Toks2008:


Women are the first wonder of the world.

A woman wants a man who will be faithful to only her but will always prefer to be with a man that other women want....strange people.

grad2012:
my broda how i wish u men can just stay just for one person, even after a woman is married she has to be prayerful.

pafestula:

my wife read our conversation and discovered am indeed innocent, but she is kind of moody.

please how can I make my wife happy?

The lady in question is a Nurse and 28 years old.

Fairgodwin:
Counter thread? Thank God you're already married and thank God your wife already saw all the chats and equally saw that you're innocent. Not much work to do there. Just take her out on a date kind of, and give her a nice treat. Then tell her the lady was never your taste or class in the first place; and make her know and understand that you would [still] prefer her to a million of that lady anytime anyday.
I know you already know the words to use, sir. You can block the lady on whatsapp. Enjoy your marriage, sir.

grad2012:
yes u are rit i was tinking of it,probably he led d gal on cos if not i wonder why d gal just woke up and sent him unclad pix . But have u thought of it if his wife dint come home dat day wat will he have done wen he sees d unclad pixs.

Kobeje:



I agree.

Let me add that you should have blocked the lady on watsapp since she started sending unsolicited messages. Should have been a srich in time saving nine.

Fairgodwin:
Counter thread? Thank God you're already married and thank God your wife already saw all the chats and equally saw that you're innocent. Not much work to do there. Just take her out on a date kind of, and give her a nice treat. Then tell her the lady was never your taste or class in the first place; and make her know and understand that you would [still] prefer her to a million of that lady anytime anyday.
I know you already know the words to use, sir. You can block the lady on whatsapp. Enjoy your marriage, sir.

Brugo:


Hmmmm. Nurse Tohpahz. You see wetin your fellow nurse dey do? All these dangerous nurses sef.

tohpahz:


So u r saying d wife shud leave d husband or what??

pafestula:
Happy Easter to you all Nairalanders, please I need your mature and candid advise on this issue.

I want to go straight to the point here, last year July 2014, a friend of mine visited me in my house one Saturday afternoon, we were drinking together when his phone rang, a lady he scheduled for a date called him that she was waiting for him at First Bank side, then he rushed his drinks and pleaded I followed him to pick this lady, he also stressed further that he wouldn't like the lady to know his house, am married but my wife and kids resides in another country, but my so called friend is still single, so I complied...

I drove him and we picked the lady with my car to an hotel he has already arranged before coming to me, to cut the long story short, the lady refused entering hotel room with him, based on the fact they just met bla bla bla.

I later dropped both of them in their respective home and drove back to mine house around 8:45pm, when it was around 10pm, the lady called me and thanked me and asked about my welfare, she collected my phone number when she came down from my car in the presence of my friend, later saw her whatsapp message also.

This lady developed serious feelings towards me within a week, telling me she expected my friend to link us together the day we met, that his failure to do so made her deny entering hotel with him as she saw me first time and admired me so much, I told my friend all I got from this lady in a matured way and showed him the chats, he smiled and gave me full support to date her, but I declined as am married and she is NEVER my taste.

Ever since then, she has been calling, sending romantic texts, even sending airtime and always like to do more, etc, which i do reject, she always try to visit me or I should visit her, on Thursday my family arrived back home for Easter, last night I was with my wife in bed when I grabbed my iPad replying messages and my wife was right beside me, I opened her own whatsapp message and saw about 7 explicit nude pics she sent without my consent, my wife read our conversation and discovered am indeed innocent, but she is kind of moody.

I called the lady this morning and fought with her on phone due to her action, please how can I make my wife happy? and what do you guys think is making my wife Moody? my friend is also on NL reading this now. I called him and explained things to him.

The lady in question is a Nurse and 28 years old.

pafestula:
Happy Easter to you all Nairalanders, please I need your mature and candid advise on this issue.

