attaining the things you listed.

It's all about the benjamins, baby.

What is the matter?

SirShymexx:


In what context, though?

The moment context comes to play is the moment the argument is over It means you agree that money can't get all of these in a context beyond chyking (is that an English word?) Money is not all afterall. My statement was made as a generalisation.

Now to d chic matter.

If it's about chics, in getting to know them - to get the love, friendship, and loyalty - you have to spend money. Taking a chic out on date do cost money. I'd say the least I've spent on a date with a chic is £70. Also, every time a chic comes to ya house, you have to be a good host - and that cost money as well. And all these are in the process of acquiring/attaining the things you listed.

Does the money always earn you the love, friendship and loyalty? No. I'm sure that not all the girls you spent on fell in love with you You could have spent money in the quest of getting to know her but friendship gets built on personality traits. The reason she becomes loyal to you must be trust,gained from friendship .Maybe your emotional investment cum trust developed can make her love you.

It's all about the benjamins, baby.

Nothing is all about the benjamins dear. I for example, am too proud to base any relationship on the benjamins.

obowunmi:
What is the matter?

Keep praying and stop thinking your family background matters in your quest for love.

Yadoctora:

The moment context comes to play is the moment the argument is over It means you agree that money can't get all of these in a context beyond chyking (is that an English word?) Money is not all afterall. My statement was made as a generalisation.

Now to d chic matter.

Does the money always earn you the love, friendship and loyalty? No. I'm sure that not all the girls you spent on fell in love with you You could have spent money in the quest of getting to know her but friendship gets built on personality traits. The reason she becomes loyal to you must be trust,gained from friendship .Maybe your emotional investment cum trust developed can make her love you.

Nothing is all about the benjamins dear. I for example, am too proud to base any relationship on the benjamins.

The context doesn't deflate my argument - I was just trying to ascertain what tangent to go with. If it had been just everything you alluded to in a vacuum, without sex (male/female) attached to it, I would have explained it from a different POV.

Let's say it is just normal friendship now. Basically, people come into ya life to either add, divide, or subtract - and it is always for a reason. And when you break the reason down in the current clime/consciousness, it is always materialistic. Now, take the hawk-eye view of what materialism means directly/indirectly in the world we live in today, with a nucleus in capitalism - and you'd come to money lol. Alie?

That said, I'd say in trying to earn the loyalty, love, and friendship - I do have to spend money on dates, phone calls, fuel/transportation etc.. Nothing is absolutely free...cash rules everything.

Additionally, these days, chic don't even fall in love (that is if you believe in conditional love) based on emotional investment - they do so based on things they can see and feel. It is more physical than emotional. And money sure do play a pivotal role in that. That is why anyone who has been around the block will always tell you to stay away from chics if ya money ain't right...it is like going to war loool.

I think you are living in denial lol. Dead presidents rule planet earth from their base in after-life, believe that.

SirShymexx:


The context doesn't deflate my argument - I was just trying to ascertain what tangent to go with. If it had been just everything you alluded to in a vacuum, without sex (male/female) attached to it, I would have explained it from a different POV.

ok

Let's say it is just normal friendship now. Basically, people come into ya life to either add, divide, or subtract - and it is always for a reason. And when you break the reason down in the current clime/consciousness, it is always materialistic. Now, take the hawk-eye view of what materialism means directly/indirectly in the world we live in today, with a nucleus in capitalism - and you'd come to money lol. Alie?

You meet many of your friends from school, your social circle or place of work. You are meeting in the first place for other reasons than money. Maybe a coursemate you have a project to work on with, or a co worker you share a cubicle with, etc. The reason you allow them into your lives beyond the work that has brought you together will likely not be the money you'll get from them. They'r probably fun loving like you are, or share same religious belief, share your interest and are good for enlightening discourse, etc. It is rare for money to be the basis. When money is the basis, it usually does not last. And even when money is d basis, you don't pay to have them as friends. Rather, there is a give and take situation.

That said, I'd say in trying to earn the loyalty, love, and friendship - I do have to spend money on dates, phone calls, fuel/transportation etc.. Nothing is absolutely free...cash rules everything.

If you have to absolutely do the spending, it is no longer friendship. You have become their adopted father or uncle. When u spend on friends, they are expected to spend on you as well.

Additionally, these days, chic don't even fall in love (that is if you believe in conditional love) based on emotional investment - they do so based on things they can see and feel. It is more physical than emotional. And money sure do play a pivotal role in that. That is why anyone who has been around the block will always tell you to stay away from chics if ya money ain't right...it is like going to war loool.

I believe people don't just fall in love and is why I mentioned friendship->trust->loyalty->love
Money might play a role but it is not all.

I think you are living in denial lol. Dead presidents rule planet earth from their base in after-life, believe that.

Yeah. They do by the laws they made before dying? if not, can u explain what u mean?

I think what the op needs is a evasive and mysterious woman who would keep you guessing. She may not be as beautiful as u r used to but she would be more intellectual than anything you have ever seen. You should contact me.

tomatoJos:
I think what the op needs is a evasive and mysterious woman who would keep you guessing. She may not be as beautiful as u r used to but she would be more intellectual than anything you have ever seen. You should contact me.

How do you mean? Pls explain

obowunmi:


How do you mean? Pls explain

. To get an extraordinary feeling,you need an extraordinary person in extraordinary circumstances.

Yadoctora:

ok

You meet many of your friends from school, your social circle or place of work. You are meeting in the first place for other reasons than money. Maybe a coursemate you have a project to work on with, or a co worker you share a cubicle with, etc. The reason you allow them into your lives beyond the work that has brought you together will likely not be the money you'll get from them. They'r probably fun loving like you are, or share same religious belief, share your interest and are good for enlightening discourse, etc. It is rare for money to be the basis. When money is the basis, it usually does not last. And even when money is d basis, you don't pay to have them as friends. Rather, there is a give and take situation.


If you have to absolutely do the spending, it is no longer friendship. You have become their adopted father or uncle. When u spend on friends, they are expected to spend on you as well.

I believe people don't just fall in love and is why I mentioned friendship->trust->loyalty->love
Money might play a role but it is not all.


Yeah. They do by the laws they made before dying? if not, can u explain what u mean?

Apart from childhood friends and those you meet before you started having responsibilities - there is always a motive involved when you meet people. And I believe that is the context this back and forth is about. So, the add, subtract, and divide analogy is still applicable - with materialism as the nucleus of whatever the motive is.

Whenever I meet new people, the relationship is always about what we can do together to make money and build something to create wealth. Else, I don't need new friends - I have more than enough childhood friends, with friendship based on supreme loyalty.

Yes, money does play a huge role in how a relationship blossoms, and mere getting chics. Without money, you are ya own. What chic doesn't like comfort? Do you even know how excited chics get when they meet you and find out of you have a good job, got ya own place, and drive a nice car - despite still being young? That right there unlocks any chic faster than emotional investment lol.

Dead presidents = money lol. Money is called dead presidents cos a lot of the images on most currencies are former presidents/rulers who are long dead and gone. I use a lot of urban slangs in my posts, you will get used to it with time.