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4 Reasons Why He's Not Initiating Sex Anymore by Mannylex(m): 2:31pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
We all go through ups and downs in a long term relationship. I am no exception to this rule. One thing I’ve noticed in relationships , is that there can be a phase in which your husband, boyfriend, or partner is no longer initiating sex with you. You may be thinking thoughts like “I’m not sexy anymore” “He doesn’t think I’m sexy” “He’s not attracted to me anymore”…. You are all up in your head spinning a hundred different stories. You might even feel a little resentful or hurt for him not attacking you passionately like he used to. Now, can I ask you a question? How many times did you say “no” or “stop” in some form or another before he stopped trying? If that isn’t the case you are probably going to be looking more towards #4. So I am going to share with you 4 Real Life Reasons Why He Has Stopped Initiating Sex. #1. He Is Protecting Himself. Weird, isn’t this one of the reasons you don’t initiate either? He doesn’t want to be turned down anymore – he is protecting his feelings. #2. He Is Protecting You. If you’re like some women, you might have been experiencing pain during sex and had to stop him for that reason. He feels like he was hurting you and of course he doesn’t want to hurt you. Therefore, in attempts to protect you he is not pushing the matter. He think you will initiate when you are ready. #3. He Is Insecure and Unsure. Behind his tough, confident, manly front (which he probably feels he needs to have) he doesn’t know what to do exactly in order to please you (because you probably haven’t told him exactly how to do that). He might be thinking that he can’t make you feel good, that he doesn’t have the moves or looks anymore, or that you aren’t as attracted to HIM. The above three reasons are tricky situations that can turn into a vicious cycle – BUT it doesn’t have to. You can have the life (including great sex) you desire, filled with a deep, intimate connection with the man you love. If intuitively you don’t feel that the above 3 reasons are what is going on then check out #4 below. #4. He Is Super Stressed and/or Exhausted. It isn’t always about you. I know hard to believe sometimes… but really, he could just be really drained from outside circumstances such as work, school, a health situation, situations with family or friends that are emotionally draining. It has happens to all of us at different times, and he is no exception. What are your thoughts? Have you experienced a different situation? Have no fear; Mannylex is here |
Re: 4 Reasons Why He's Not Initiating Sex Anymore by Nobody: 2:33pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Booked |
Re: 4 Reasons Why He's Not Initiating Sex Anymore by ZedX6: 2:35pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
He wants to dump your ass. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why He's Not Initiating Sex Anymore by Tallesty1(m): 2:38pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Smelly Kitty |
Re: 4 Reasons Why He's Not Initiating Sex Anymore by greatestboss(m): 2:44pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Enlarged holes... |
Re: 4 Reasons Why He's Not Initiating Sex Anymore by REDBUNNY(f): 2:47pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Or maybe he is getting it from someone else. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why He's Not Initiating Sex Anymore by Sparrow13: 2:49pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
He want to change soup |
Re: 4 Reasons Why He's Not Initiating Sex Anymore by Nobody: 2:56pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
because he believes in 'variety' much like I do lol |
Re: 4 Reasons Why He's Not Initiating Sex Anymore by ladibright(f): 3:03pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
#noted.. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why He's Not Initiating Sex Anymore by dharay99: 3:06pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
yhur list is definitely incomplete. |
Re: 4 Reasons Why He's Not Initiating Sex Anymore by Nobody: 3:18pm On Apr 06, 2015 |
Majorly when I'm tired of hearing "no" I just park well and sleep by myself If kanji catch me wella so tay I no fit contain am, I go find someone else... No time for iranu |
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