I want to go straight to the point here, last year July 2014, a friend of mine visited me in my house one Saturday afternoon, we were drinking together when his phone rang, a lady he scheduled for a date called him that she was waiting for him at First Bank side, then he rushed his drinks and pleaded I followed him to pick this lady, he also stressed further that he wouldn't like the lady to know his house, am married but my wife and kids resides in another country, but my so called friend is still single, so I complied...

I drove him and we picked the lady with my car to an hotel he has already arranged before coming to me, to cut the long story short, the lady refused entering hotel room with him, based on the fact they just met bla bla bla.

I later dropped both of them in their respective home and drove back to mine house around 8:45pm, when it was around 10pm, the lady called me and thanked me and asked about my welfare, she collected my phone number when she came down from my car in the presence of my friend, later saw her whatsapp message also.

This lady developed serious feelings towards me within a week, telling me she expected my friend to link us together the day we met, that his failure to do so made her deny entering hotel with him as she saw me first time and admired me so much, I told my friend all I got from this lady in a matured way and showed him the chats, he smiled and gave me full support to date her, but I declined as am married and she is NEVER my taste.

Ever since then, she has been calling, sending romantic texts, even sending airtime and always like to do more, etc, which i do reject, she always try to visit me or I should visit her, on Thursday my family arrived back home for Easter, last night I was with my wife in bed when I grabbed my iPad replying messages and my wife was right beside me, I opened her own whatsapp message and saw about 7 explicit nude pics she sent without my consent, my wife read our conversation and discovered am indeed innocent, but she is kind of moody.

I called the lady this morning and fought with her on phone due to her action, please how can I make my wife happy? and what do you guys think is making my wife Moody? my friend is also on NL reading this now. I called him and explained things to him.

The lady in question is a Nurse and 28 years old.

bukatyne:
@OP:

I can deduce the following:

1. You are a runs guy yourself and just not interested in Aunty Nurse

2. Your friend knows the kind of pperson you are That's why he has the boldness to ask you to play the game with him

3. Aunty Nurse knows you are her customer unfortunately doesn't know that she is not your type. However, her persistence might earn her your sugar cane.

Luckily for you, wifey has seen your innocence but is disappointed you could not tell her off.

Solution: Delete Aunty Nurse's contacts and memory. And repent from all forms of runs. Assure your wife she is the only one eating your sugarcane and make it So.

That your friend: stay away from him, he is evil. Imagine him giving you the permission to sleep with Aunty Nurse

Happy Easter.

pafestula:
Happy Easter to you all Nairalanders, please I need your mature and candid advise on this issue.

I want to go straight to the point here, last year July 2014, a friend of mine visited me in my house one Saturday afternoon, we were drinking together when his phone rang, a lady he scheduled for a date called him that she was waiting for him at First Bank side, then he rushed his drinks and pleaded I followed him to pick this lady, he also stressed further that he wouldn't like the lady to know his house, am married but my wife and kids resides in another country, but my so called friend is still single, so I complied...

I drove him and we picked the lady with my car to an hotel he has already arranged before coming to me, to cut the long story short, the lady refused entering hotel room with him, based on the fact they just met bla bla bla.

I later dropped both of them in their respective home and drove back to mine house around 8:45pm, when it was around 10pm, the lady called me and thanked me and asked about my welfare, she collected my phone number when she came down from my car in the presence of my friend, later saw her whatsapp message also.

This lady developed serious feelings towards me within a week, telling me she expected my friend to link us together the day we met, that his failure to do so made her deny entering hotel with him as she saw me first time and admired me so much, I told my friend all I got from this lady in a matured way and showed him the chats, he smiled and gave me full support to date her, but I declined as am married and she is NEVER my taste.

Ever since then, she has been calling, sending romantic texts, even sending airtime and always like to do more, etc, which i do reject, she always try to visit me or I should visit her, on Thursday my family arrived back home for Easter, last night I was with my wife in bed when I grabbed my iPad replying messages and my wife was right beside me, I opened her own whatsapp message and saw about 7 explicit nude pics she sent without my consent, my wife read our conversation and discovered am indeed innocent, but she is kind of moody.

