Teespice:




being a fiancee is one thing, getting married and sacrificing your job is another different thing.

haven't you read stories in this same section where promises are made pointing to this direction and at the end no results.

na wa oooooo.

besides as someone rightly pointed out, if eventually he does open the pharmacy for her, does she have the licence to dispense drugs?

Very calm and unemotional post so I will respond

Yes he is d fiance now which is the step before becoming a hubby

Life plans don't start from wedding day

Yes some people have gone back in their words post wedding but this is still not applicable to every one.

As the woman she has to use her judgement to decipher the true intent

Some have done it and prospered

This particular op was not sure of his plans for her hence the words....the man who claimed to love me

pickabeau1:


Very calm and unemotional post so I will respond

Yes he is d fiance now which is the step before becoming a hubby

Life plans don't start from wedding day

Yes some people have gone back in their words post wedding but this is still not applicable to every one.

As the woman she has to use her judgement to decipher the true intent

Some have done it and prospered

This particular op was not sure of his plans for her hence the words....the man who claimed to love me

Hmmm

kaboninc:


Hmmm

Dude..whats d issue

Why r u stalking me

pickabeau1:


Dude..whats d issue

Why r u stalking me

Good morning!

I wanted to say 'good morning'.

kaboninc:


Good morning!

I wanted to say 'good morning'.

Ok...if u say so
Morning to you also

pickabeau1:


Ok...if u say so
Morning to you also

Yeah.

Thanks.

Have a swell day today!

Cheers!

u did the right thing. thank God it happened b4 marriage. move on and stop regretting

pickabeau1:


Very calm and unemotional post so I will respond

Yes he is d fiance now which is the step before becoming a hubby

Life plans don't start from wedding day

Yes some people have gone back in their words post wedding but this is still not applicable to every one.

As the woman she has to use her judgement to decipher the true intent

Some have done it and prospered

This particular op was not sure of his plans for her hence the words....the man who claimed to love me

I feel she has compromised enough sef.

she wants to work for at least two years, then resign

she would work her transfer back to ph which would make it easier for her to commute, he refused.

he's saying he wants to open a drug store for her, has he considered that she does not have the required licence.

I agree that life plans does not start from the wedding. from what I have read, a man who loves her and wants her to succeed would reach a compromise, hence her use of the word "claims to love me".

Op has made her decision, all this one we are saying is additional jara.

Teespice:


I feel she has compromised enough sef.

she wants to work for at least two years, then resign

she would work her transfer back to ph which would make it easier for her to commute, he refused.

he's saying he wants to open a drug store for her, has he considered that she does not have the required licence.

I agree that life plans does not start from the wedding. from what I have read, a man who loves her and wants her to succeed would reach a compromise, hence her use of the word "claims to love me".

Op has made her decision, all this one we are saying is additional jara.

I brought up life plans starting because you said he was not her husband

Her compromising or not is based on one side of the story

She made the best decision granted
Is it the right decision is another one ONLY TIME WILL TELL.

pickabeau1:


I brought up life plans starting because you said he was not her husband

Her compromising or not is based on one side of the story

She made the best decision granted
Is it the right decision is another one ONLY TIME WILL TELL.

lol

no wahala.

Good decision miss Op. Especially due to the fact that your siblings depends on you. Its really a bad situation to be in.

Yes, I support the Op but if I was the man, I don't think I can marry a woman who works in another city while I work in another city. That's not marriage to me! Both are supposed to be living together.

There is no right or wrong in this situation.
Starting out life with a man is based on your personal conviction , dreams and aspirations.
We were told to marry a man who we share the same dreams with. So why do people expect her to halt her dreams and jump ship?
Funny thing is she might meet another man and move for much less.
Aside from the financial help to her family , she needs to be sure she is doing the right thing.
i wish the poster well, and she should never ever regret her decision.

God bless you. Beta pikin.

JeffreyJamez:
You made the best and wisest decision... considering the fact that you're the one taking care of your younger ones and parents. You weren't being selfish. Marriage is not by force.... and to think he said he will open a pharmacy AFTER the marriage?.... Dude is evil..if he really wanted you to quit,he would make the provisions available before talking trash. That's how he will marry you now and turn you to baby-making machine. Pharmacy you no go see, money for chop go be war, money to give your parents and cater for your younger ones go turn issue... abeg he should move on....you too move on, a better and more reasonable guy would come your way, trust me.