stadora:
A man that told a girl he impregnated to get rid of the pregnancy, Does he Stil deserve her love?
your honest contributions please

samuelson06:
What if the man was not prepared for the baby? Instead of bringing a child they won't be able to raise, don't you think they should abort it?

ronald4lif:


A D&C is not the problem. The problem is why did he impregnate someone when he isn't ready to take responsibility of his actions and why should the lady still put up with such an irresponsible man. You get?

samuelson06:


In such situation, you can't completely blame the man and say he's irresponsible. Women can also be the problem but at the end it's the man that would be held responsible for the act just because it resulted to pregnancy. Remember, we also have female condom, so why didn't the woman used condom? Do you know that some women resist condom use? What if they were carried away by pleasure? So why should the man be the one who should take the responsibility now when both of them caused the problem? I still feel that the woman should abort the pregnancy and still stay with him if the man wants the pregnancy aborted. Atleast it's going to be for their collective good.

samuelson06:


In such situation, you can't completely blame the man and say he's irresponsible. Women can also be the problem but at the end it's the man that would be held responsible for the act just because it resulted to pregnancy. Remember, we also have female condom, so why didn't the woman used condom? Do you know that some women resist condom use? What if they were carried away by pleasure? So why should the man be the one who should take the responsibility now when both of them caused the problem? I still feel that the woman should abort the pregnancy and still stay with him if the man wants the pregnancy aborted. Atleast it's going to be for their collective good.

ronald4lif:


I read through this a double time but still couldn't understand your logic, sorry. I am not a lawyer but what you're saying here can not stand the scrutiny of any law court. I can bet on that. One had sex with a woman and it resulted to a pregnancy, dodging from taking the responsibility of his action then come out and say the woman should have used a condom? Seriously? This is a new one to me.

With my limited knowledge of parental rights or pregnancy cases, women are always on the advantage and giving the benefit of the doubt in a tribunal. The man is solely responsible for getting a woman pregnant and if anyone is expected to wear a protective vessel he should be the one to. Not the woman. He's the one who ej*culate, and not the woman. So if you don't want a baby then keep your pr*ck out of a woman punnah or wear protection.

Although I'll advise she undergo a D&C as it will be simply unreasonable and st*pid to have a baby of someone who doesn't want to be man enough, but the guy should be appreciative if she even considers one. He got her pregnant and he should take care of the baby. Period. Baby mamas is a lucrative business in saner climes bro. Women are looking for men to pregnate them and watch them drain half of your income as a child support. The mumu should zip up biko.

And why should she continue in the relationship with such a man who is shying away from his responsibility. So he f*cks her again and she keeps aborting for him. What an absurdity.

samuelson06:


In such situation, you can't completely blame the man and say he's irresponsible. Women can also be the problem but at the end it's the man that would be held responsible for the act just because it resulted to pregnancy. Remember, we also have female condom, so why didn't the woman used condom? Do you know that some women resist condom use? What if they were carried away by pleasure? So why should the man be the one who should take the responsibility now when both of them caused the problem? I still feel that the woman should abort the pregnancy and still stay with him if the man wants the pregnancy aborted. Atleast it's going to be for their collective good.

ireneidiva:

Mehn, the way you say abortion makes it look so simple. Do you know many girls have died and have damaged their wombs through abortion? If a girl aborts for you and damages her womb, will you still marry her? If she dies in the process, how will you sleep well at night? I believe 2 adults having unprotected sex should take anything they see. Abortion is far too dangerous. If the man refuses to accept the pregnancy, for her own sake, she should keep it and take care of it alone. This is why I preach abstinence, the 5mins pleasure is not worth it.