I called the lady this morning and fought with her on phone due to her action, please how can I make my wife happy? and what do you guys think is making my wife Moody? my friend is also on NL reading this now. I called him and explained things to him.

The lady in question is a Nurse and 28 years old.

IHate9ja1:


See post oh,abeg which one be SugarCane again....?
Lmao

Toks2008:


any woman who leaves her husband based on sexual infidelity is a thourough bred first class dummy because that is exactly wat the other lady wants. Afterall she knows your hubby is married.

A word of advice to laddies with jealous nature..

if you leave your man based on adultery,that is no guaranty that your nxt man will not do worse nd the moment you leave and another lady moves in,that seals ur fate.

Men are very weak when it comes to woman matter and he will not even remember you exist once the new lady starts taking care of him xcept GOd helps u.

pls be informed.

Dyt:
Why is wifey moody?
Oya you too confess, is she sexier than wifey?


Seriously I blame you
The fact you know you never interested, why give her even an inch closer?
Don't lie you were contemplating doing her even if its just once
I don't understand you men
You claim you never interested
Not your taste
Yet you give her all the attention
Shior

Toks2008:


any woman who leaves her husband based on sexual infidelity is a thourough bred first class dummy because that is exactly wat the other lady wants. Afterall she knows your hubby is married.

A word of advice to laddies with jealous nature..

if you leave your man based on adultery,that is no guaranty that your nxt man will not do worse nd the moment you leave and another lady moves in,that seals ur fate.

Men are very weak when it comes to woman matter and he will not even remember you exist once the new lady starts taking care of him xcept GOd helps u.

pls be informed.

bukatyne:


What do you say about a man who leaves his wife because of adultery?

What is the hope that the next wIfe will not change?

Godownchild:


I love ur first post, about the holy spirit being in charge.
But what of the case of bf/gf relationship.
The boy cheaating on the girl, thou the have MouthAction but have not penetrated the vjay cos the girl is against that but does the oral to make him happy since he love sex and said sex is the best tin on earth.
And the girl saw unclad pics of the guy with anoda girl as the were haaving sex puttint d dick in her mouth et al..on his phone by mistake,and he apologised, the friends also apologised on his behalf,
What should the girl do in this case

Toks2008:


Nice one. m

You must understand that when a woman commits adultery,its a dff ball game.

A woman who commits adultery hav a premedidation of it,planned it well and would not mind to do it again and again so its not an act done out of impulse but a fulfilment of a carefully planned action.

Men love sexual conqquest so a man will easily find it easy to divorce a wayward lady wth the excitement of a new lady coming in.

Trust me its not the same situation.

bukatyne:



You mean an adulterous husband's sugarcane just fell into a wet pussy? No prior plan to it?

The earlier We treat an. Adulterous husband /wife. The same way, the better

Even look at the Old Testament that seemed partial to women: a man. & woman caught in adultery had the same punishment.

A cheating husband is NOT better than a cheating wife.

A cheating husband has also planned the act and How to escape before starting.

Toks2008:


It is complicated dearie. Please just accept it that way. A man is naturally polygamous and a lady is expcted to be monogamous.

This is y a lady will gladly share a man with a fellow lady.

Its indeed complicated and any lady who ndstnds this will nver hve infidelity related issues and this is y you hardly see muslim women compln abt infidelity.

just live wth this fact... your man is likely to cht on u even if u r d bst lady on earth but he should do u the honor of taking it far from u. shikenah

bukatyne:


No, he won't

By God's grace

Else that is the death of the marriage

Dyt:
Why is wifey moody?
Oya you too confess, is she sexier than wifey?


Seriously I blame you
The fact you know you never interested, why give her even an inch closer?
Don't lie you were contemplating doing her even if its just once
I don't understand you men
You claim you never interested
Not your taste
Yet you give her all the attention
Shior